is this right or wrong?if me is you,what would you to do?

United States
March 21, 2011 6:51pm CST
since the spring season start yesterday,i start digging and clean up my flower bed.put some horse crop and healthy soil on it..after the day ends im done with it and it looks nice,my flowers is ready to bloom i think.the bad news is,the next morning i get up and stand by the window i saw a 13 yr old girl dig my flower and transplant it to her new flower bed.i feel so bad,i open the window and ask her why she dig my flower and transfer to her flower bed.she answer me,"because i want different kind of flowers here in my flower bed..and i dont like this flower in your flower bed!"i told her dad about this and he just said "just pls dont complain i can get you a new one,its not a big deal." what do you think guys?
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3 responses
@peavey (16341)
• United States
21 Mar 11
Oh, my. That sends a wrong message to the girl. She apparently thinks she can take anything she wants wherever she finds it. Her father may be having trouble controlling her or something and that could be why he doesn't want you to complain. I'm not sure what I'd do in your situation other than be angry with her.
• United States
22 Mar 11
i feel angry with her but i dont know what more to do other than this.she get mad at me too,she said its not a big deal,its just a flower!!it's just a flower huh.. anyway,thank you for your response..
@peavey (16341)
• United States
22 Mar 11
I probably would have said, "Yeah, but it's MY flower, not yours." Don't know if that would have helped anything, though. :)
@xien2xien (1383)
• Philippines
22 Mar 11
its right to feel mad about this thing cause i understand you work hard for it, but the thought was she's just thirteen and a sweet girl don't get mad at her plus his dad promise to get back the damage and everything that his daughter caused you.. don't spoil your mood just because of this. enjoy the rest of the day
@GardenGerty (96817)
• Marion, Kansas
22 Mar 11
Her father should have made her bring it back to you. He could buy her one if she really needed it. It is sending her the wrong idea about taking things and being responsible and respecting others.