Women need to be absolutely beautiful?

@didi13 (2927)
Romania
March 3, 2011 7:09am CST
Beauty should be our ally, not a cruel master, unfortunately society in general, the media in particular, put great pressure on us all, it's not just women. We have some models and we suggest more or less subtle that we can and must get so sad that beauty is no longer a feature, perhaps a quality, but an industry that induces us the idea that beauty is not worse than being sick, or uneducated ... and this at an age of increasing age. When I see so many struggles and many frustrations, I ask you: women must be necessarily beautiful?
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11 responses
@gerald_lian (2194)
• Australia
3 Mar 11
As a guy, I would say that physical beauty is not really what I put as a priority when I look for companionship with a woman; I think "inner" beauty and personal unique characteristics are much more important. It is indeed true that the society are putting so much pressure on women to look beautiful and slim, which is a very sad case. Honestly speaking, I think every women should be proud of who they are, regardless of their looks and body size, because sometimes those things cannot or are hard to be controlled. But still, the industry and norms of society dictate how our world evolves, and there is little that a few individuals like us can do to change the way things are.....
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@dodo19 (26701)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
4 Mar 11
I think that the media and such are putting pressure on physical beauty. The media is trying to show that the physical beauty and appearance is more important and we need to be that way. Well, I have to disagree with this. We shouldn't define beauty this way. I think that, if a woman feels beautiful, than that's what matters, and others will see that. We shouldn't necessarily follow these types of rules when comes to things like beauty and such. We should define it for ourselves.
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@didi13 (2927)
• Romania
5 Mar 11
I agree with you. Beauty is a strictly personal capacity, , being is born with and will stand forever because beauty comes from within and soul will always reflect the physical and psychological expression that together in a mix of retail, tenderness and power of understanding ,of seriousness, give optimism and spontaneity that exudes quiet harmony, balance, natural elegance and modernity. Women charm, the way to behave toward your fellow man, is an element of civilization and culture,respect for yourself before anything. Moreover, welding is an element of family life, education for children who in turn will educate parents and will grow people. Thanks.
@naani533 (72)
• India
4 Mar 11
hi friend...... actually the beauty of a person is belongs to their heart. the external beauty is not at all needed. but we can find this type of situations in anywhere. because they wil choose a woman with having good face expressions and attractions. these will help in getting jobs like receptionists like that. they can manage their beauty by usig makeup. but the only thing is never makeup our heart for other things. we should maintain it clearly. that is the real beauty. i think so........
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@didi13 (2927)
• Romania
4 Mar 11
Agreed. If there is an inner beauty, like physical beauty fades. It's not important just a pretty face. It's important to be a pleasant facial expression, eyes deep, gentle smile. When the inner beauty it is very strong, that person seems enveloped in an aura of light much more valuable.Thanks.
4 Mar 11
Hi there .. Just like what you just said .. Nowadays .. A quality was much more important than physical. For me .. Women are always beautiful .. They always fascinate me.. no matter how they look .. I like to see people based on their inner quality .. Not Just Physical ..
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@didi13 (2927)
• Romania
4 Mar 11
True, the woman's a mystery On the road of life, ephemeral But as they catch the neck the necklace, There goes to the mystery story.Thanks.
@bird123 (10301)
• United States
4 Mar 11
Every woman is beautiful in her own way. As for the physical beauty, age and time takes care of that for everyone. As for me, I have never been more than an average looking man. I have to look in the mirror maybe a couple times a day, so my looks don't matter. If people don't like what God has given me, isn't that really their problem???? Besides do people really care what a kind, loving, and generous person looks like??? Be that and the world will love you regardless!!
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@didi13 (2927)
• Romania
4 Mar 11
True! There are people who see and appreciate the inner beauty. We must be ourselves, and we meet such people, who know that beauty comes from the soul and a man of character. Physical beauty is fleeting, it wither, but the soul remains forever young.Thanks.
@Liliac26 (558)
• Romania
3 Mar 11
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Unfortunately, society does put a lot of pressure on us women to conform to a certain standard of beauty. Personally, I choose to ignore it and be myself.
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@didi13 (2927)
• Romania
3 Mar 11
Very nice, I am in consent with you. True beauty comes from simplicity and sublime.Thanks.
@jaiho2009 (39084)
• Philippines
3 Mar 11
hello didi, In my opinion,i always want to look beautiful. I feel comfortable and very confident when i feel pretty. Being beautiful is not all about cosmetics,of make-up,jewelery and expensive dresses. Being beautiful is,how graceful you walk,and how you handle each situation,esp with communications. You can please people with outer beauty in an instant look. But you can please people and made a mark in their memory when you were able to impress them with the way you talk and communicate. So,beauty is not all about outer looks,but intelligence as well.
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@didi13 (2927)
• Romania
3 Mar 11
There is only beauty is not fading with the passage of years:is the inner beauty of spirit. This quality of personality make you blink your eyes a woman,succeeding to turn a simple person in a special. Inner beauty of a woman should always be obvious and out, but not necessarily by cosmetics, make-up, jewelery and expensive dresses, as you said. Integrity, honesty, morals and values are the ones that make up the character. Whatever the situation or circumstances, a woman with inner beauty benefits will lead regardless of what others will think.Thanks.
• Philippines
3 Mar 11
hello didi13! Yes, women need to be absolutely beautiful, but not in the way you perceive it to be. Women need to be beautiful inside, not necessarily physically. A woman, who is spiritually and emotionally beautiful, can radiate such serenity and calm, that it exudes beauty on its own category. A woman, who is self confident, spiritually and emotionally mature and is not harboring any excess baggage, can radiate an undefinable beauty that is sure to radiate through time and age, unlike physical beauty. Physical beauty fades and even in its present state, it is define as to what is categorically passably pretty, attractive and stunningly beautiful, depending on who is judging. However, a beautiful woman whose beauty radiates from within her, is sure to outshine even those whose beauty are goddess-like, in the long run. Personally, i would like to aspire for that beauty from within, which can last through time and help you bail out during tough and trying times, still standing tall and courageous, despite the trials and burden.
@didi13 (2927)
• Romania
3 Mar 11
Absolutely beautiful to... "real. " The beauty of the soul, inner cleanliness and purity make it a beautiful woman. Appearance does not really matter because it changes with time, or with plastic surgery so women used today...Inner beauty is that something ineffable that makes a man want to be liked and in which others with whom they trust and feel good. Thanks.
@toniganzon (37513)
• Philippines
3 Mar 11
From the time that i went to school, i always have misconceptions of beautiful girls or women. Most of my classmates who were good looking at a very young age were dumb and that made me think that if i look beautiful people might think i'm dumb. It's prejudice, i know but then i thought that way until i graduated from college. I never tried to make an effort to look beautiful then and i only became conscious of physical beauty when i got married and had a son. I think physical beauty is not necessary at all for women to excel. I saw successful career woman who are not physical beautiful but they exude such beauty that for me is so attractive. I want to be that kind of woman. Beautiful inside and out, and exudes confidence in everything! Intelligence and wisdom is more important for me.
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@didi13 (2927)
• Romania
3 Mar 11
So it is, the beauty of a woman must come from inside. Each woman is unique. A woman to be considered beautiful by others, should not be limited to fresh skin after adolescence. A woman must be aware of its value, and I mean natural, general knowledge, kindness,ability to understand certain situations, realism, sense of humor ... Lasting beauty, is built day by day, year after year.Thanks.
@SIMPLYD (73165)
• Philippines
4 Mar 11
One doesn't have to be physically beautiful in order to be tagged that. Nowadays, you can be beautiful if you know how to exude it and carry your clothes well even if you don't have that beautiful face. In addition, you must have some "brains" also , because it still adds to the beauty. Most of all, you must have a beautiful heart also. When you have those 3 , then you are beautiful.
@didi13 (2927)
• Romania
4 Mar 11
Every woman has a unique beauty that can never be found in the same way to another woman. The longer a woman is more aware of the existing qualities in her soul and spirit,which are beautiful and it creates its uniqueness, the more it will be not only beautiful, but attractive and charming. And if besides all this, add a little mystery,sensuality, refinement, gentleness, goodness, power of love,tenderness, or other qualities of the archetypal feminine soul, she "gave" and it will be truly a beautiful woman, and charming.Thanks.
• Philippines
9 Mar 11
It is necessary for a woman to be beautiful. Not only to attract men but also to feel good. When a person looks good, she feels good. Being beautiful brings a lot of advantages; however, this doesn't mean we should not pay attention to inner beauty. It's still best to be beautiful inside out.