Even if you're popular outside, at least be active here...

Philippines
March 2, 2011 4:30am CST
Hello Lotters, It's usual that some lotters would use this site to gather friends (friend adders) or gather referrals for other site (which is very not good) but common to some lotters. participating in discussions would let other people notice you because you are active. though, i didn't want being popular but i couldn't helped being responded on sometimes. But there is some-one here who is also popular (but on youtube because of her songs). unfortunately, she's trying what other does, which is to add friends and stop being active for weeks. there are some lotters whom i know has youtube accounts, some are more popular here. some of their accounts are kept secret but also popular on youtube. I didn't give a damn if she was a one of those facebook or youtube sensation, if she is active here, i might. Have anice day.
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29 responses
@mysdianait (64056)
• Italy
2 Mar 11
Would that be the friend collector with 0 posts that I have pending for months now? I guess that if mylot allows this type of activity and others accept the friend request then sbe is getting the best out of what she hoped to do. It is sad that she is not making any earnings here though but that is her loss not ours
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@akp100 (13325)
• India
2 Mar 11
Well i got FR couple of times from one lady which having lots of friends on mylot but still having 0 count in post. But i just decline that request..
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@mysdianait (64056)
• Italy
2 Mar 11
The first time that she was here I was added to her list automatically and I complained to GAA and it was dealt with. This time I have not accepted her.
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@akp100 (13325)
• India
2 Mar 11
Well what can be the purpose... To suggest here referral links to us..
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@jaiho2009 (39001)
• Philippines
2 Mar 11
hello LK, Well i have one bad idea about mylot dear brother. If any mylotter is not giving comment/response back to my comments,after participating to his/her topics and still i am not getting a single response... oh well,sorry but i will not post any comments to his/her topic anymore. I don't know,it might sounds bad of me (on my side),but yes,that's one of my attitude towards any mylotters who just come here to add friends,and invite to join other sites or be a follower etc. Yes,if he/she is very active here in mylot and mind to give response back to his/her topic...i will surely join his/her site (youtube,facebook whatever ) Uhmn,any one again here acting like this?...posting lots of topics but never giving any responses back...awww
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• Philippines
2 Mar 11
Hello Jaiho, Unfortunately, she has not made any single post at all, not even a freaking comment.well, she is just popular sensation in youtube as the rest of other youtube stars there. NO, she never post anything. that's the price of her not being active here. simply because she thinks she can gain popularity here.
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@jaiho2009 (39001)
• Philippines
2 Mar 11
oh really? huh sorry but i do not know her can u simply whisper her name pls
@zed_k4 (17627)
• Singapore
2 Mar 11
I saw her before .. because she requested friendship from me too; twice at least. I have to reject unfortunately because of her 0 activity. I don't know if it's got to do with being popular or not , but you are right. At least be active here .. . Maybe if she starts to have 10 comments and discussions answered , I will consider accepting her FR..
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• Philippines
2 Mar 11
Hello Zed_k4, I don't know what was wrong with her in the first place.it did because she's one of those popular ones in facebook but she should have been active here instead because not every one can be a youtube fan. i just watch her videos and things were not that good compare to others who prefer to joke around than sing
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@zed_k4 (17627)
• Singapore
3 Mar 11
Oh , youtube sensation .. hehe .. maybe she can become popular like the Bibs someday .. But you are right ... this is myLot and I think may be the wrong channel for her to get fans. We discuss things here rather with one another .. she attracts the wrong crowd.
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@larrychen (165)
2 Mar 11
Maybe different people come here with various purposes. I come here mainly for improving my English level as the second language. Although I don't have much time everyday to visit this website to make many responses, I am always trying to read and respond some of the discussions after work time. I don't like those who are here without any responses or posts.
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@gigarange (1165)
• United States
2 Mar 11
You have a point there. Maybe that's the case. Plus others get busy with life and you know, forget about the site. That was my case anyway, for being gone..but I'm back and I think I'm back for good! :)
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• Philippines
2 Mar 11
Hello Larrychen, I think you're purpose is a lot more acceptable than just adding friends for nothing just to gain so called popularity.. at least you have been very busy with wrting what ever you want to say and read our discussions. too bad, i think she got mylot all wrong for some reason.
@carmelanirel (20979)
• United States
2 Mar 11
I agree, and though I don't want to be popular, (too many creepy things comes along with popularity,) if my book does become a best-seller, I would hope that at least a couple people here will keep me from straying..After all, it was through mylot and a friend who encouraged me to continue with my writing and to seek out the help I need to complete it. Yet, if it does come down to it, I may be a little busier, but will try my best to continue with my friends here.. Oh, and I saw this person also has (0) posts. Whenever I see the number zero, I check out to see when they signed up because the first indication to turn them down is they signed up and have many friends.
• Philippines
2 Mar 11
Hello carmel, I didn't want to be much popular either because lamby tends to get trolls along the way and another lotter friend of mine. fortunately, i am not that popular despite of the long number of post. too bad but i have sent a message to her, but i don't know if that is her real FB account.
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• United States
2 Mar 11
Yep, the more popular, the more trolls you'd get too... I rather be in the background than front stage any day..
@damned_dle (3944)
• Philippines
2 Mar 11
She did add me too, and I rejected because she has 0 post. Then she added me again! And I rejected again.. I am not sure if she did it the third time, maybe I did finally add her just so she would stop bothering me but I am not sure.
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• Philippines
2 Mar 11
Hello damned_idle, I have no idea why is she doing that either, i don't know for sure if this is the second time she added me but for some reason she didn't care if she can be added or not. am sure she's in active now because she got almost every single friend that she needed to add
• Philippines
13 Mar 11
Correction: I just found out that I didn't approve it. Update: She just did it again now!
@akp100 (13325)
• India
2 Mar 11
Hi Even i got some friend request from user which having ZERO post .. I was surprised when i saw good number of friends in that users friend list. I thought it was for referral purpose so i just decline that request.. In fact i got such FR two time from the same user.
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@akp100 (13325)
• India
4 Mar 11
Yeah i have seen facebook friend list or something like that in here profile.. It may be just like that as you are saying..
@iva75cpb (729)
• Bulgaria
2 Mar 11
I think you're very, very right. And I also think I know who are you talking about, if it's the same person with her songs and you tube account. I added her as a friend weeks ago but until yesterday she didn't have a single post or discussion. But her friends on mylot are so many. It's not a good thing to do only to get profit. Yes, we are all here for various reasons and one of them is making some profit. But the main purpose of this site is to brig people together where we can share, discusll, help each other, etc. And when we're active, it's not that bad to search for referrals or profits. But we must be active at least to respect other people who are members here. Not just to use them. If someone wants to receive, they need to give, too.
• Philippines
2 Mar 11
Hello Iva, That's exactly the problem, she should have tried my-lot as well, and not use this site as to gather FANS i don't think she can gather much influence in here knowing that we have a different kind of criteria of seeing the popular ones. i will send her a message, if she ignores it then i would completely reject her request(Permanently).
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@iva75cpb (729)
• Bulgaria
2 Mar 11
And I already deleted her from my friends' list because I also checked today and still number in the brackets next to her name was zero. If had she posted once or twice at least, may be I would have given a second thought but obviously her purpose wasn't to talk or share. Just to profit. The only person who loses is her.
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@bigplay (212)
• United States
2 Mar 11
I havn't been here in a while, but i will be here a lot more. I will post every day as much as i can during the day, i'm no good with making referrals, making friends is nice, but i'm here to post and earn. I have a youtube account as well, I agree wth you though about the referrals for other site.
• Philippines
2 Mar 11
Hello Bigplay, I guess it's time for you to come back and be active again for some reason. am no good with making referrals either, but you know as long as good people come here and be active, why not? I do have a youtube account but not as active as it was before. don't worry you will get a chance to be famous too, in here just be active in posting.
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@gigarange (1165)
• United States
2 Mar 11
This post is a good reminder. I'm guilty of the long absence from this site. I never had lots of friends here and referral but to tell you the truth, I regret that I been gone for long because I really had a great time here. I'm just lucky i remembered my password. But I realize that I should be more active here. Thanks for this cool reminder.
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• Philippines
2 Mar 11
Hello Gigarange, How are you? welcome back! well, you are active but it's not really about you but it's about some one who hasn't post at all and then start adding mylotters who are active in this site wanted to be popular as well, which i think it's not fair for others.like the both of us, have a nice day.
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@jazel_juan (15767)
• Philippines
2 Mar 11
i am not that active in youtube.. but i am active here ( lately that is) i just enjoy exchanging thoughts and having someone argue wiht me
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• Philippines
2 Mar 11
Hello Jazel, I used to be a lot more active in youtube because of the game i used to play. but when i got to know mylot, things had change for me. i started loving mylot, made a video of it and stop playing the game. how ever, i have not given up yet
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@gloryacam (5546)
• Philippines
3 Mar 11
I think I know who you're talking about. And, I accepted her friend invitation. But I wondered why she wasn't posting anything so I went to her profile, while led me to her sites and saw her videos. I guess she just wanted to gain more viewers. Maybe she thought this site is like FB.
• Philippines
3 Mar 11
Hello Gloryacam, Yes, that's what i thought, since she hasn't post anything at all. . lot of people were having a lot of misconception about this site. some stayed long and short, some just use mylotfor other purposes,which doesn't work.she should try this site once in a while.
@gloryacam (5546)
• Philippines
3 Mar 11
She must be so busy trying to be popular. I mean, a lot of talents were discovered on youtube. She might want to be the next. So maybe I don't think she will be participating here.
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• Philippines
3 Mar 11
Well, i have been watching some of her videos, but i think she needs to emphasize more on the songs that her voice is qualified to sing to, besides...the cuteness of course, not a ref link. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=g0qf6e6L3l
@dpk262006 (56484)
• Delhi, India
3 Mar 11
Hi there! All I can say is that it would be easier for her to sing songs/uplaod songs on you tube rather than participating here on mylot discussions. Participating in discussions require some knowledge and skill and it is not everyone's cup of tea.
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• Philippines
4 Mar 11
Hello Dpk, I don't think she's dumb but it depends on the talent or interest in the person. i mean, i find it even hard to compose a song nor use an instrument to play it since i tried it back in highschool and it never worked. i guess she has her own, but all i asked is for her to be active here.
@dpk262006 (56484)
• Delhi, India
4 Mar 11
I agree with you that she may be a singing sensation. However, for showing her singing talent, she need not join mylot or need not make friends here. If she has to join mylot it is basically for discussions and if she participates, she is most welcome.
• United States
3 Mar 11
I have been pretty lucky in that regard as the over 500 in my friend list do not spam. I have received a couple spams but once I reply back it stops. I have heard of some getting numerous spam pm's and that is not fun and should be stopped. I normally accept all and just last week I did notice one who has requested and I have it pending as now it is one week and no activity. I don't understand, unless of course the mission is accomplished with other members.
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• Philippines
4 Mar 11
Hello hardworkinggurl, well, this person didn't spam but kept adding a lot of mylotters to explore and spread her website. probably get more viewers and fans to her music and other videos.i didn't and won't add her unless she becomes active in mylot. have a nice day my friend.
• United States
4 Mar 11
I have heard so many members saying the same as you, so if you can pm who it is as it killing my curiosity to know who it is and to beware not to accept.
@saphrina (31739)
• South Africa
2 Mar 11
One of those again, sweetie?
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• Philippines
2 Mar 11
Hello Saphie, I think so. but this time it isn't for spamming but probably for popularity, i doubt she has much knowledge on online money making except expanding her viewers.
@saphrina (31739)
• South Africa
3 Mar 11
She has a lot to learn then sweetie.
@mar_ky07 (52)
• Philippines
3 Mar 11
It's good to have more friends but if you have found out that person is doing bad activities so don't add him/her.
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• Philippines
4 Mar 11
Hello mar, the person doesn't have activities what so ever, just to add me and the others.if she doesn't become active here then i will have to delete her from the friends list. besides, she ain't gonna earn in facebook nor youtube.
@devijay78 (1575)
• India
3 Mar 11
It is true that I came here to make some money but slowly started liking this site and have made some good friends. But I always choose my friends and that is by their posts. I take a look at their profiles and their posts and judge accordingly. And accept only if I like what they say. For a person with 0 posts, I simply decline and that is what I did to this person too. It does not matter to me what he or she is in in the outside world. If there is no activity here, what is point of just adding friends and sitting idle. I make friends to communicate and interact, not just to become popular. That explains why I have very few friends.
• Philippines
4 Mar 11
Hello devijay, I am glad that you are liking this site and it has come to your interest.i also choose the friends who are active and not for the sake of adding friends alone.i have few friends here who are active despite of having a lot in the friends list.
@Danzylop (1120)
• Philippines
3 Mar 11
I think adding friends(as much as you like) is just fine. As long as it doesn't served the purpose of violating any rules on MyLot. Being active/inactive is users choice. MyLot has set its rules regarding inactive accounts. Maybe the person you are referring to is too busy of her things outside MyLot so lets just give her space he want. If he is meant to stay long here in MyLot he will do steps to make it work, and you will just see.
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• Philippines
4 Mar 11
Hello Danzylop, She doesn't violate any rules for now but adding si many people you will have trouble. i have send her a pm but no response yet, but i do hope thigns will turn around for her. but hopes she becomes an active member of mylot.
@ybong007 (6658)
• Philippines
3 Mar 11
I think a lot of mylot members are wondering who that member is. She's also in my friends list and like everyone whose also her friend, it's a wonder how she manage to invite a lot of us here to be her friends and yet don't even bother to start of even post to a discussion even once. I suspect that someone is doing it in her behalf but really, as long as she's not harming anyone or send referral links then i'll just let her remain in my list. I think she's doing it primarily to invite people to see her own website if only she could post here once in a while there's a chance that she could have her own following. The way her website looks like, she's just another showbiz wannabe so lets give her a chance.
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• Philippines
3 Mar 11
earnings lost. - remember to log in
Hello ybong, Who could deny such pretty face but i look on how active she is in terms of posting. but she isn't, therefore, she's still pending on the Friends request.no, i don't think she has any clue what online earning really means, except blog, i think. well, she's an aspiring showbiz celebrant.
@chaze01 (185)
• Philippines
2 Mar 11
well she hasn't added me me yet. And I dont have any idea on who she is. I'm dying with curiousity though.
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• Philippines
3 Mar 11
Hello chaze, that's because there are too many members in this site, and probably she added the people that she sees. well, you can see one of her videos in youtube. not a referral link. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dGd9KItyQrc