Is marriege is for better or for worst?

Philippines
February 24, 2011 12:09am CST
I dont understand why many people turn to marriege and in a few year turn to seperate.
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@sql_cell (1429)
• Indonesia
24 Feb 11
question "why get married, then divorced?" is like asking "why should the school, if not the next grade?" .. life is a series of experiments that have studied, traveled, and be learned .. marriage are included, there are good, but it must be recognized also that it brings many evils, such as domestic violence, I'm sure anyone who is married, never had the intention to divorce, just as we are a school, definitely do not want, not ride class.
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• Philippines
24 Feb 11
It is because that people has a choice but whatever they do, divorce is never the will of God since God is not in favor of separation and divorces. The devil is after the family since he wanted it to be broken and the society will also be the same. There will never be a unity if a family is broken. Kids grow with lack because their parents have been away or separated and they would seek an attention which will never be complete because of this. A couple should have a strong foundation of faith and respect in the Word of God in order to stand against the wiles of the enemy. This is my opinion and I respect if others here do have a different belief or opinion.
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• Philippines
24 Feb 11
Marriage comes to a party that wants their relationship to be declared to the world due to they love each other. It really depends on how the marriage will turn after years of being together. Separation comes when both or one of them doesn't want to continue their relationship due to many aspect or conditions. Maybe due to third party involvement or they just fell out of love for each other.
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• Indonesia
21 Mar 11
sometimes become worst because lack of understanding, communication and other issues. people decide to get married because they want to start own family, life is not always happiness, when conflict come across the couple, and when they can figure it out ,,that's small hole will become bigger and bigger and makes divorce. from my point of view it can be better life it can be worst, depend the person
@UmiNoor (3594)
• Malaysia
17 Mar 11
I told my daughter this the other day, People get married for better or for worst but they never get married for good. That is why many divorce. These people don't understand that in any type of relationship, evolution happens. In fact, change is the only constant thing in life. Because humans are not robots, our needs, wants and desires will change as the years go by. The problem is when one partner wants a change but the other wants to remain the same. That is when problems arise. People are more self-centered nowadays. If they don't feel fulfilled in a relationship, the best is to end it. They don't bother to work things out and find a middle ground. Divorce is easy. It's the living together and staying married and working things out that is difficult. And everyone wants a life that is easy.
@Galena (9123)
24 Feb 11
I think a lot of people don't give enough of a long hard look at what marriage really means. and also, a lot of people aren't brought up to believe in the importance of keeping your word, and how significant an Oath is. people rush into marriage. I'm always a bit baffled when people get married after being together only a few years. with the enormity of an Oath to stay with someone for the rest of your lives, surely it's best to wait at least five or so years into the relationship. you need to grow and change together, and see that growth and change brings you closer and doesn't drive you apart. in my opinion, you need to have the marriage up and running, and functioning, and functioning well, weather a few hard times and come out stronger. when the marriage has proved itself, then think about a wedding. that way the wedding is a celebration of what you already have, and not just a big party in the hope that you will be able to form a marriage afterwards.
@SIMPLYD (84823)
• Philippines
24 Feb 11
For me, the culmination of a deep love is marriage. We marry in order to start a family, which is one of the main objective of marriage. While we are happy of our married life, we stick to it. But sometimes, an unforeseen problem emerges. That's the time when marriage is being rocked but it's up to you to repair it and decide whether to stay married or not anymore. Anyway it will be , the welfare of the children should be taken into consideration.
@jhaidro (878)
• Philippines
24 Feb 11
I think that they lack commitment. For sure they have the fire in them about their relationship before but I guess they grew tired of it. I think that this should not be. Anywhere you do and whatever you do, you will always have a problem and you should just deal with it and not run away from it.