How do I remove my nervousness when talking to women?

Indonesia
February 24, 2011 9:40pm CST
I was nervous when talking with a new woman I know, sometimes wrong in speaking, sometimes I just can not say anything. What is the solution?
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11 responses
@najibdina29 (1309)
• Indonesia
13 Mar 11
now let you think on the bright side .. he is working to get out of town that was also to prepare for the future as possible .. if you are already an adult age,of course, must work
• Indonesia
26 Feb 11
It is no confidence, or feeling insecure, the first ... to relieve, reassure yourself that you are capable and has the advantage, and your girlfriend and a friend let's say there is no sentimentality, hopefully you can get through the days more pleasant.
@celticeagle (158680)
• Boise, Idaho
25 Feb 11
Practice talking infront of the mirror. Keep them talking by asking things about themselves. They are not anyone better than you. You are a good person. It may also help to find a positive affirmation and keep repeating it as you talk. Smile and be pleasant. Practice. Be polite also.
• India
25 Feb 11
screw women ... are women the 1st and last thing on Planet Earth ? Why do you need to talk to them at all ? Earn money ... be rich ...and they will follow you , to talk to you !
@syoti20 (5293)
• Philippines
25 Feb 11
Simply imagine you are talking to your girl friends or classmates.
• Philippines
25 Feb 11
conquer your fear .. believe that you ar above to everyone else out there
@rosapai (254)
• Philippines
25 Feb 11
Try talking to different women.. It's like practicing. If you are nervous when seeing a person then how about greeting first, then smiling next time. Sometimes I get also get nervous when meeting and talking to a man the first time. I smile, try to relax and concentrate on what he is saying. The nervousness lessens next time and there will come a time when I am not nervous anymore when seeing and talking to that person.
@beamer88 (4259)
• Philippines
25 Feb 11
It seems that women usually make a lot of men tongue-tied for some reason or another. It has happened to me once or twice before and to think I pride myself as being a smooth talker. But I don't think you can ever go wrong with being yourself. Being sincere and truthful in whatever you say would always get you through anything, even women :)
• Philippines
25 Feb 11
When you're talking to a gorgeous woman, don't ever think that she's out of your league. No one is out of your league when it comes to this. And focus on the conversation, not on what she thinks about your hair, or your clothes, etc.. This will only make you more nervous.
@trruk1 (1028)
• United States
25 Feb 11
I wish I had a good answer for you. I can remember when talking with a woman I just met could make me very nervous and tongue-tied. I don't know exactly what I did that worked, but I did manage to get closely acquainted with a lot of women, so maybe just persistence is the key. I haven't been embarrassed or the slightest bit shy for a long time. Just keep at it. Smile a lot. Listen to her.
@dheckerz (473)
• Philippines
25 Feb 11
Go out more often with female friends so that you'll get the hang of it. Just be who you are when talking to new female friends.