Do you alway's count on your freinds when taking important decisions?
By alienstar
@alienstar (5142)
India
November 19, 2006 5:40am CST
While taking impotant decisions in life...do you alway's believ that your freinds can help you out in atking decisions? how much you depend on your friends? don't you think, it is bad on depending on your friends while taking important decisions?
4 responses
@euniceeleanor (5967)
• Singapore
9 Dec 06
i dont really depend on my friends to make a decision..but i will share with them the whole situation and ask for their advise...and based on the advise given, i will then make my own decision.
@alienstar (5142)
• India
9 Dec 06
You are right to some extent as it is alway's better to take your own decision as you said.of course, one can take advice from your friends...but, when it comes to decision making point, i feel you should depend only on yourself more than anyone and trust your action and put everything to your decision and it will work out most of the time...
Anyway's thanks for responding....
@koltrone (264)
• United States
19 Nov 06
In some cases yes but most of the time its difficult to depend on what they think because they feel different from you even if they try to put themselves in your own shoes. 15% opinion from my friends and 35% from my parents, the rest is for me to really think about it - what I really wanted and how I feel about it.
@alienstar (5142)
• India
9 Dec 06
Ok...you seem to have more friends..is it? do you trust your friends? but, from whatever you said, ithink i can agreeto some points only.If you ask my view, i would say like..
I will ask opinions of friends , family, realtives............and finally when it comes to decision making, i decide on my own without asking anyone and dtick on to that and work hard on that....
Anyway's, thanks for responding
@alienstar (5142)
• India
19 Nov 06
Hm.....ok....thanks for your view...but, tell me frankly do you trust your freinds alway's....don't you think that you maybe cheated by your friends sometime, that too while taking important decisions in your life.....? they also might misdirect you if they feel jealous and all...anyhow, it's your decision and i have passed on my views..that's all
@brendalee (6082)
• United States
19 Nov 06
I will ask my friends their opinion but in the end it is my decision.
@alienstar (5142)
• India
19 Nov 06
Hm...this sounds more mature...this is alway's better ...but, in the end, you also should be able to take your own decision at last, coz this will alway's help you in the long run.Moreover, you also might get confused after taking too many opinions from your freinds...don't you think.....!
anyway's, thanks for responding....
