a person u like and a person he(she) likes u,which one u choose?

China
February 18, 2011 3:54am CST
hi,everyone... why do so many people have no boyfriends or girlfriends?coz we don't meet someone we like or someone we have special feel...if u are getting older and older,u still have no boyfriends or girlfriends,how would u do?would u like to choose one person u don't like but he(she) loves u?by the way, would u like to follow a person who has no feel on you although u love him(her) very much...this is a neither hard nor easy question.hope u can tell me your real opinion.do u have the problem now? LolaXX
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12 responses
@thanks1961 (7046)
• India
18 Feb 11
Hi dear, If it relates to me, I will go for a person with whom I like to make as my companion. Because, for my liking has importance. Ok, if someone like me and I also like her, the matter is resolved. But only because of someone like me and (if I don’t like her), it will be a burden in life. I got attracted something on her, so that I think her special attractiveness is the plus point and which lead me to lover her. At the same time, I like her and if she don’t like, it will be a despire and this also will not desired fruits. The best way out is that go for someone we/you like and find whether other party also can make the same feeling that we/you have. In this case both the parties have the same opinion and can go ahead. On the other hand, if the question is open, I prefer to get the one I like, and I don’t prefer the one who likes me. But for a successful and meaningful life is the latter case, because we can say that she love me. This is something great to think of. Thank-s
• China
19 Feb 11
hey,honey.ur thought is enlightened.from your word,i find that u r the guy want true love and get happy life,fistly,u can choose someone u like,anyway,if she doesn't like u very much.then u can develop it through the time.good luck!
• India
19 Feb 11
Hi dear, You could read my mind and completed the sentence what I missed out. I really appreciate your view and I am sure that if I like or love someone so deep, even if she don't like so much on me, I can make it worth through the rest of the time what I may get. Why we love or like someone, it only because if we get along together with the person, we can make it complete what is missing out there. Thanks for your response and have a nice day. Thank-s
• China
19 Feb 11
hi,honey! thanks for your response again.my view?maybe i read others' responses again and again coz my english is poor,so i can find something u miss out.in case i didn't miss something important... have a nice day!
@krajibg (11936)
• Guwahati, India
18 Feb 11
Hi fjciolazy, Love can stand only between like minded people or sexes. Here the situation is a bit complex. Since an option is there and yu have to pick up one you have to. If were in such situation I would opt for the second who loves me. I am I am I am and know who I am. It hardly matters if I love her since anytime I could change my purview but getting her true love is something I am not sure. Therefore when I know she loves me I would say yes without delaying.
• China
19 Feb 11
hi,my friend.yes,i agree with your opinion,sometimes love is just between minded people or sexes.and sometimes we can't decide something,just have to do something we have to.don't delay everything if u have idea..._ _
@krajibg (11936)
• Guwahati, India
19 Feb 11
Yes you are right.
• China
19 Feb 11
of couse...i'm right,lollllllllll```
@thatgirl13 (7306)
• South Korea
18 Feb 11
Well i'm still single because i havent found anyone that i like. Actually there is a guy i'm really interested in but i don't know if he feels the same or not. Well actually i think i would consider him if he really loves me, even if i don't coz who knows after being with him for sometime i might start to fall for him too. loving others is a good thing but according to what i feel, being loved is so much better.
• China
19 Feb 11
hi,thatgirl13...u can tell that guy u r interested in.(catch him...)lol..if he has the same feel,u can have a date with him first and then plan future with him.life is just like this.it's up to u.i think being loved is much better too.^_^
• South Korea
19 Feb 11
That for the advise:D I will definitely find my courage and go catch him :) have a good day..
• China
19 Feb 11
yeah.go ahead...honey^_^
19 Feb 11
there are many factors to be consider.. as for deciding which one.. i will choose the One I love,.. but first make sure that he doesn't have someone else, you should know that it's not good to hurt people. second, accept the fact that you are NOT expecting him to love you back. and on the other hand,.. don't date the person you don't like.. You will be the bad guy there. it is clear that you are just using him for your lonely heart.
• China
19 Feb 11
hi,my friend! u r a kind girl...and u r also clever.u can consider many things make sure it's not good to hurt anyone else.i wouldn't date someone i don't like,but u can try to date with him,give a chance for him if he really likes u.honey,thanks for your thinking...
19 Feb 11
Well, you should choose someone you love definitely but make sure that he loves you more than you love him because he will definitely make you happy. And you must remember that no man deserves your tears and when you find someone who deserves your tears, I'm sure he will never make you cry.
• China
19 Feb 11
hi,my friend! choose your love...of couse,choose u love.everyone hope someone love them more than they love.but the less people can get that,hope we could be the less,lol...i'm finding someone who can make me cry and stop my tears...that would be my Mr.right!
• China
19 Feb 11
Hi,fjclolazy! In my opinion,I will choose the one who likes me.Here is my story: I meet a pretty girl two years ago.She is my middle school classmate.Her vivacious deeply attracted me.In fact,I was fall in love with her.I tried my best to care about her.I did everything I could to make her happy.I feel very happy when I stayed with her. Then one day,I summon up courage to purse her.But she refused.It seems that she has no feeling to me.But I didn't give up.But after the many setbacks,I felt tired and doubt about choice.AND NOW,I've given up and let her go.I will choose the one who likes me.Because she will cherish me.
• China
19 Feb 11
hi,my friend@-@ i'm sorry to hear your love story.but happy that u can get something educational from it.hope your choice would be right.but i want to remind u something...don't let someone u really like go.i'm afraid that u stay with someone u don't love ,you wouldn't get real happy,and then u may waste the girl's time.stay with the girl u really love,come on,try your best.if u can't let her love u.ok,let she go!hope my opinion is good for u^_^
@katie0 (5212)
• Japan
19 Feb 11
I think we have to give a thought to people who love us. I always gave it a chance, I value who loved me too much. I think people who have selfesteem cares for those who loves them and those who keep chasing the impossible actually don't love them selves that's why they like getting hurt. I think we must of course follow our heart first and even though a guy might love me if I really see him as a friend then there's no reason to get into relationship.
• China
19 Feb 11
hi,my friend. your analysis is perfect.everyone has their chances.if someone loves me,i can make friend with him first,and then think of him,if i still don't love him.so i must stay far from him.lollll^_^
• Philippines
19 Feb 11
hi fjclolazy, just wondering... have you found your mr. right?=) can you share with us your love story?=)
• China
19 Feb 11
HI,MY FRIEND! sorry...it's a pity,i haven't found my mr right...but i have a story of my love...lol```i will write in my next discuss...welcome to read later...^_^
@Ichiru101 (285)
• United States
18 Feb 11
I would pick the one that liked me. Mainly cause I rather feel love and see if I can return the it than try it on someone who is not interested and wasting my time.
• China
19 Feb 11
hi,my friend! put sometime on someone who is not interested in u is stupid.if he/she doesn't like u,u will lose feeling on hime/her.and then have a bad time.don't waste our time.we must live a happy life.come on!
@dreamnishu (1253)
• China
18 Feb 11
hello friend! i have a boy friend.he loves me a lot.i also me him.at first i did not love him.his love learnt me to love him.i always prefer a person who loves me.if i love a person so much but he did not love me it make my life like a hell.but if a person love me then his love make love for him in my heart.it is my thinking.so i always like a parson who love me. thanks a lot.
• China
19 Feb 11
hi,my friend!i perfer a person who loves me.but i must make sure i don't hate him.lol...of couse!and u must be sure he is a good guy.have a good time!
• China
18 Feb 11
hi, fjcloazy. I broke up my exboyfriend the last year. He dose love even now. but i cannot be together with him any more because of my family. If i am in this situation, I will choose someone who love me more than I love him. Because i am girl , i think girls easier get hurt than boys .If you choose a good boy who love you very much , you will get a happy life . .Maybe you would say me selfish. But i do think it is better chice for girls.
• China
19 Feb 11
hi,my friend,u r not selfish.u choose the right side,and a clear decision.girls must stand their own ways to think everything.sometimes not just for love and just for themselves.we need happy life.hope u can find a nice guy and have happy life.good luck,honey!
@EdnaReyes (2628)
• Philippines
18 Feb 11
Hi, fjclolazy! I think when one is young, there's this tendency to be very impatient, to be in a hurry to fall in love. But as you grow older and (wiser) you'll learn how to wait. Yes, that is the word, wait! Take your time, take love easy, let it finds you and grows silently in you. You don't have to choose cause the right person will come, just wait and be patient. Every Jack has his Jill, he's just around the corner and he'll find you! Good luck !
• China
19 Feb 11
hi,EdnaReyes...something u said is right,someone is waiting for me.but if the "someone" is not the one u like,everything would be not good...i'm waiting someone,we call him Mr right!