We've been betrayed....watch out: Maybe it would be coming from you family...

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I admit it was all my fault..I was just too much confident and feel relax to express all of my sentiments and life frustrations to my only known friend, my sister in law. We sometimes commit mistakes and nobody can deny that. We humans are subject to commit mistakes. The sad thing was, we've been mistakenly the source of all troubles happened not the issue of the mistake done but to some other issues. First and foremost, she (my sister-in-law) kept on complaining before while her mother stayed with them at the U.S. Kept on complaining her mother's attitude towards their friends. One of the major thing she never like much was by being talkative of (her mother) regarding their personal problems in their home to their friends. Telling their common friends all supposedly not to be told because of the confidentiality of the case. She kept on telling me how her mother being so talkative with their friends, which is really true because it is really true. Being closed with each other in terms of problem sharing I did share also my part every time I felt burden, troubled and nowhere to go to but to someone close and can be trusted on my personal and confidential issues. There's no other way of doing it except by email because I can tell completely all what's in my feeling through writing than talking. The situation was mutual for the past years. Not until when there was family problem erupted not on this issue but another issue. I was shocked to know and even saw it personally all emails that I had sent to her being printed out. All that were printed were all of my emails dated October 2009 being sent to her, expressing also my sentiments at that time. Of course, arguments erupted obviously with my mother-in-law herself pointing us, blaming us that we were the one telling her daughter at the U.S. that she had a bad attitude to her children and blah blah blah.. We were being betrayed... The two, (my parent-in-laws)came to our house and got back all that were given to us by her daughter including also what they all had given to us as what they've been instructed. So hurting right? There was nothing we can do but to give back all what we remembered were given to us by my sister in law. I instructed my wife never to accept anything from them AGAIN even if good terms between us be backed. On the other hand, I could have been counter back also if I would because I had also some of what my sister-in-law's email sent to me about how bad is her mother during her stay with them. But I never did that because I know troubles only be worsen. I just pitied much my wife. She couldn't help but only to cry. Thinking all the shameful act of her sister to us. I said to my self, from now on, NO on anythings they would give to us. I conclude also that my mother-in-law and my sister-in-law are birds with the same feather..(are birds..)no wonder!! I turned this incidents into positive way of pushing me upward. An inspiration to work more...exert more effort and let them see "we know how to rise-up with our own legal ways of achieving it" And to all of our boastful detractors, backbiters and "fans" watch out.. research how the boomerang operates.... I had nothing against my in-laws because in the first place we committed mistakes. It would just be fined if the mistakes committed is the issue-but it was different that turned out of "getting-back-things"..a shameful act to us.. Now is your time..soon it would be ours..Ours is the last hurray!!! Sorry if it's too long for you guys to read..my first time, right? Mobhomir is