How should a man make a gal fall out of love?
By cowboyofhell
@cowboyofhell (3063)
Philippines
8 responses
@jamed28 (1903)
• Philippines
23 Mar 11
This can easily be done if you don't love or even care for that girl. If you are willing to end this love in exchange of anger then go ahead. The best way to do this is not to lie or pretend, just go face her and tell her what you are planning to do.
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@cowboyofhell (3063)
• Philippines
23 Mar 11
possible but you also have to keep in mind not to hurt her by abruptly telling her there's nothing that must go between the two of you. the advantage of the scammer method was that instead of feeling a loss for the man she liked, she'd be happy because the one she avoided had been a scammer. it does require pretension but it doesn't hurt the girl either.
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@frontvisions101 (16043)
• Philippines
23 Mar 11
I remember being so in-love with my ex she dumped me because of me always being there for her. It's kind of an irony but if you showed too much love it eventually gets boring and she'll eventually dump you. Why don't you try that.
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@cowboyofhell (3063)
• Philippines
23 Mar 11
now thats something. her patience would have run empty and if she decides not to see me again then that was it.
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@pergammano (7682)
• Canada
23 Mar 11
My goodness, do you really want her to have that kind of memory of you?
THE TRUTH..yes, can be very painful, and yes, she will be very hurt..BUT, her memory of you will be of honesty, uprighteounus..and more than likely, in the long run, a good person. Sometimes, during the pain, it is hard to look kindly on a situation, but when one looks back, it is nice to say; "gee, at least he was honest with me!"
Looking back, those that scammed me, I still think ILL of...those that were honest, I give respect.
DO YOU really feel..you have to live up to your avatar name?
ALL lives are special, consider not doing something deceitful!
@pergammano (7682)
• Canada
24 Mar 11
Dear soul! So be it...that is a speculative "bridge" that you MIGHT have to cross, but I truly believe, that if you tell her HONESTLY..." I Love you...BUT, I am NOT in love with you!" and would like to share your friendship...BUT NOT as a lover, saying all this in your best "down to earth" manner, she will have fair warning to curb her emotions, as the relationship, such as it is, will be terminating. Some people can be cruel, by terminating a relationship, and then continuing to communicate, thus giving the other one false hope!
Course, there are so many things that factor into this, and one, is age/maturity..and was the relationship one of "idolism?" She is totally infatuated and idolizes you...the length this relationship has gone on? I feel like I am talking to my son..LOL!
I am praying that you do NOT scam or use deceitfulness, but be genuine in your truth to her, "that there is NO future in this relationship." Also, do not leave the situation, with her thinking that she has terrible shortcomings, in other words do not demean her. Tell her, that she is wonderful, for some-one else, gently. Do not let any egoism get in the way here....most persons in life, experience unrequited love. A lesson of Life! Take care, move on, gently!
@cowboyofhell (3063)
• Philippines
24 Mar 11
I can feel you and you're correct in saying that honesty will always be a good thing to do. I only fear that when I do become honest, she'd further fall in love with me because she see that I am the only person that is honest to her! The next question then would be, how to be honest without making her fall in love further?
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@katie0 (5203)
• Japan
23 Mar 11
The most effective for me is being supporting me. In the past I took a long time to notice my friend (2 years and a half) but when I realize he was always there, even in the weekends, for me, like I could talk to him, he listened and understood me, out of nowhere I fall in love. Everyone said we had something but we really didn't, and out of nowhere I couldn't prove anybody wrong cause I fall in love to him.
I know many girls like the bad guys, but after just one, the first bad guy and the first boyfriend, I'm the opposite of most girls, I love when the guy knows my value, care, is my best friend, protects me, is a gentleman...
@haroonhyderabadi (99)
• India
23 Mar 11
even if you do it in that way, she might fall in love , not for ever , but for just some time...
so if you really love her fromth core of your heart, then dont pretend any think\g, just be what you are....
@donski (132)
• Philippines
23 Mar 11
the best way i think is to talk to the girl if you don't like her anymore. telling the truth really hurts but it is more painful if you just walked away and leave her just like that. tell her your reasons, that you are no longer happy with the relationship. just be yourself. no more pretensions. no more lies. soon she will accept it.
@frontvisions101 (16043)
• Philippines
23 Mar 11
I remember being so in-love with my ex she dumped me because of me always being there for her. It's kind of an irony but if you showed too much love it eventually gets boring and she'll eventually dump you. Why don't you try that.
@tessa9 (1085)
• Philippines
23 Mar 11
There is no magical spell or mathematical formula to get a person to fall in love with you. I don;t think that what you're saying is a good idea. In the beginning of the relationship or at the courting stage you should be yourself a hundred percent. Pretending to be someone your not is not in any way considered as romantic. Some just may take it the wrong way actually and think that you are creepy or something. All you have to is be yourself. If being yourself is not enough then maybe it's not meant to be.
