STDs

United States
February 17, 2011 10:25pm CST
Ok so this is kind of personal...actually it is very personal but I feel mylot is a place where i can open up. Also in this situation I can help educate others. So I have herpes. I got it on February 16, 2009 and was diagnosed with it on March 9, 2009. I was a really stupid and rebellious teenager and i went and hung out with a guy that my parents had forbidden me to see. He told me we would hang out at the mall for awhile on Feb. 15 then he would take me home, but instead he picked me up and took me back to his house. I did not own a cell phone so I could not call my parents to come and get me. When he did let me call home, I had to tell them i was spending the night at a friends and she would take me to school in the morning and i wasnt allowed to say anything else otherwise he would hurt me. He raped me repeadly on the 16th and then took me home. I was stupid and didnt tell anyone until i had to go to the hospital and missed two weeks of school because i had gotten the herpes. So moral of the story. PLEASE DONT BE LIKE ME! Also, if anyone wants to ask questions or tell me about your experience feel free. I am very open and love to help others.
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10 responses
@pals101 (2011)
• Philippines
18 Feb 11
You're a brave woman to tell this story which is personally confidential. I'm proud of you my friend, we learn on our mistakes and make this as a lesson in life.. :) Hope you will be ok and continue with your life... :) Happy Mylotting..
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• United States
18 Feb 11
Thanks. I feel it is sometimes neccisary to share very personally confidential things to educate others. I have recieved alot of counseling because of this and other than the occasional outbreak I am living life to the fullest. I got lucky in the fact that I did not get a life threatening STD but I was unfortunate because herpes is lifelong. Thank you for your support it means alot that some people realize that just because I purposfully defied my parents doesnt mean that I dont regret what I did everyday of my life. Most teens think they are invinsible and indestructable, and when they do stuff like this happens. I dont wish this on anyone but I wish teens and even adults would realize that these things dont just happen to people "you dont know" it can happen to you.
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@pals101 (2011)
• Philippines
19 Feb 11
thanks for the best response.. everyone makes mistakes, although our parents get angry with us it does not mean they hate us.. :)
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• United States
18 Feb 11
This breaks my heart being I know your pain. I think your a wonderful person to be this strong. I do hope this man gets what is coming to him. I would die if that was my daughter in these shoes.
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• United States
18 Feb 11
Thank you so much gifts. It means alot. It's hard to tell complete strangers my most personal information but I dont want ANYONE to have to go through this. It is the worst pain imaginable. :(
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• United States
18 Feb 11
I told my new therapsit about mymothers olf friend when I was in grade school. She said with all my stress she could not imagine being me. Takke care of yourself dear..
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• United States
18 Feb 11
I am truly sorry to read of such a horrible act this person did to you. I am proud of you for speaking out. This will allow others who perhaps do not feel this too can happen to them can re-think their behavior. Do take care of yourself and perhaps, check online for some organizations that you can perhaps speak to and maybe inspire other teens to change their ways. Not saying you did anything wrong but there might be some really rebellious teens out there that can benefit from listening to you. I will pray for you sweetie as this is a very sad story and perhaps making changes for others will be a blessing. I believe I have welcomed you before, and I have not not welcome aboard.
• United States
18 Feb 11
That is such a great idea! Thank you, I will deffinatly look into finding organizations I can speak to. I would love that! And thank you for welcoming me aboard. I do not remember if you have done it before or not.
@pals101 (2011)
• Philippines
19 Feb 11
hardworkinggurl idea is a nice one.. that would be great if you can do it.. :)
• United States
19 Feb 11
I hope she can too as our teens today are not getting any wiser, they are not taking this seriously. So I am sure it can be so rewarding to turn 1 out of let say 3 kids around.
• India
18 Feb 11
It is great sad thing to hear.These kind of bastaards must be taken into the public and their d**ks should be cut down or shot in front of the public so that everyone will have the fear of not raping.
• United States
18 Feb 11
haha i agree 100%
@rosegardens (3042)
• United States
18 Feb 11
That is a very sad story. I am so sorry that happened to you. I am proud of you to reach out to others after what you went through.
• United States
18 Feb 11
Thank you. I am sorry it happened to me too, but I just hope others can learn from this.
@luckycat (220)
• Bolivia
20 Feb 11
Dear friend.I'm so sorry that happened to you?you are a brave and excellent girl. You deserve a better life.But thanks you for you lesson. Life still goes on.My best wishes to you.my friend.Do take care.
@jazel_juan (15759)
• Philippines
19 Feb 11
oh my.. that must be very hard to go through but i can see that you did and you are very open about this, you did not hide nor rebel more. May God give you more blessings and yes you are educating us, i have a daughter and i am afraid what she will be like in her teens that is why right now i am teaching her well for her to decide well in the future..but then there are things that is hard to control, like that guy you met, who would have known he is some bad person who would hurt you...thank you very much for sharing
@cream97 (29166)
• United States
18 Feb 11
Hi. MHerman09. I am so sorry to hear about this. Even if you may have disobeyed your parents, it is still his fault. He should have not raped you. It is best to go to the police with this information. He is a dirty man and he deserves to be left into jail to rot!
• Philippines
18 Feb 11
i'm really sorry that it happened to you. nobody should go through that. i praise you for being brave and sharing it here. did that perv go to jail for what he did to you? i hope he did!
• China
18 Feb 11
hey, I am sorry to hear that, and i admire your courage to speak it out. and I do believe you can go through it and learn from it . it happened, so i hope you have a happy life in the future and everything will be well