Question for "men" honest answers only please

yes, specially if my gf is not paying importance to our relationship .. why not ?? i would say, yes i am attracted to other women who meets my expectations.

Yes, and those names are "her first, middle, and last names" are the only ones that I am ultimately and solely physically attracted too.

Physically yes I'm attracted. As for what I would say to her depends what kind of person is my girlfriend. If she is a petty and jealous type, I would tell a lie. Otherwise, I will say the truth.

Hi tam, Honestly, if you are my new girlfriend, I would definitely sugarcoat my response to your question. I would say "No, I find other women attractive but I find you more attractive than the rest." Some men take the easy way out when caught chasing other women. We would say, "I'm sorry but she looks just like you, I thought it was you." Of course, that happens when the relationship begin to turn more sour than sweet. Sugarcoating it no longer work actually. For committed men, like me, I usually find other women attractive but I always come to reality that I could no longer take a chance with them unless my partner permit it. A threesome would be exciting but for traditional reasons, I have to stick to only one, for now.

If she is looking for true relationship and she is a honest than my reply is I would like to know more about her

My honest answer the way the question is asked is asked is "No". But I'd volunteer the clarification of the question and my answer as, "I may find other women attractive but I'm only attracted TO YOU". My girlfriend and I don't have secrets or jealousies so she can (and does) ask me anything she wants.  But my she knows that because if I was attracted TO another woman, that's the woman I'd be with. It's why I'm with my her now. She was THE woman I was attracted TO. I don't care how attractive a woman appear, it's my girlfriend and only her that has lived up to my expectations of what a partner should be and that's what attracted me TO her in the first place.  Attractive girls often skate by in life by simply being attractive. When challenged to have an actual personality or wholly redeemable qualities worthy of more than a moments notice, that's where they fail miserably because they've never had to BE anyone with more depth before. I got lucky. My gf is both attractive AND personable. :)