I need advice, who do I pick help me pick

United States
February 23, 2011 5:03pm CST
hey you guys! I need help, so reaad and please help I started dating my friends cousin, because i really liked him i liked him alot. he was beautiful and funny, smart too. but then I liked my friend too (hes a guy) the same one whos cousin im dating, but we have such a good relationship and didn't want to pursue anything and then ruin our good friendship. but i think its already ruined because i started dating his cousin. I know I think i will lose both of them. I don't want to lose them I love them both, dearly. But i don't know who to pick because not matter who i pick no one will win. and they're cousins, i wish i had the answer to this but i have none. I hope you all can help me I really need the help I can't believe I'm caught in this position. what would you guys do? would you walk away completely and leave them both behind or pick one? and if you'd pick one who'd you pick? they're both great guys, really nice, smart, attentive, and cool. but i can't have both, well i don't want to have both i just wish I knew which one would work out for the best.... mylot friends please help sad girl out.
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@cerebellum (3871)
• United States
24 Feb 11
I'm probably not the best one to give relationship advice, I have not made good decisions in my own life, but I will anyway. I can see how that could be a problem. It seems to me that I would usually know what to do, or which one I liked more, but I didn't want to admit it to myself sometimes. There must be one that you like a tiny bit more than the other. Maybe making a list of their pros and cons would help you decide. It would probably be more practical to keep dating the cousin. If you broke up with him, and then the other one didn't want you it would be for nothing. Not seeing either, might be for the best, but it doesn't seem like what you want. Maybe you could talk to your friend and see if he gives you any idea what he is thinking. Good Luck!
• United States
24 Feb 11
Thank you, I think I will not see either of them. That seems to be the best...