one thing i'll never do again

@jazel_juan (15767)
Philippines
March 2, 2011 7:45pm CST
there was an article in reader's digest that goes with this title.. if there is one thing i will never do again..that would be "try to have an affair" i did not exactly have one..but it kinda lead to that and the results were awful. really awful.. there were so many reasons behind that and i wont discuss that again lol so what was one thing you will never do again?
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@smileonstar (4013)
• United States
3 Mar 11
you have such a good point. I am going to say that as well... I hate it and I dont want to hear about it. it is just frustrating to deal with, isn't it
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@jazel_juan (15767)
• Philippines
7 Mar 11
sorry if this posts reminds you of it
@thereza (316)
• Philippines
3 Mar 11
Yup!me too try to an affair, I'm trying so hard to avoid it!! I hope I could survive.
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@jazel_juan (15767)
• Philippines
7 Mar 11
oh do avoid it...so you are still in it now?
@palonghorn (5486)
• United States
3 Mar 11
As long as we learn from our mistakes, then something good comes from that. There are probably many things I should say 'I will never do again', but honestly, that would also be saying that I have regrets in my life, which I don't. I have been married three times, all ended in divorce for very different reasons. But I have two beautiful grown daughters. I have fallen in love too easily a time or two, but have learned to slow down and be a little more cautious. I have had my heart crushed by someone I loved, but there was still a piece of it left, so I pieced it back together and moved on. I really can't think of anything I would say I would never do again, maybe a little differently, but yep, I'd do it all again.
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@jazel_juan (15767)
• Philippines
3 Mar 11
yes i believe that is what is important, learning from mistakes...but i really do not know if i will do it again
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@ifa225 (11098)
• Indonesia
4 Mar 11
Hi Jazel, one thing that i will never do again is married in a young age. the married just take my young time to be a mother. the situation push me to do so. so i can't enjoy my young time to hang out with friends or just have some fun to shop in the mall
@jazel_juan (15767)
• Philippines
8 Mar 11
hahahaha i am so with you on this one. i also had a family young, i was 19. I know what you mean not being able to enjoy those times of being young and restless..we had responsibilities at a very early age.
@ifa225 (11098)
• Indonesia
9 Mar 11
why do we have so many similarity? one thing that i want to try is having a job offline. since i had graduated, i haven't got a chance to do it cause i have to take care my children. i always dream that i can be a carrier woman
@jazel_juan (15767)
• Philippines
9 Mar 11
oh yes we do have similar experiences which is nice though we can both relate on same stuff...anyways why not try to pursue that career woman in you when your child grows a bit older?
@swirlz (3137)
• Philippines
3 Mar 11
Hmm, my life is pretty boring, so I can't think of anything I wouldn't do again. I think I need more pizazz, more adventure in my life. I'd probably try anything. Hmm, maybe not anything. There are still some things I wouldn't dare to do. But if you could think of something disastrous I've done in my life, just tell me. I'd be happy to think my life over.
@jazel_juan (15767)
• Philippines
3 Mar 11
ok i will make that as an assignment and think of crazy stuff that you did back then...
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@swirlz (3137)
• Philippines
4 Mar 11
Lol. No, I take it back. I'm scared of what you might come up with.
@jazel_juan (15767)
• Philippines
7 Mar 11
oh i forgot this one! i should have thought of these yesterday when i was bored! hahahaha
@thatgirl13 (7307)
• South Korea
3 Mar 11
I think i'll never go on a blind date ever again. Went to a blind date sometime ago. It was awful. I hated the guy and his attitude. Everything was a mess :/ Some things aren't meant for you and I think blind dates aren't for me.
@jazel_juan (15767)
• Philippines
3 Mar 11
yes i know what you mean! mine was not a blind date, it was more like an eyeball..the guy i was meeting was soooo irritating. online he was like someone so kind but little did i know he and his friends were betting on what i look like! we met in the mall and they were hiding and when i arrived, they only said hi and left! i was like.... what the...they were rude and after that i have not talked to him and i never had any other meet ups.
• South Korea
3 Mar 11
it looks like we had the same problem.. anyway we know better than to go on date with guys like that right?? anyway have a good day..
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@funnysis (2619)
• United States
3 Mar 11
I will never say never again I did it once and it turned out bad.So I learned a valuable lesson when I did that.I hope you have a great day.
@jazel_juan (15767)
• Philippines
3 Mar 11
curious. i wonder what was that
@funnysis (2619)
• United States
3 Mar 11
I said I would never come down with something serious to keep me down and then did.I hope you have a great day.
• Philippines
22 Mar 11
Oh my, people tend to do several mistakes as we journey to this life.The biggest mistake I'll never do again is to have an affair with someone who's married already. That's the biggest mistake ever...BUT I least I had the courage to end it before anything worse happen...maybe I was too young then.
@jazel_juan (15767)
• Philippines
22 Mar 11
yes..something young minds are too aggressive and careless. i did!
@weasel81 (2501)
• Australia
8 Mar 11
i've been naughty and had an affair, came close to getting busted a few times. but i dont regret doing it, it got me away from wat was going on in life and made me feel more attractive. so far my only regret was getting with my ex, as it was a bad mistake. so i'm just more cautious about men now.
@jazel_juan (15767)
• Philippines
8 Mar 11
wow pretty brave of you weasel...
• Singapore
4 Mar 11
Having an affair will most probably be one of the top on my things-i'll-never-do-again list. I've had some affairs and most of them turned ugly. What with the guilt I had to live through everyday and the anxiety of being found out. Anyway, there are a lot of things I wish I'd never do again, I'd never cried and begged my ex boyfriend to not break up with me again. I guess that would be the top of my list. :-)
@jazel_juan (15767)
• Philippines
8 Mar 11
wow more than on affair? but then we all have mistakes huh.
@jeyeem (55)
• Philippines
4 Mar 11
oh yes i will never have an affair with anyone aver again. its just because of that that i lost so many connections. and its also because of that that i bring this guilt with me everywhere. yes, i do deserve it. that's why i will think harder before doing something to avoid hurting others. i will never do that thing again.
@jazel_juan (15767)
• Philippines
8 Mar 11
Wow it has been that bad? well as long as you repent it, i hope that guilt will leave you soon
@amirev777 (2761)
• India
3 Mar 11
Hi If there is one thing that i dont want to ever do again is to get married-thats what most of the men will say. Yes, there are many things that i did for which i repented later, and most of them were done when i was in fully inebriated state. So if one thing that I dont want to really do is to booze beyond limit.
@jazel_juan (15767)
• Philippines
7 Mar 11
hahahaha i guess most men say that! booze limit? now that is one thing i will do! i have never done that, i mean get really drunk..for some reasons , i do not get drunk so easily!
@tiffnkeat (1679)
• Singapore
3 Mar 11
The one thing I'll never do again is to tell myself never say "The one thing I'll never do again...". The moment you say it, you have already reminded yourself about it, and you keep thinking about it until it may materialize and then too late for regrets. There are many occassions I have said I'll never this and that, only to regret and feel bad...it's not worth reminding myself never to do something again. St Paul says it well: "I do not understand what I do. For what I want to do I do not do, but what I hate I do. (Romans 7:15) Imagine a bible giant with such words....I am beyond hope. I hope you have better success.
@jazel_juan (15767)
• Philippines
7 Mar 11
Good one! but then those are reminders of mistakes that makes me stronger and better
• Philippines
3 Mar 11
well i think we are in the same shoes...exactly the same i used to meet a again my long lost "puppy love" he still feel the same way he felt for me long time ago and i think i felt the same way to but i already have a partner and we already have a child...we chat, we text, we talk.it kinda lead to that but i refused cause i realize it is no good for the both of us..
@jazel_juan (15767)
• Philippines
3 Mar 11
yes i know...just the wrong place and hte wrong life time
@kheydia (883)
• Philippines
3 Mar 11
there is this one thing that i wont never do again, it is a thing that i would hate to mention about, it is very embarrassing for others to know so i will not just talk about it anyway...
@jazel_juan (15767)
• Philippines
3 Mar 11
oh okey, i will respect you for that
@globaldoc (860)
• Philippines
3 Mar 11
Ah, the one thing i will never do again? Let me see...Yes, now i know. There were several times i would spend the night out and go for good times. This led to my wife catching me eventually and quarreling with me. Therefore, i would say this is the one thing i will never do again. I would never again allow my wife to catch me.
@jazel_juan (15767)
• Philippines
3 Mar 11
who you are with then? you can tell me..i wont tell doberman huh.
@topffer (35525)
• France
3 Mar 11
One only ? There are many things that I will never do again. When I was a young student I was specialized in stupid bets and was never weighting the consequences. By example I was wearing a beard and, on a bet, shaved it half and went to a restaurant. I did not realized that I had to shave the other half till the morning. My worst bet was to swim across a river in a center of a town to an island, by a cold night in December. There was a lot of current, and once arrived, I realized that I had to cross again if I wanted my clothes. Indeed, my friends were gone with them... and turned back after ten minutes, just the time needed to be sure that I would get a big cold.
@jazel_juan (15767)
• Philippines
3 Mar 11
yes only one..or unless you want to specify many. atleast you could swim that far and nothing worse happened!
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@fl0rencia (417)
• Philippines
3 Mar 11
I didn't actually had an affair for my whole life. But I am into a situation that is sinful in the eyes of a lot people and specially in the eyes of the Lord. If there's one thing that I would never do again, and I regret, it is diving into this situation that I'm currently in. (I'm sorry I can't disclose exactly what situation I am in because it's kinda sensitive) :)
@jazel_juan (15767)
• Philippines
3 Mar 11
oh.. well let us just pray that sooner you will be able to sort things out and hope things will end well
@singuri (571)
• India
3 Mar 11
Yes, never have an affair. It kills your time. I have very bad experience. I will never do it again.
@jazel_juan (15767)
• Philippines
3 Mar 11
yes
@tessa9 (1086)
• Philippines
3 Mar 11
I'm 20 so I will make plenty more mistakes. I always say I will never do something but I go and do it over and over again. Cheating on the other hand is something that I will never do. At least I hope I will never do it. I know first hand the effects so I don't think I will be someone that I hate.
@jazel_juan (15767)
• Philippines
3 Mar 11
good for you. you are still young and yet to experience more.