Lost in GOAL setting

February 21, 2011 12:13am CST
I am a guy who sets goal and like to achieve them.But recent years i couldnt achieve those as i had so many difficulties.It almost ruined my life and caused me fallback from numerous things.Now im lost in life and feel everything i do is in vain.Sometimes i think my goals are big thats why i cant achieve them. Im an under graduate student and almost lost in life.Dont know what to do in future and how to face them as i dont have a specific goal about my career or after graduation.I wanted to get some assitance from my father even but he wants to do what he wanted.But i cant as im afraid. So please can some one help me to get up.Can any one share some ideas who has the same feeling.
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@maxen07 (887)
• Philippines
21 Feb 11
I'm an undergraduate too, a single mother of one and unemployed. I wasn't able to finish my 2nd year of college due to monetary reasons so I worked instead. I lost hope of being able to attend college again so I turned my attention to boys and got myself pregnant by a guy who left me in the end. It was stupid and careless, I know. But maybe if I continued to hope and worked hard I would've gotten myself into this mess. I love my baby and I don't really regret having him. It's just that I wish that I could have given him a better life than this and that if I could have been better prepared as a mother, I wouldn't be making a lot of mistakes and that my parents would be proud of me. To lose hope now while you're still young would be fatal to your future and the future of your would-be family. Sometimes the only person you can really rely on is yourself if the people around you aren't any help. Isn't there anything that you would really want to be? I wanted to have my own business so when the times comes that I will be able to apply for work I'll start saving up for my son's education and for my own gym even! You got to really want those dreams that you have. In the end, those dreams are all we have so making them come true will define our lives
@maxen07 (887)
• Philippines
21 Feb 11
sentence 5: ...i wouldn't have gotten myself into this mess, rather.;)
21 Feb 11
Its there a great thing to get from your story.Really proud of you how you face the life with your child.Carry on may god with you...Great Girl(iron lady)..