friendship

United States
February 15, 2011 1:01am CST
What do you think I should do I have a friend that I betrayed 3 years ago and did something really bad to her we still talk sometimes and I feel horible for what I did to her what do you think I should do
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7 responses
• United States
16 Feb 11
what should you do about what? you betrayed her..? 3 year ago.? hmmm tell her? also i agree with the rest of them forgive yourselve then apologize to her dont let something like this stand between friendships i still want to know your answer do about what? but yeah reply asap as i will also :D
@EdnaReyes (2628)
• Philippines
16 Feb 11
If you're still in good terms with her, try to talk about it with her. If you think you need some more time, then made it gradually. Keeping something in your conscience could be very stressing and tedious. Let it out and ask for forgiveness. If you think you can't do it yourself, then have someone as your go-in-between. Your friend may react negatively but be ready for it. Before you can be forgiven, you must accept your fault. Good luck and God bless your friendship!
• India
15 Feb 11
If you really feel bad for the act what you did towards her thats it.We are human-beings and we will make mistakes so don't feel bad. Go to her and say sorry for what you do. Explain her that you really feel bad about what you did and want good things to happen. I feel you will feel good.
@webearn99 (1744)
• India
15 Feb 11
First apologize, to her and to yourself too. Forgive yourself, but do not forget what you were capable of. Carry on normal friendship with sincerity.
@dong88 (796)
• China
15 Feb 11
In this world of friendship is very great,is also a very precious.Friends have to consideration for each,understand each other,help each other,so the friendship will last long.
@joygracia (1328)
• Philippines
15 Feb 11
Its best to get that awkwardness of conscience off of your chest. Its best that you ask forgiveness and sincerely show him/her that you didn't mean what you did. Being sincerely true to a friend could be the best thing you could ever render to a good friend.
• Philippines
15 Feb 11
i think that the 1st step would be to forgive yourself. Given that you admit to doing something really awful....it is high time for you to talk to her if you never had the chance to do this before. Before doing this, try to analyse first as to why you did what you did and then explain to your friend what was going on in your head at that time. some friendships may work out and become stronger - others fade because the situation was truly a grave one. in any case, learn from your mistakes and try to be the best friend that you can be to her if she decides to work things out with you -- and never ever do whatever it is that you did before.