Is there really a magical feeling when two people fell in love?
By airasheila
@airasheila (5454)
Philippines
March 5, 2011 2:55am CST
Good day Fellow Mylotters,
Just a quick one, is there really a magical feeling when two people fell in love to each other?
I was listening to the music with a lyrics "Got to believe in magic, tell me how to people find each other". From that lyrics, I began to think, how me and my husband met long time back. That, I really do not know him and vice versa. That, we lived in an opposite pole - he stays at Antipolo which was located at the South while me stays Manila which was located at the North. That, we have met and began to feel that special feeling called love.
I am really thinking, is it really magic? Is there really a magical feeling when you and your husband fell in love? Or even in a boyfriend-girlfriend relationship, is there really a magic when a woman say yes to his fiance?
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22 responses
@absolutevision (19)
• Malaysia
5 Mar 11
Zills,
Couldn't help but note your remark bout stretching our hearts and making it bigger inside.
Reminded me of the story of the Grinch, where his heart was two sizes too small.
As the Grinch so aptly puts it : MAX. HELP ME... I'm FEELING.
@asiamooner (418)
• Philippines
5 Mar 11
not magic, but miracle i guess...
I met my wife in thailand, when I was looking for love and she, was looking for a refuge from a wounded heart...
We are 7 years apart, her being older than me. I seem to find it strange at first, that love will grow up from such a distant dimension...but eventually, it dawned on me that my faith required me to believe everything was planned for me by God....and she was part of it. So, i have to remove my indifference towards our age and trust the love we saw in each other's eyes the first day that we met.
Miracle, not magic for me... she's giving birth at the end of this month, or first week of april. I am very happy. :)
@ClassyCat (1214)
• United States
5 Mar 11
Genuine love is not a feeling, although feelings are a part of the love experience. Many con't know the difference betweel love and s*x - they think that they are the same.
Real love is a committment and a decision. It doesn't happen right away for most, but will develope into it over time.
Real love isn't finicky or selfish - but wants what is best for the person they are developing a love for. Real love is willing to work at overcoming differences and to put up with the differences between a couple - unless of course, that other person is all wound up into a "what's in it for me"(?) relationship.
I was married for over 50 yrs. and am now a widow of 2 yrs. What a heartache to lose that one that you really did love with all of your heart!
@sexyice (873)
• Latvia
5 Mar 11
Hey hey :)
I think that all love is something magical and unaffected. We can not give orders to love, not able to hold hands, we can not even define it. Even if it has a mystic. And when two people fall in love, they oven make lot of stupid things... :D
Since most certainly agree that love and all that it entails is a very magical. And we - women, in general are very romantic.
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@hemlockspruce25 (501)
• Philippines
5 Mar 11
I personally would give your questions a YES.
I for one experienced this feeling.
Regardless of my ideals I felt something strange for
him. It was the feeling that being close to him feels so right,
how I felt so secured and cared for.
And the magic unfolded with a soft gentle kiss.
There were fireworks in my mind by then. :)
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@danishcanadian (28953)
• Canada
12 Mar 11
I think what they describe in the songs has more to do with lust than love. When I knew my guy was the one, and when he knew I was the one, it was just an instinct. Not really fireworks, or anything "magical" just two people who knew they were meant to be together, and there is no way to describe that. It's a lot "plainer" than the songs would suggest, but when it happens, you know it. Think of how you knew your best friend was your best friend, and how you know a family member really loves you, mix them up, toss in a bit of physical attraction, and you've got it. Physical attraction is not overdone, it's just "there."
@sunny5u (2069)
• India
6 Mar 11
Hi sheila, i personally feel that yes there is a magical feeling, which drives people go crazy, and that magical feeling decides our soul mate, and i am waiting for that....
@amirev777 (4117)
• India
21 Mar 11
Hi
Yes, there is definitely a magical feeling when you fall in love - its the best feeling one can ever encounter in this life. You need to really fall in love and experience it to know that magical feeling.
@PRIYANK1992 (1677)
• India
6 Mar 11
Yeah love is really a magical feeling when we fell in with a boy/girl we thinks the life in a different manner and change ourself according to our partner.This is amazing thing. I am also in love
@mythociate (21437)
• Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
6 Mar 11
No, but there's the reassurance of safety---like when you jump out of a plane 
and remember halfway down that you're wearing a parachute 
and remember halfway down that you're wearing a parachute @xfiendfyre (14)
• United States
21 Mar 11
Yes, although it is not immediate. I used to think that once you fell in love, that was it, you were in love... but after you initially fall in love, it continues to grow and expand from there. It is never-ending. And it definitely feels "magical". All relationships have ups and downs, and during the downs this feeling still never completely goes away. The magical feeling exists when you are elated just to be in the same room as this person. It is a truly wonderful feeling and I am very blessed to be able to experience it firsthand.
@Mickie30 (2626)
•
5 Mar 11
I don't know whether you would call it magical. It was strange. It was like meeting the opposite side of me. Looking in the mirror and finding my reflection looking back at me. After 7 years and 2 small kids we still love each other, but it's difficult. Life gets on top of you and you end up shouting at each other. We are so similar that we both lack motivation. This gets in the way of things like house work and we argue a lot about this. We still love each other and would never separate. My husband's sister still cannot get over how similar we are. We got married within 2 months of meeting each other and everyone said we were mad and that it wouldn't last. I knew I'd met my soul mate though.
@Theresaaiza (10487)
• Australia
5 Mar 11
Hi aira, I was truly touched by response no.5. Love, or finding a lover is really a miracle. In my case, it was a blessing.
There were at least 2 men in my life that I have fallen deeply for. Both are really good guys, sincere, family-loving, and God-fearing. My first suitor and I, it just didn't progress to the next level because we found ourselves falling for other people. We are still good friends though. The second guy is now my boyfriend and he is the most caring and understanding of all.
To think, I was never really praying hard or seeking desperately for love but God sent those people to me, to inspire me and made me feel loved and special.
That magical feeling actually is at its peak during the courting stage. After that it's just living and loving one day at a time.
@Ingkingderders (3832)
• Philippines
6 Mar 11
I think people would like to believe that there is really magic when you fall in love, it just makes it more exciting, more romantic, and yeah, more magical. Hehehe. I'd like to believe that when my boyfriend/fiance met there was not really magic, we were friends for the longest time before he and I got together.. when we both realized that it's more than being friends, I guess the magic then began.
@sender621 (14894)
• United States
5 Mar 11
When two people fall in love with each other they go through a realm of emotions and feelings. How can magic not be one of these feelings. Falling in love is a magical experience that can take us so many places. Believing in love is believing in magic.
@thatgirl13 (7294)
• South Korea
5 Mar 11
Yes indeed. It's feels so nice to be in love. The feelings are magical indeed. It's been a longtime since I was last in love but i still know the feelings. It felt great to be love and love someone unconditionally. I could stare at him like an idiot for hours lol. I loved being with him and talking to him on the phone 
It felt nice.
It felt nice. 