Too Old for Facebook?

@p1kef1sh (45681)
March 14, 2011 3:07pm CST
p1kelet told me the other day that parents that have FB accounts are "very sad". I had a litle thought about theis and decided that I may be "sad" but at least my 90 friends are friends (many online ones but no lesser beings for that fact) and not just someone that I was at school with X years ago and to whom I have not spoken since. Are you a "sad" FB user?
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@dawnald (85130)
• Shingle Springs, California
14 Mar 11
Like my daughter would say, "whatever"...
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@p1kef1sh (45681)
14 Mar 11
Yup.
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@ElicBxn (63233)
• United States
14 Mar 11
Well, I don't have any little "Eliclets" to tell me I'm sad, and I'm probably close to your age, and I have about twice as many friends as you have, I think the p1kelet is sad to think that we don't have a place on FB... Heck, I'm sure one of our senior members, Hatley, would do quite well on FB if she wanted to join (heck, she may be there and I don't know!)
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@ElicBxn (63233)
• United States
14 Mar 11
how do I get to be both of your friends? I do have quite a few mylot friends
@p1kef1sh (45681)
14 Mar 11
Hatley is there and she is a friend of mine Elic. I agree. p1kelet is sadder than we are in this respect.
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@p1kef1sh (45681)
14 Mar 11
Pm me here.
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@cher913 (25782)
• Canada
14 Mar 11
i guess so but seriously, i dont care. my kids have facebook accounts (they are teens) but so does my hubby. our intent is not to check up on them, we both have them for work purposes.
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@p1kef1sh (45681)
14 Mar 11
FB for work. Affiliate marketing? Anyway I don't care whether the children think I am sad or not either!
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@catdla1 (6005)
• United States
14 Mar 11
What's wrong about parents having FB accounts??? That smacks of thinking that older folks are 'just taking up space' that belongs to the younger generation. Little does p1kelet know that we are a short time young, and a long time old. So, I guess I'm a 'sad' FB user. Not only have I made lots of friends that I keep in touch with here...but I've also found many of my old classmates...the ones that I wished that I hadn't lost touch with. The more 'sadness' the merrier!
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@p1kef1sh (45681)
14 Mar 11
I agree. Are we friends there? LOL.
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@catdla1 (6005)
• United States
14 Mar 11
You mean, you don't know???
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@puccagirl (7294)
• Israel
14 Mar 11
I am not a parent, so I guess not. But I honestly do not think that's true. Why shouldn't parents be able to use social networking sites and other new technology just like everybody else? That makes no sense to me!
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@p1kef1sh (45681)
14 Mar 11
Agreed. It's the young abusing the middle aged! LOL.
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@aghiuta (525)
• Canada
16 Mar 11
YES I am,but since my daughters are the ones that invited me,together with other young people,I guess I am a hip "sad" person on FB. It is a great way to keep in touch with friend for far,reconnect with people.
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@p1kef1sh (45681)
16 Mar 11
You have the right attitude. Enjoy your Facebooking.
@nannacroc (4049)
15 Mar 11
I would be but lots of people I've avoided for years wanted to be my friend. That's bad enough if they were just friends but they were relatives so the only solution was to stop using FB. I did meet one person who I now count as a good friend so it was worth joining.
@nannacroc (4049)
17 Mar 11
It was worthwhile although sometimes when I talk to my friend my family think I'm talking to myself.
@p1kef1sh (45681)
15 Mar 11
So it was worthwhile after all Nanna. You can meet the nicest people online.
@BarBaraPrz (45433)
• St. Catharines, Ontario
14 Mar 11
I'm not a FBer. I don't see the point. If someone wants to talk to me, they can: a) phone me b) email me c) send a letter d) visit me
@BarBaraPrz (45433)
• St. Catharines, Ontario
14 Mar 11
You haven't asked, either. I'm in the book.
@p1kef1sh (45681)
14 Mar 11
Haven't got you number Haven't got your E mail addy Haven't got your address Haven't got your address x 2!
@p1kef1sh (45681)
14 Mar 11
Mat I have your name, address, e mail and telephone number please?
@ellie333 (21016)
14 Mar 11
Well I am sad too then, but I actually have more friends than my kids on my FB book account and use it mainly for games but do catch up with people from time to time too. My childrens friends add me not the other way round so can't be that sad really eh! Huggles. Ellie :D
@ellie333 (21016)
14 Mar 11
They call me mum No 2, so I guess you cool dad No2 to P1kelets lol
@p1kef1sh (45681)
14 Mar 11
p1kelet's friends add us too Ellie. That's cos we're (you and us) cool parents! LOL.
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@dragon54u (31636)
• United States
14 Mar 11
Nope, I'm not a sad user. I'm on there but under the name of my dog! That way I don't have hundreds of people who think they know me asking to be my friend. I keep in touch with family that way. This newer generation won't pick up the phone and God forbid they should sit down and actually write a letter! They Facebook, text, etc. So I'm on Facebook but I obey a couple of rules--I don't embarrass my kids by posting on their accounts (they're in their early 20's and still conscious of that) and all my info is PRIVATE!
@p1kef1sh (45681)
14 Mar 11
I'm there under my real name and nobody knows that either.... apart from 90 FB friends! LOL.
@glnnvl (23)
• United States
16 Mar 11
I'm not a "sad FB user" either. I am 45 and I enjoy it. I keep intouch with old friends, have made new friends and I have 2 grown kids that I chat with all the time on FB. I play a couple of the games also. I enjoy it. My kids think its great that I am on there!
@jerzgirl (9226)
• United States
15 Mar 11
I am the biggest, baddest, saddest FB user you'll find!! There is no single technology that is age based. I had some 15 yr old twit try to tell me that there was no way I was over 50 since I knew how to text. I was not gentle. It was OUR generation and that of our parents and grandparents that built the foundations for the technologies these kids are claiming as their own. Well, hon - y'all don't own it. We love it, too, and if we want to use it, by God, we're going to use it!!! How do ya like THEM apples, huh?
@p1kef1sh (45681)
15 Mar 11
Ripe and juicy Jerz. Ripe and juicy!
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@jerzgirl (9226)
• United States
15 Mar 11
@yoyo1198 (3641)
• United States
14 Mar 11
I was. Not now. It was too invasive of my privacy. I don't want every Tom, Dickk and Harry knowing what I'm reading, who my friends are, what I like and don't like, and which way I wear a bra. Stupid games people play find ways onto your wall and all. I deactivated and regret it not.
@p1kef1sh (45681)
15 Mar 11
Depends who your friends are. But I know what you mean. I use it to keep up with friends from here mostly. Family has a separate one that is very small and even more select.
@yoyo1198 (3641)
• United States
14 Mar 11
Hmmm...filter wouldn't let me post Richard's nick name....ain't that a crock.
@RawBill1 (8531)
• Gold Coast, Australia
15 Mar 11
Oh yeah, very sad! I have about 300 friends on FB which fall into 5 different categories. When I first joined FB, I was just getting into internet marketing and so I joined a few marketing groups and received plenty of friend requests. I am still "friends" with some of them, but have nothing to do with them really. I also have many "friends" who request my friendship as I am into raw vegan lifestyles. So I have loads of raw vegan and just normal vegan friends who I have never met. There are also people in this category who I have met, but am not really close to. Then there are those who I knew from my past but lost contact with over the years. This has been great catching up with a few of these people through FB. There is also another group which is expanding and those are my friends from here who are also on FB. Am I friends with you there? I don't think I am? Then last but not least are those friends that I also interact with regularly online and in real life locally. This includes my family who are all interstate. My life on FB is pretty sensible. Lots of business marketing, interaction with real friends, but none of those FB games or silly quizzes!
@p1kef1sh (45681)
15 Mar 11
I have only "found" one friend for my teenage years on FB and he now lives in Sydney running an apparently very successful design studio. Most of my friends are ex-myLot and one or two others.
@RawBill1 (8531)
• Gold Coast, Australia
16 Mar 11
In Sydney! Another Englishman on Bondi Beach! Well, feel free to add me if you want...just search RawBill. No pressure if you do not want to either.
@jennyze (7029)
• Indonesia
15 Mar 11
Thought only me that's too old for it. Nah, if you are happy with it then there's nothing as too old for something. Many of my friends are on FB, too. Though I dont know what they do everyday there?
@p1kef1sh (45681)
15 Mar 11
I sometimes wonder that as well!!
@jennyze (7029)
• Indonesia
16 Mar 11
I guess they mostly play games there and monitored their children activities. I know one friend who always online on Skype but rarely responding to any chat because she is addicted to Backgammon.
• Canada
18 Mar 11
I'm 29, and my husband is almost 65, which makes him three years older than my parents, and we BOTH have facebook accounts. LOL I don't think there's such thing as being too old for an FB account, just as long as these parents aren't embarassing their teens on line. LOL Fortunately 9 of Hubby's 10 kids are older than I am, so he doesn't have to worry about that.
@p1kef1sh (45681)
18 Mar 11
You were clearly a child bride. LOL. The age gap doesn't matter if the love is there. Enjoy your FBing.
@cream97 (29087)
• United States
15 Mar 11
Hi. p1kef1sh. Nope not sad in the least! I am not addicted to Facebook, therefore I am not a sad parent. Facebook is not my life. I am on it, but it has not become me at all.
@p1kef1sh (45681)
15 Mar 11
So it shouldn't Cream. Thank you.
• Philippines
15 Mar 11
huh?? I have to disagree with you p1kef1sh. My mom, my aunties and other old relatives have facebook account too... and I absolutely sure that they aren't sad... Casebook is a social site. One way to communicate or reconnected to your long lost friends... Old ones today are trendy and very young at heart. They are always "in" now... It's modern age... grandmas and grandpas are trendy now... I completely think that its cool... Its not because your old , you have no right or priviledge or heart to enjoy the benefits of online social sites...
@p1kef1sh (45681)
15 Mar 11
In what way are you disagreeing with me? I don't feel sad about the fact that I use FB at all. Good for your rellies. Long may they continue with their online activities.
• Philippines
18 Mar 11
I have a facebook account and i'm a parent but that does not mean i'm sad. I joined FB so i can keep in touch with my relatives, friends, classmates. But then i don't stay connected with FB most of the time. i just log in once in a while to check messages and post birthday greetings if time permits.
@p1kef1sh (45681)
18 Mar 11
I suspect that you use FB as was originally intended. But it has become quite bloated with additional games etc now.
• United States
15 Mar 11
considering that I am 53 and yeah I have a fb account I am not sad just like to keep up with friends and family and a local band that I go to listen to I think it's what you make it I have seen people older then me I like it it's fun and I even play the games on there I don't think it's age restricted which is cool to me.
@p1kef1sh (45681)
15 Mar 11
I agree with you. I'm nearly 53 and feel exactly the same.
• Pakistan
15 Mar 11
Hi, I don't know if I am a sad user but I only use FaceBook when someone sends me an invitation or when I feel like playing checkers and it makes me happy.
@p1kef1sh (45681)
15 Mar 11
If it makes you happy them you can't be sad.