Is It True if Marriage Satisfaction Specified Weight Gain by Both .

@nangisha (3504)
Indonesia
March 2, 2011 11:11am CST
There is a myth that if your weight go up after marriage it is a sign of happiness. The husband will feel satisfied with his marriage from time to time, as far as her weight is not more than him. In other words, weight gain wife does not matter, as long as the husband also experienced weight gain. If the pair were both increased body weight, their relationships tend to be durable. Conversely, if one spouse has increased weight, while the other partner does not, it could be a warning of dissatisfaction in the relationship. Do you find its true or not I am just curious because my mom and gaining after marriage, does all of you has the same experience.
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@ifa225 (11098)
• Indonesia
3 Mar 11
then i i guess my hubby and i is not happy at all after married our weight seem the same. we are thin and in fact we get thinner i guess happiness can't be seen by weight. as a matter of fact, i can eat anything while i am in stress, but still don't gain weight
@nangisha (3504)
• Indonesia
4 Mar 11
Ifa I already said at first line its myth . What you feel you the one who know but if you stay slim I think its great. Especially I love the part thats you said you are eating a lot when stress but not gaining, I am super jealous with you. I am gaining weight this year because we had so many party with delicious food. I think December to February is disaster for me in term of eight gain. It will be need one year to get it back.
@ifa225 (11098)
• Indonesia
4 Mar 11
even that is only a myth, but most people believe it. i just ask my hubby a month ago why he was not gaining his weight and asked whether he is unhappy living with me. you know what his answer? "you make me up and down, and often feel so down", you can conclude what the meaning is don't be jealous with me Nangisha, but if you do please invite me to attend those parties next time
@nangisha (3504)
• Indonesia
7 Mar 11
At least there is time you made him up. Just made sure you do it more often . Maybe he will gaining. I think if you attend to thats party you will gaining weight to because its all full of meet and coconut milk also spicy. what I love this kind of party is I can eat traditional food which I rarely find.
@JenInTN (27564)
• United States
5 Mar 11
I have heard the same thing. I think there is some truth to becoming comfortable and gaining a bit of weight because of it.
@nangisha (3504)
• Indonesia
8 Mar 11
Isn't it really comforting if it true, after marriage I just not really bother by my weight as long I also made my husband bigger . The only think I need to watch is thats made sure he always bigger than me . I see many of my friend who struggle to get their body back after delivering a baby because they afraid to loose their husband. They said its really hard to get it back. So if it true its will great relieve even I had to ask my future husband which one he prefer.
@JenInTN (27564)
• United States
8 Mar 11
I wouldn't risk getting really big..but I think a little weight is natural. I have gained a little since being with my b/f. He cooks like a chef..I think he's trying to fatten me up.
@nangisha (3504)
• Indonesia
13 Mar 11
Yeah I thing getting to big will a problem to especially we need to change our cloth size and I hear its bad for our feet to because it need to support thats big body. I think I will be in trouble in my future husband love to cook because I really enjoy great meal .I think he must be spoiled you with delicious food and its mean you don't have to cook when you don't feel too.
@rameshchow (5283)
• India
3 Mar 11
Yours words are true in majority of the cases(not for all). Majority of the men/women they become FAT after marriage of few months only. Its because of happy life. But some are become slim because of tensions raised after marriage.
@nangisha (3504)
• Indonesia
7 Mar 11
hi rameschow!. Yeah I think not all but I pay attention to my relative they are so often if the wife fatter than they husband the husband usually teasing them or the woman become the dominant part in house hold. What I see most this day is a woman try to keep their body in shape while their husband gaining. I think tension not always made us slim, if I were in stress I usually gaining because its made eat sweet stuff like chocolate to made me comfort.
• India
9 Mar 11
Slim women appears beautiful.
@nangisha (3504)
• Indonesia
14 Mar 11
Yeah if we are slim every thing will be much easy especially to find a cloth in store. I think its hard to maintain your size when you pregnant for several time.
• India
12 Jul 11
and yess its not that if only one person gain weights ..that wud end there marriage..having said that i wud lyk to add that it cud be one of the contributing factors to it...and yess people have felings for each oder ,which cant fade away simply b'coz of change in anyones physical appearance.
@nangisha (3504)
• Indonesia
14 Jul 11
I agree its takes more than gaining weight to end marriage. I think what ends it if there feel no more love or respect one another. Thank you for your response. Have a nice day.
@moneywinner (1866)
• Brazil
12 Jul 11
I agree with you completely. If the both husband and wife gain weight, they don't mind, but if only one gain weight, usually this person will feel bad about her or himself. Specially, when is the woman who gain weight. She is going to think that her husband don't like her anymore and that is the reason to a lot of fights to begin.
@nangisha (3504)
• Indonesia
14 Jul 11
yeah especially if the woman who had weight gaining, she will feel not as attractive when see was slim. Thanks for your response. Have a nice day.
• India
12 Jul 11
yes i agree with you...even i think weight gain bi any one person in the marriage hardly matters until and unless the other person is also experiencing gain in weight...whereas it might effect,or u can say there is more possibility of dissatisfaction in d marriageif when only one person has gained weight .
@nangisha (3504)
• Indonesia
14 Jul 11
Hi..... Yeah I think its won't be a problem if the couple gaining weight. I know many woman complain gaining weight by carrying a baby but their husband seem not complaining but they will after the baby born.
@indahfth (11173)
• Indonesia
3 Mar 11
I do not agree with what you say. weight increased, does not indicate happiness. there are people who are too sad, and to dispel his sadness, he was eating constantly. and create weight gain.
@nangisha (3504)
• Indonesia
7 Mar 11
Hello Indah!. At the first I said its only myth so its not absolutely true. I think every one has their own unique situation. Like Ifa said she eating a lot when stres but not gaining at all, isn't she lucky. I think every marriage has their difference problem and no were problem free. I think what make difference is the way the solve the problem and made win win solution.
@lilaclady (28238)
• Australia
2 Mar 11
I have noticed a lot of men do put on weight once they get married but I think that is because they have better meals because the wife is cooking them good regular meals..women tend to put on weight from having the babies...
@nangisha (3504)
• Indonesia
4 Mar 11
I think you are right man mostly gaining weight because their wife can cook delicious food. What about about man doesn't want their wife fatter than they are? do you ever pay attention on thats?. I see many man complaining their wife fat.