Confession??

Confession - ...
South Korea
March 1, 2011 4:55am CST
A few years ago there was this guy i was really into. He was a good friend and I liked him a lot. I wanted to confess but i never could. I tried doing it a couple of times but failed. Maybe i was scared that he didn't feel the same and could ruin our friendship. These days I sometimes look up his facebook and it kills me for not being able to tell him how i felt. Because I didn't tell him how I feel, I will never know if we could have had something or not. Anyway maybe I'll tell him how I felt sometime in the future. So do you have a confess you regretted?? Or a confession you wish you had made??
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13 responses
@cinguo (76)
• China
1 Mar 11
When I was very young, as I was very shy, I could not confess my loving feeling to others. But when I grown up, if I like some girl, I will tell her my feeling, whatever she like me or not.
• South Korea
2 Mar 11
that's so good and you seem very confident. actually i am confident too but i don't know why i backed on this. it kills me sometimes =(
• Romania
15 Apr 11
It's normal to be shy if you like him if think that you have something to lose.Didn't you try leaving so hits that you like him for him to catch on.I don't want to discourage you but guys often know if a girl likes him or not,maybe he is to familiar to your presence.And 99% you won't lose a friend...worse case scenario you lose a friend and get a boy-friend.Two thing I'd advised you to do if you confess and if he doesn't feels the same way,one don't ask if hes upset and two don't ask are we still friends.Try a bit of control even if you feel a bit funny and act normal.Good Luck to ya!!!
• South Korea
28 Apr 11
I don't know if he knew that I liked him coz I don't act that obvious and things were pretty cool between us as we were like best friends. But yeah maybe he knew. Who knows? =D Anywya thanks. I'll remember what you said.
@edsss17 (4394)
• Philippines
17 Mar 11
Hey, There's also this guy I was into few years ago. I tried everything just to tell him that I like him... At last he noticed me, but I also failed.. He's already taken! That's sad!
• South Korea
18 Mar 11
Aww it's ok. You'll meet someone perfect for yourself. Anyway I love how straigh forward you are and didn't hide how you felt. Good luck with life
@edsss17 (4394)
• Philippines
18 Mar 11
Thanks girl, Its just no point hiding it inside me because its really obvious the way I act.. I just can't help it! :)
@lhenpaule (495)
• Philippines
2 Mar 11
Everyone i guess have some things they regret about. As for me what i regret about was the scholarship grant given to me by one of prestigious college schools. I was not able to finish the course because of a very personal incident. Though i was able to finished college in different school, i regret the time i spend because it doubled the suppose normal time i should have finish college. It seem that it doesn't worth the effort. Anyway, that's already a history. We have to move on in life. Our past does not define our future.
• South Korea
3 Mar 11
Yep whatever happens life has to go on. Thanks. I won't let my past affect my future. Thanks for the reply. A good day to you.
@tkonlinevn (6105)
• Vietnam
2 Mar 11
I'll confess if this make me feel peace and comfortable when I must be opposite him.
• South Korea
2 Mar 11
Yes i know, the feelings doesn't have the right to make you feel uncomfortable. I wish i had done that too..
@rafiholmes (2896)
• Malaysia
8 Mar 11
actually .for me..BOth!! lol. there's one time i wished i never told the girl that im madly in love with her..rite after..she stayed away from me. Also .i regretted not telling someone i liked them..when it was too late..where she told me that i shouldved told her that i liked her..she couldve been my girl..coz she liked me too (before she gone steady with some dude..lol)talk about taking too much time. so i suggest u go on tell him what u feel..either a hint .or full on out.. save u self from forever imagining what if...;;
• South Korea
8 Mar 11
Actually that feeling was like long ago.. i don't have any feelings for him now. Though I do think about what would have happened if i had told him how I felt. Anyway the damage is done. And your part of story is sooo.... i dont know what to say. I hope you find someone soon (or have you already?? ) Anywya thanks for the response and have a good day..
• Philippines
14 Mar 11
Well, in my own opinion i better confess before it's too late that i could not do anything to patch things up. Likewise, tell your loved ones " I love you" everyday for you don't know what might happen tomorrow. I don't want to regret in the last phase of life of failure to reveal what is in me. I don't want to hide my feelings either because It would just aggravate the pain if i won't let it out. I don't want time to wait for time flies so fast now that we hardly noticed. I think perhaps that person would feel the same way with you and maybe, he is just afraid to let it out because if your friendship. Nonetheless, this would be harder to reveal but it helps much if you let it show.
• South Korea
14 Mar 11
You have a really nice thought there. I wish i could show my feelings more often but i'm really bad at things like that. Anyway I just wish he'd not feel the same way about me, coz if he did, i know i will regret it even more for not moving the steps before. Anyway thanks for the response. Have a good day.
@sunny5u (2069)
• India
2 Mar 11
Yeah!!! i think all of us has such stories of confession, i used to like a girl in my inter but i was very shy at that time, don't know how 'll she react or later on i told one of her friends about my love, listening to her reply i got shocked, she said ' hey sunny few days back she proposed her friend and that agreed too' listening to that i really felt bad for my delay:-(
• South Korea
2 Mar 11
oh i'm so sorry to hear that. but the good thing is that we learn from our mistakes. from this you learned that waiting is not the solution, confronting is. i also have learned a valuable lesson to go and get the person you love and not just sit back. Thanks a lot for the response. Have a good day and i'm sure you'll meet a wonderful lady in the future. Good luck.
• China
2 Mar 11
I have never made confession to a boy before, maybe because I am to shy to do it. But back you up there to tell him how you feel.Wish you good luck:)
• South Korea
2 Mar 11
Hey thanks a lot. But actually I don't have the feelings now, they're gone. But i do wonder if we could have had something together and i don't know why these thoughts are still there :S Anyway thanks for backing me up :D You shouldn't be too shy too or else you'll end up regretting like me.
@NIECIE21 (365)
• United States
1 Mar 11
I have kept my feelings to myself in the past and when I looked back on them a few years later, regretted it. One thing that I have learned from that is that you should always tell the person. You never know how they will react or how they feel, but I think its better to know then to not and then wonder "what if?" If I had never told my fiancee that I was falling for him, we would not be here today...so I kwow it is good when you do confess. :)
• South Korea
2 Mar 11
You are absolutely correct. The "what ifs" feelings are torturing me lol anyway i don't love him anymore but some how the "what ifs" still tend to linger. The next time I have some feelings for someone, I will definitely confess. Thanks. And i hope you have a great life with your fiancee. Good luck.
@ebuscat (5935)
• Philippines
2 Mar 11
For me it is not good to Jehovah's eyes if you will confess just prayed it to him so taht all things get better in him to your self.
@topffer (42156)
• France
1 Mar 11
I do not make public confessions. But yes, I regret also to have been shy when I was younger. And you cannot say after what had happened if... We need to have lost definitely somebody to understand that life is short, and that we must say today what we have to say : a failure is better than to regret something during years. I think that you have now to forget this guy, or to confess him today what you have to say if it is not too late.
• South Korea
2 Mar 11
Yes the thing you said about failure being better than regret is so true and i absolutely believe it. Actually I don't really have feelings for him now, it's just that the thoughts of what if still lingers lol. I hope you have gained a lot of confidence now too. Good luck with life.
• United States
2 Mar 11
Not normally but I think life itself has given me the courage not to be afraid to speak my mind. I certainly can understand that you were afraid as maybe it would have ruined the friendship, but really it would not have if you would have affirmed to yourself that you understood that if he did not feel the same way then you would be willing to understand that the friendship was of priority. It is not too late thatgirl and really as a friend not going into too much detail you can say just wanted you to know and I do not want this to hamper our friendship. Not saying something though will have you wondering for years to come.
• South Korea
2 Mar 11
Yes actually i wanna tell him how i felt about him but not too soon i guess. Maybe sometimes in the future but someday i definitely will. Anyway thanks for the response. I won't keep those feelings to myself the next time.
@cokage (14)
• Saudi Arabia
2 Mar 11
yes and i know how its feel,it drains you up sometimes,that you cant barely sleep,
• South Korea
2 Mar 11
That is so true. Thanks for the response and have a good day =D