I want to change my life

the key to the happiness is trying to forgot all the mistake that we had done. starting a new beginning with blank page will help u a lot to make some happiness. it is not easy to forget the mistakes, but try to make other view that human can't be separated from mistakes.everybody makes mistakes

I'll pray for you indahfth, I know how frustrating you may feel and only G♥d can help you and give you the peace you need.

There will always be many challenges in life that you will face. Remember that God will not put you up for a challenge if He does not think you can take it. As such, always rely on Him, the Almighty. He creates us and we belong to Him only. He will always be there for us when no one in this world is. So pray hard, let go and move on...

Hi indahfth good day to you..life is full of sadness and grief and everything. If you're happy now, tomorrow you might be sad. As long as we are here living we can't escape that. No normal people would not experience this cycle of our life. It is up to us how we encounter this. There's a lot of ways how to do it. In your case I think we have the same fate. I have a problem right now (as I write)that pushing me too much. It is more on financial problem. This problem pressured me so much for a couple of months already or even more. The pressure and stress I've felt makes me think I don't have the right to laugh, right to smile because of my big problem. Sometimes I was thinking of doing some unlawful actions to sustain my needs and to solve my kind of problem. But I never did because I am afraid to do so. Making problem to solve another problem is just like your multiplying your problem. Well, what I did, of all what I've done to find solutions and I still failed on what I positively expect, I would face the problem and reason out everything.. And this is what I going to do now, say, 4 hours from now. In our case, as long as we strive to solve the problem and yet we failed, face the reality. We must not force everything that untimely not yet given. Act naturally,if we don't it will fall back to us. And the more we suffer if our health deteriorate due to our problems. Be happy my friend..if rich people has their own kind of problem how much more for the poor people like me... Thanks indahfth..be happy Mobhomeir here..

That is a good resolution, I wish you all the luck and blessing of the God you believe in, to be happy.

I wish you all the best, happiness will bring good health and long life. I know there are things in the world that will make you angry, but you can try everyday to be happy and then it will become part of you life style. All the best.

Good lucky. 1st step of making life more enjoyable: get off mylot

Happiness has a lot to do with attitude, so if you decide to be happy, and do things that make you happy, you probably will be happy!

Well sister, the only way is to follow the right path of Allah. You are in this world temporarily and you are being tested with sadness and happiness and if you remember Allah at both times you will succeed. Have faith in Allah and repent for your sins.

yes, i think u r positive person,sometime we always suffered from the sad things or happy things,but,anyway,everything will be gone. after many days ,even a year,or ten years ,when we rethink what happened before,maybe we will think its like a piece of cake,and appreciate too much the life give us,becz the life is a treasure. when i experenced some grive things , i tried to concentrate on some things i am interested in,after i finished them,i would become happier and happier.and i would forget the unhappy things very soon.hope u have good mood and nice days.

i do hope this point or discussion is the start point you to change your life from a sad time with a happy news.. i realize most of us always get many problems..but dont worry..you must be happy must be happy for your kids

Everyone wants to be happy. However, in our weakest times we tend to lose hope. We forget all the wonderful reasons to live. We lose our strengths to survive. But we are still lucky because we do have a healthy life and that we should take care of. Dying and sufferers of illnesses have the great desire to extend their lives as much as possible. So, let us not shorten ours. For every single minute we live is really worth it.

Hello indafth! That's more like it..that's the spirit..life should be enjoyed. Life is too short to be spent in misery. Spending your life grieving for things you cannot have or for the things you have lost, is futile and would just make you miserable. Live with what you have now, even if it means living with a husband who doesn't know what's caring is all about, living with people who seemed bent on making your day be filled with misery and even if it means not having the things you have longed to have. Enjoy your life, it is a must. We only lived once, but if we lived right, once should be enough.

very goog idea! but i don't think that's the correct way to get happiness.

Yea for you! May you keep that attitude. May I suggest that you read happy stories, and stay away from people who always have a negative attitude.

You are the only one who can change your life. Put the sadness behind you and move forward. Sometimes it is difficult but just take it a day at a time. That is about all that you can do. Positive affirmations are good to go over daily too. They help me alot when I remember to read them. Books and research into co-dependency might be of help to you too.

Try to be around people who love you and whom you love. And surround yourself w/ positive things. Lingering on negative stuff and people wont do you any good, they will just pull you into sorrow and grief. Be happy and think about how God loves you.

I'm giving you a big hug! I hope it helped. I'm sorry you have been feeling sad. Just remember, no matter how bad things are....this too shall pass. Happiness is a choice. I'm glad you chose to be happy. You deserve it. :)

Create something fun. Occasionally, do something fun but very rarely you do. Sometimes people saturated and can not enjoy life because they have to endure all of life's problems alone. Not because they do not have any friends, but because it chose to save all alone. Though increasingly stacked inside, body and soul even more burdened. Should looking for a trustworthy friend and start vent with them regularly. Share the load will make your life more lively and more relaxed. Life depends on the lens that you wear on your eyes when you look at life. If you choose to wear glasses that good and positive, then you'll likely enjoy life and see things very well even though prevented by saturation.

i thinks its really good that ur wanting to be happy and not let yourself get cought up in all the sadness life is for living and even tho things hapen that we dont like there is nothing we can do bout it apart from learn from it and move on. lifes 2 short.