Love Fades

Philippines
March 21, 2011 12:43am CST
When we are in love, we are thinking that will never fade and will last forever. But do you believe that certain time love will fade, and you are not noticing it's fading... Why?
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@gaiza12 (4889)
• Philippines
21 Mar 11
I thought it never fades.. I know my love for my bf remains strong but I am doubting his love for me now. He is very different lately, he doesn't take care of me and takes my feelings forgranted. He has always telling me he loves me before but he never shows it now not like before when we had our first year. We are almost turning 5 years this year but I don't feel his love anymore. Sadly I don't think love really doesn't fade for in my experience, it did fade.
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• Philippines
24 Mar 11
As for my part I believe that love fades, see the couple around. Some finds their hearts truly in love but look at what happened till next year, they divorced? What is the reason of their divorce, because their love toward one another faded.
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@gaiza12 (4889)
• Philippines
24 Mar 11
It just sweet when you have just started the relationship, but when you celebrate many years together already, then you will feel less and less love each month. Sad but I think that is really the reality of life. Glad to read some comments here that they still believe that love doesn't fade. Happy for them still..
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@momof3kids (1903)
• Singapore
23 Mar 11
You will stop loving someone when you refuse to accept that someone. People often say that emotions you feel in the heart but it is the brain that controls it. So if in your mind you refuse to see any good in someone then you will stop loving that person. Thats put you in control. If you want to continue loving someone then you have to constantly look at the goodness of that someone. And if you want to be loved you have to be loving yourself so as to remind that person.
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• Philippines
24 Mar 11
Yes, when things get complicated, let us say for example, love at first site. Then you accepted his wedding proposal, and in few times you guys got married. Time came, you discovered so many things about him that makes you confuse of your love, like things you cannot easily accept, I can say, if it will not be solved, your love will slowly fade.
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@DoctorDidi (7030)
• India
21 Mar 11
When emotions fade, love also fades because I think love is the expression of emotional feeling.
• Philippines
21 Mar 11
Love sometimes has it's own time.
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@jaiho2009 (39034)
• Philippines
21 Mar 11
Love will always stay,it's our feeling towards the person we love that fades. Given our feeling fades,so we feel it's love fading. It really fades (our feeling of love)to a particular person due to some reason. Whatever reason it is,it because the heart get's tired of loving and understanding that person. happy Monday
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• Philippines
21 Mar 11
I see. There are times when we are angry, we speak to our loved ones that may hurt them, cause we are hurt too.
• United States
21 Mar 11
I do not believe that love actually fades. I do believe that it is possible for one to THINK that they are in love, and then come to realize that it was never the real thing. This can be seen as "Fading". As for couples that do have real love, their love can "fade" if they do not maintain it. I believe these are the cases that can have a complete turnaround and continue to work.
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@jhaidro (879)
• Philippines
21 Mar 11
I think that attraction is the one that fades because the way I see it, when you love someone, even if she does not love you back, the feeling you have for her will always be there. I think that love is one of the things that lasts forever. You may not show it, but it will always be there.
• Philippines
21 Mar 11
How about those people who are going to divorce are you saying that love is still there?
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@jhaidro (879)
• Philippines
27 Mar 11
I think that this is a possibility. I think that the main reason why people go on their separate ways even after marriage is not entirely about falling out of love. Most cases are about not being able to take care of their responsibilities. On some cases, third party is the issue. I say that they may be with their new love but whenever they think of the past they had with the other, for sure they will remember how they loved one another once. I think that it will never go away.
@indahfth (11173)
• Indonesia
29 Mar 11
I believe in love. But love is not between the two couples. Love between the couple can fade away, as time passes. I found many things like this. So, I do not believe the love between two couples. But I much found the love of parents to children, that never fades, but are getting stronger.