Can you take firm decisions?

@alienstar (5136)
India
November 19, 2006 5:45am CST
When you are stuck on selecting something on your life, maybe on your profession,or even health problems and all..will you take time in taking too much time or do you think you cannot take firm decisions at all....if yes, don't you think it is really bad.....as everybody know's, making a correct decision will take you to success....but delay in taking firm decisions might make you lose an excellent oportunity...what are your views now...please give your inputs on this....
4 responses
• United States
20 Nov 06
It depends. Ha! See, I cannot even decide on this. There are some things that I just know really easily, and then, yes--firm decision. However, I often have a problem of vascillating back and forth. I have a lot of libra in my chart. It is good for being a mediator, which I often find myself doing. I can see all sides of an issues. But that sometimes makes it hard to make decisions. Then, I have to remind myself that leaders make decisions and just do it! But sometimes it is hard. Sometimes it is better to wait, but most times it is good to choose and see what happens.
@alienstar (5136)
• India
20 Nov 06
Hm....so much of things.....don't you think you should have had Arian charachers sometimes atleast..lolz....as you know, arians are good in taking firm decisions as i do.... Usually, i don't take time in taking decisions.....and i will be a instant hit before others think on that and it doesn't work out alway's but i believe, whatever has to be done has to be done immeadiately instead of waiting tommorrow..opportunities never wait for anyone...those you miss will be taken by others...isn't it....!.most of the time, it works and it doesn't mean that i don't consult others...i do consult just to find out if there is any bad thing in that ...but ultimately, i do take decisions fast and firm without thinking again...once i decide, i don't think twice....i whole heartedly work on that....
• United States
20 Nov 06
Well, my Mars is in Aries, so I do have that a little bit. My husband is a quick decider, too. boom. I drive him crazy when we go shopping together!
@alienstar (5136)
• India
20 Nov 06
Terry....good to hear this....keep it up...
@251984 (291)
• Philippines
20 Nov 06
I really am a person who takes firm decisions, and if ever that decision leads to failure, I also take responsibility in it. I have made several critical decisions in my life which enabled me to reach where I am now. Making those critical decisions make a person stronger and more confident. And being able to stand in that decision under immense pressure is a character of a great man.
@alienstar (5136)
• India
21 Nov 06
he....you are talking on my lines....really, it's my own words i can say....what you are saying here makes a lot of sense.....as you said, making critical decision at the right time without wasting any time and standing by it makes a person stronger...anyway's thank you for your views....
@neha_80 (311)
• Australia
20 Nov 06
It really depends on the kind of decision i have to make . Like if it is career or buying a house . we have to dside YES or NO. Otherwise you loose the oportunity .Yeah but one take enough time not to repent later .On the other hand i keep thinking about small things like buying a hat for months . some times i am very much sure of what i want to choose & quite firm & stick to it . No matter whoever tries to convince me the other me the other way . And after all its life we always loose & gain . So try your best to make decisions & if you fail its life .
@alienstar (5136)
• India
21 Nov 06
ok...nice view point....my view is, in some cases it's ok to delay in taking time for decisions when things are that much of importance and in most of the cases, it really effects you when things don't turn your side due to your lack of ability of firm deecisions...i bet on that...anway's, thanks for your response
@Phlamingho (7834)
• Denmark
20 Nov 06
Yes I can... It's all about not looking back and thinking what you could have done better. You have to take a stand and make the best of what you get.
@alienstar (5136)
• India
20 Nov 06
Yes....definitely...you are right.I also have this thing with me....i am too good in taking firm decisions and i alos know that lot of peole have these proablem of not been able to take firm decisions...isn't it? anyway's, thanks for your response..