How does the long distance relationship goes well ???

China
March 6, 2011 7:14am CST
My boyfriend and i met four years ago,but we fell in love just one year ago,after we entered universities,different universities!Now,i am very confused,because the distence between us,and,we are on the different levels.On the other word,he is a little not good enough for me on the study.But,i feel i am really in love with him,so is he.What should we do? for our distence,and our real love.
2 responses
@ceres31 (141)
• Philippines
6 Mar 11
I also had a LDR. We need to buy a ticket plane before one of us can see the other. In my case, i'm the one who's coming for him. I had no choice because he is working and I am studying. Every vacation I used my savings to come to him. I am also working so I can do the things I like. You two are old enough about things such as these. If you both feel inlove with each other then I guess you will overcome this matter. There are other means of communication, take advantage of it. You can call him, chat and use webcam or if both of you have time then why not meet each other and have fun. Its not about how long you've met him but how long you two understands each other. I met my boyfriend online gaming, then when we met and we became lovers. Even though its hard, as long as there is time to bond then its okay. We chat every night and when its christmas or summer I visit him. And we share the plane ticket expenses. "love conquers all". Understanding, loyalty, trust and love. If you had these then its okay. =) We are on our 2 years already. Now we are together and going to have a baby soon. Hope the two of you will also understand and trust each other. Don't let jealousy or loneliness defeat you. What a long story I had there. lol :D
• China
7 Mar 11
Thank u for ur words."Love conquers all",i really like it.And i am envious of u that you two are having a happy life now.So, i think,i should believe our relationship,our love,and,i will do somethings i can do for our love.The most important thing is , i believe that we will have happy life one day,just like you two.I like ur story.Thank u for ur blessing! Good luck.^-^
@ceres31 (141)
• Philippines
9 Mar 11
Your welcome. It really is unbelievable for the two of us to stay together until now. Like other couple with LDR, we both feel conscious and worried everyday on what the other one is doing. Especially when at a time when he is with his friends and having a drinking session. But all I can do is say yes and trust him. You can say that I really love him with such big trust I have on him.
@Suggar (3612)
• Bulgaria
6 Mar 11
It's really hard. When i first met my boyfriend, we lived in different cities. Fortunately i didn't have problems to move in his city, but as i read now you both study so you can't do anything about it. May be you can use the free weekends to travel to each other and in the other time you can contact online? I've had such relationship before, but there was no strong feelings about it. We could see each other once in the month, i was traveling to his city and we could spend few days together. For our luck, the relations finished really soon. But i know about him that he had girlfriend for something like 4-5 years, she was a student in another city (around 100 kilometers away from him), he was working in his own city and when she finished her university she went back to him. They decided to live together, rented apartment, but soon after that he understood that he can't live that way with that person. He still loved her, but it was not enough for him so he can spend whole his life with her. Few months after that they broke up.
• China
7 Mar 11
Wow,everyone has his story,yes? but i think it is true that we all want to have a happy life.Therefore,we all just try hard to make our dream come true.i believe myself,so,i think u can too.Good luck,sweetie.