horror alone

Australia
March 14, 2011 9:48pm CST
most of the people feel alone them self because they have no true friends but i am be different because i have lot of true friends but feeling alone why? ?????what happen to me?????
12 responses
@adisys (37)
• India
15 Apr 11
dear friend ... i think u r in a search of a relation where you can share all your mind-thoughts , joys and sorrows. So don't keep waiting ... the best way is - Close your eyes and see when comes first in your mind as a close friend. Then tell her/him that how much important he/she is for you !! Share all your thoughts with that person and see your life will change suddenly !! All the best for you ! :)
• United States
14 Apr 11
It's not a matter of having true friends or not...I believe that at some point in life everyone has got a turning point for the better or worse. Either way, it's not so important. However, it's the decisions one makes at such point that really counts. And whether the impacts of such decisions will have a negative nor positive effect on one's friends or family is such notion I think created the boundary. Thus, excluding someone from the people they love and matter the most. Eventually, a feeling of "alone" and abandonment arises...That's just my opinion. Simply said, whatever the decision you are having, make it count.
• Bulgaria
14 Apr 11
If you find out how you felt that way wuold you please tell me because I am sick and tired of almost everybody and just wish to be left alone for a minute or two.
14 Apr 11
I think you have a lot of people in your life but have not find your soul mate. The person that knows every single thing about you, and that makes you feel warm and secure when they around.
• Philippines
14 Apr 11
I've been like that, it happens to me that even I have friends, I still feel alone. I wondered why, I did many things just to discover and I explore a lot. I noticed that I'm not satisfy, not satisfy enough to feel that I am not alone. So, I tried to ask many people, what could be the reason? Two of their answers are: 1. Do the things that you missed in your life before and 2. Do the things that would be good. then I said, yes I will then it cross my mind about this issue: "Should I find my self because I feel lost? or Should I create my self because I feel not complete?"
• Indonesia
24 Mar 11
Maybe you can not get something that you want from your friends, or just the matter of bored.
@CmesaMTG (21)
• United States
23 Mar 11
Well are you around family, do you have a significant other in your life, are you old enough to have kids, and if so do you have any? Perhaps there is something that is creating a feeling of a void in your life. Do you get together with your friends often. I make it a point to get together with friends every weekend. I also see my family every weekend. I like you have many true friends, which I must say does make me lucky, even though I may complain at times about the amount of social events that I attend. I would ask myself these questions and see what answers I would come up with. You may be surprised.
@didi13 (2927)
• Romania
16 Mar 11
Sometimes it's overwhelming loneliness than any concern that we have and is not an easy thing for someone confided, even if that someone is a close friend or brother or sister. Sometimes you feel is the only one who needs to love and be loved and to have someone along in hard times, to whom we can say that the soul without any restraint. But have not lost hope for a soul mate is out there somewhere, and the only thing we need is just to look for it! Do not lose hope because "Love Comes Again"
@Pinoer (69)
• Bulgaria
16 Mar 11
Why are you feeling alone? Becouse you are alone... We all are alone... in our minds and our thoughts! You have a lot of friends but if you rely on them to be happy you are doomed. Becouse you are alone... all the time in your iner world! If we learn ourselves to be happy alone then we'll be happy forever! I know how hard it is to accept such thinhg but remmeber - If we accept the things - only then we'll be able to change it!
@dreamnishu (1253)
• China
15 Mar 11
hello friend! i do not feel alone because i have a true friend whom i can fight,do love can share my feelings and she is like my all.sometime i feel with out her i am nothing sometime i feel why she come in my life.i really very lucky to have such a true friend.why it is happen with you?i really do not understand what happen with you. take good care of yourself.
• China
15 Mar 11
I think people feel alone though there lover or friend is around that because i think they don't get everything what they expect from them or they can't share there expectation with them. That time they do feel alone so i think you also feel alone for this reason. Sometime i also feel alone when i don't get the things what i expect from my friends,family or lover.
@LovelyxOdd (1201)
• United States
15 Mar 11
I feel alone sometimes. Even when I'm around my loved ones. I have been there, in a dark and empty place. Sometimes there are reasons why I get that way and sometimes there just aren't. I don't know if you have depression or are going through a hard time or maybe just need more validation for who you are. But you should try to figure out the cause of these feelings you have and then from there attempt to work on it. Seek help if you need - there is no shame in that. Talk with your friends about your feelings and if that doesn't work maybe try counseling.