How should i tell her that i don't wanna be friends anymore?

Malaysia
February 20, 2011 8:41pm CST
She keeps acting like a baby and annoys me. She says that she needs friends so she pretend to be friends with people. I can't take her anymore. But I always forgive her but now its time I need to move on I feel like telling her I don't want to be friends in a harsh way. But then I'm probably feel bad again. How do I tell her I don't wanna be friend anymore?
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11 responses
@raj7shot (838)
• India
5 Mar 11
See if u had decided means you can tell her frankly about the situations and decisions you had made.. Dont hesitate to tell...
• United States
22 Feb 11
Explain to her that if she does not stop that you will cut off all lines of communication. If she thinks you are not serious and she continues then you have to do so. Not reply at all, and allow time to get her to understand. Best of luck with this.
• Philippines
21 Feb 11
Hi try the following in telling her that you don't want to be friends anymore, without crushing her; a. Arrange to meet in private - it's always easier and less embarrassing if you are both alone. Start by saying you just want to talk. b.Think about what to say first beforehand- no need to be blunt but make sure your message is understood. c.Don't lie -be honest tell her what's your reason, so that she'll get the chance to change her attitude. d.You should stop contacting her and move on. Don't accept any of her text messages, emails or calls. just my thoughts;)
@mythociate (21437)
• Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
21 Feb 11
Don't tell her that! Just stop hanging out with her, miss/cut-short any phone-calls from her, and generally stay away from her ... hey, the world hates me; and that's a tactic that worked for them And if that doesn't get rid of her in a year-or-so, marry her!
@globaldoc (858)
• Philippines
21 Feb 11
Oh, this one is very simple. All you have to do is just stay away from her. But if she still tries to run after you, then borrow money from her, and do not pay. Just watch how she will stay away from you.LOL
@fjclolazy (859)
• China
21 Feb 11
hi,my friend! u can tell her in a polite way.or not to tell her anything.u can ignore her and stay far away from her.Drift her apart gradually...or tell her u don't like the way she is.let her change her temper.
@dreamy1 (3811)
• United States
21 Feb 11
Stop responding, stop calling, stop texting. Say you're busy when she asks if you want to hang out. Eventually she'll get the message.
@EdnaReyes (2622)
• Philippines
21 Feb 11
Try ignoring her. Try to make excuses every time she'll call on you. Try to turn down her invitations and surely she'll get the massage that you're tired of her and want to get out from your friendship. Of course she will get hurt but it's better than to talk bad of her in the back!
• Philippines
21 Feb 11
You can stop responding in her text messages or stop going out with her, or stop being her companion. But this will eventually hurt her more than telling him frankly that you don't want to be her friend anymore. SO i will suggest that you tell her face to face that you don;t want to be her friend anymore. And you should also tell her the reason why. Maybe you can also help her in this way. When she knows why you don't want to be her friend, maybe she would change so that this will never happen again.
@staria (2780)
• Philippines
21 Feb 11
You need not to not to be friends w/ her. Leave her alone for a while and let her think why you are acting that way. Or if you are a straight forward type of guy, tell it to her face, after all friends should be there not only to lean on but to correct each other's faults. Try to think about the situation because if you already told her that you dont want to be friends and you think that you've made the wrong decision,things may change and may not be like the way it used to be.
• United States
21 Feb 11
umm.. okay, dont be rude or mean when you dont want to be someones friend anymore.. you personally i think its rude to ignore her calls/texts/im/or anything else... just tell her gently how you honestly feel and explain it.. if that doesnt work then i would suggest to take it up to the next level..