top three reasons why couples fight

Philippines
February 21, 2011 3:17am CST
Come on, don't be shy... :) I've heard many reasons that spark a fight between a couple. I'm not yet married but I have the habit of trying to figure out what causes such pitfalls in a relationship whether married or never married. Now here's the top three based from the story of my married friends. 1. Jealousy 2. Money 3. Vices Well, i have to agree with number 1. hehehe Can't say that we argue about money, we're not yet married. Number three, my fiance doesn't have any vices. I just am lucky! How about you? Why do you fight?
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5 responses
@jasmeena (850)
• Indonesia
24 Feb 11
I am not married either, and i agree with you. We fight because there is kind of miscommunication or misunderstanding. The solution is so sit, talk and listen and appreciate each other.
• Philippines
24 Feb 11
It is also better if we maintain that kind of composure. When the other is talking and is really furious, one must keep quiet and vice versa. There is nothing good with talking at the same. Only end up screaming. So not good.
• United States
22 Feb 11
I think mainly the jealousy as it leads to mis-communication and lost of trust. Vices then Money which also add to frustration and further loss of the relationship.
• Philippines
22 Feb 11
Yeah, that's why JEALOUSY made it to the 7 deadly sins...
• India
21 Feb 11
yeah. i agree with the above 2 reasons mainly jealousy,because am married.i know how it effects the relationships.
• Philippines
22 Feb 11
to what extent does it affect your relationship?
@maezee (33918)
• United States
21 Feb 11
Haha, I was getting ready to list them off but you seemed to have covered all the bases. I was going to say: -money (that's a no-brainer) -infidelity/suspected (you said it too - jealousy) and I couldn't think of a 3rd one, although vices is a good one.
• Philippines
22 Feb 11
Been asking friends about it already..seems like couples around the globe fight over the same things... :)
@lilaclady (28240)
• Australia
21 Feb 11
well I would say number one, money, and then jealousy and not putting the seat down has got to be in there...
• Philippines
21 Feb 11
Oh, hahaha yeah it has to be in there..