February 25, 2011 11:22pm CST
when u move on from pain, it does not have to be drastic... You can dwell on it as much as you want to but don't be too vulnerable. Vulnerability may lead you to cling to someone else...sometimes, it's best to just let go slowly, learn from it & always feel beautiful. let's not feel the loss. let them feel it's theirs :) don't close your world after a heartache.. the world will not stop without you, it will go on spinning, and you might miss a few chances to be happier :)
27 Feb 11
This is completely true and I have even experience it too. The world will never stop for you or will the life or someone else just because you are in pain, they will continue to move on so why not we even we feel we are a bit weak to compete, then do not compete but move on with your pace, this is what I did and today I am happy to feel myself better with these thoughts.
26 Feb 11
Well the process of recovering from a heartbreak is just like the process of grieving. Because you've lost something that was once very dear to you. So let yourself experience the "process". There's no need to rush it but don't dwell on it too long, as well. It would be great to have someone to help you through it. You give your heart enough time to heal itself. Through it all, never lose hope and be in depair. Remember that everything has an ending, even the pain. So look forward to the "light at the end of the tunnel", so to speak. Always remember that life is always worth living, and to the fullest.
26 Feb 11
Yes thats so true........After a heartache stand back up on your own two feet,try your best not to depend on someone because you've already been let down can you bear to be let down again?Try to be independent but don't make yourself numb and emotionless.....because the pain and hardships and our reactions to them make us who we are,learn from your mistakes and move along =D
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26 Feb 11
first of all you have to love yourself throughout all your pain.life is never fair but it gives you a reason for being.learn to forgive ,God freely forgave you holding on to pain will only wreck you just like hitting a big truck.feeling is no joke it can affect your ablity to think and act.so take one day at time.