Long Live myLot

@allknowing (55700)
India
March 14, 2011 11:51pm CST
There is so much all of us can do to make myLot a wonderful site. All what it takes is consideration for another user. I am sure there will be many here who would have contributed greatly to make another user's life here in myLot a happy one. Your views please.
5 responses
@zralte (4186)
• India
15 Mar 11
I see lots of members who are very helpful, who have helped other members including me. Be it the ways of myLot or any other matter, they help out when they can. Some by giving valuable advice, some by pointing us in the right way, some just by showing they care, etc etc. I believe most of us are considerate enough. Sure there are days when any member can be short and may be a little rude as well. I understand that. No one can be happy and cheerful all the time. Saying that, there will always be some members or people who are rude all the time in any community. That is life. We should just try to be nice to all members even the rude ones. I believe in Goodness having won over the Bad side in any case.
@allknowing (55700)
• India
15 Mar 11
It is easier said than done zralte. It is no different from the real world when it comes to coming to terms with rudeness. If one can put up with rudeness in the real world one could do that in the virtual world too. But how many are like you who are not affected by rudeness? Helping those who need help is surely welcome but that does not mean one should use terms such 'for heaven's sake' 'for pete's sake' etc and even ruder terms. If someone wants to offer help there are certainly better ways to do it. Anyway no user has the right to order about anyone here. Even myLot Admin does not do it.
@kalav56 (11503)
• India
16 Mar 11
Noone has a right to be rude to another be it in the real or virtual world.And, countering rudeness with goodness is too idealistic zralte. Very few people do it in the real world too. I agree there are some rude people who get away with it and if people put up with nonsense it is misconstrued as weakness and not goodness.
@allknowing (55700)
• India
19 Mar 11
I would rather have a few people in my life who are gentle than countless of them whose rudeness I would have to put up with kala whether in the real or virtual world.
@kalav56 (11503)
• India
15 Mar 11
I do not think I have particularly made anyone very happy all-knowing! I have made some wonderful friends here with whom I share thoughts freely. Discussions have been mutually beneficial and some of them have been quite thought provoking. Whether I have contributed greatly to another person's happiness is not something I can say for sure. I can say, I would prefer it if people do not contribute to making people unhappy here. If I see some potentially negative approach I would stay a mile away. Moreover, my motive is also simple friendship, writing for my own satisfaction and friendship.
@allknowing (55700)
• India
16 Mar 11
If you read my comment that I have made under zralte's response it explains my thoughts. No doubt myLot expects assistance from users to keep this site clean but rudeness must not have a place here.
@megamatt (14333)
• United States
15 Mar 11
Responding to discussions around the website gives some people a lot of hope around this website. It inspires them to post more. Then you post your topics and they respond and you respond to them. It is all about community building to say the very least. Therefore, we are going to continue to interact and there are going to be times where this community will grow. There are a lot of discussion forums on the Internet, but there have been few that are going to allow us to discuss like myLot has. I mean really discuss and establish some great communication. It is a community that has withstood the test of time and will continue to really grow. Members will come, members will go, members will return, but the feeling of community will continue to grow.
@allknowing (55700)
• India
26 Mar 11
And in the midst of all this there are situations that could vitiate the environment and it is these situations that participants should try and avoid at all cost.
@mrgpk63 (444)
• United States
15 Mar 11
It is always up to the User to Keep Busy and do as many Tasks as they can reply to or ask. It isn't up to Your Fellow Member to also do the same Thing. So we need to Add Friends beside Our Daily Routines Here at My Lot. You Earn for Your Work Here and not Your Friends Jobs He or She has Completed. But do Add Friends and talk with One Another. This Way this will Stay a Friendly Site to Earn at
• United States
15 Mar 11
Hi allknowing When I respond to a discussion and or directly to a member I certainly feel that I am considerate, mainly because I do not see an avatar on it's own I certainly know that behind it is a real person! So absolutely all members are humans and as we should do offline, online should not be an exception from being considerate. During my time here I do see a great many so willing to always lend hand much more then actually earning.