how early will I know if my child is right or left handed?

Philippines
February 20, 2011 11:05pm CST
I have noticed lately that my 2 year old daughter sometimes uses her right hand to scribble something and there are also other times she uses her left hand. This does not only refer to the time she uses her hand for writing but also while playing with her toys. It made me wonder whether she is right handed or left handed? At what age will we know whether our child is right or left handed? Although it doesn't bother me if she is right handed or left handed. It just made me curious. :)
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@ada8may21 (2405)
• Philippines
21 Feb 11
Normally it depends on the readiness of the child. According to some psychologists, once the child holds the pencil on her right and starts to write something that's the time we can say she is right handed or vice versa. But it depends on us as parents if we are going to let them practice using their right hand they will learn to used their right hand for everything. We just have to guide them properly.
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• Philippines
23 Feb 11
Thanks for the info! Happy mylotting!
@staria (2780)
• Philippines
23 Feb 11
I have a two year old kid and he is now showing signs of left handedness. This is really not an issue but I am right handed so I think it would be best to teach him to use his right hand instead so it would be easy to teach him how to draw and write.
• Philippines
10 Mar 11
I also prefer that my daughter will be right handed but then she gets to have the final say on this. :)
@staria (2780)
• Philippines
10 Mar 11
yeah, and it really depends on where (L/R) the child is comfortable with ie. writing, eating and the likes. :)
21 Feb 11
I think it's when something becomes a ritual that you find out what hand they are. When I was young I used to use both hands quite a lot but soon starting using my right hand the most. It seems to matter which parent taught you how to do things as when I was really young before my brother came along my Mum who is right handed used to use her right hand infront of me whereas my brother is left handed and our Dad was not away at work like he was when I was a baby/toddler.
• Philippines
23 Feb 11
We have a similar case. My mother is right handed while my father is left handed and i ended up being right handed :)
@ally12 (1202)
• Philippines
26 Feb 11
My husband is a left handed but im a right handed and as soon as our daughter started to learn how to eat by herself there I noticed that she has a chance to become left handed because she would always hold her spoon on her left hand. So everytime she eats her meal and hold her spoon on left hand I would correct it right away. now that she is four she learned to write her name by her right hand. tho many people says that left handed are talented people I still prefer to teach my daughter the standard way. but if time comes that she feels more comfortable being a left handed then its her choice has to be respected.
• Philippines
10 Mar 11
We have the same situation. My husband is left handed while i'm right handed so i guess the choice will really be up to my daughter if she'll use her right or left hand in writing.