no future do you stay?

Canada
March 2, 2011 10:06pm CST
if your with someone and both of you are happy you enjoy there company you love them and you get along great but neither one see's a future with the other what do you do? do you cut your losses and go different ways? or do you stay together as your thoughts might change?
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@jennyze (7049)
• Indonesia
3 Mar 11
No, I would ask this friend whether we should move up a different level of relationship. If he can't decide, then I will decide to just being friend with him and move on.
• Canada
3 Mar 11
this isnt a friend its a boyfriend of nearly two years the next level would be moving intogether which neither of us is comfortable with
@jennyze (7049)
• Indonesia
7 Mar 11
I understand that he is not a ere friend. If he is, wouldn't it easier to decide? If neither of you are comfortable with the idea, then I guess you should ask your heart whether you really love him.
• Philippines
3 Mar 11
hello innocents_lost! i am actually in a relationship right now where i am also happy. We are both happy but I have my qualms whether we have a future together. He told me to just enjoy what we have right now because if he has his way, he would like to spend his future with me. But as we all know, we cannot foretell what tomorrow has prepared for us. That is why we should not waste our time thinking about the what if's. We should rather enjoy the moment we have right now and cross the bridge when we get there so as not to waste the precious moments we could have with the love of our life right here, right now.
• Canada
3 Mar 11
well put, thats how i like to look at it that i'm happy and he is happy and neither of us can be certain of what will happen weeks/months/years from now so lets just enjoy what we have right now. but he brought up the point that if i ever thought i was missing out on something/someone to tell him as he doesn't want to stand in the way of me having a future with someone else if i feel its right. I think i'm going to stay living day to day though and just being happy with what i have
@sender621 (14956)
• United States
3 Mar 11
I believe that the decision to stay in a relationship with someone all depends on what expectations and hope you have for the relationship. If you want to build a future with someone and there are any doubts in the relationship, it can be difficult to stay or just move on to look for what you want out of life.
@thatgirl13 (7307)
• South Korea
3 Mar 11
This is a hard one. If we loved each other dearly then maybe we would find a way to be together. Maybe have a talk about the future and then decide. i don't know but if we loved each other, I would prefer staying with him till the end.
• Philippines
3 Mar 11
sometimes priorities goes along the way and both of you have different priorities