March 25, 2011 5:01am CST
All blame is a waste of time. No matter how much fault you find with another and regardless of how much you blame him, it will not change you. The only thing blame does is to keep the focus off you when you are looking for external reasons to explain your unhappiness. or frustration.
27 Mar 11
well dear we have to trust on our love and do not always give him blame we have to understand our partner because many time this blame can destroy the relation ship and then we know that. and realize then we are not really true. but at that time we cant do. so always think from cool mind never take decessions so fast.
25 Mar 11
I am in total agreement with your statement. Unfortunately, i have a habit of blaming things when i am unsuccessful at certain issues. My partner always tells me to stop blaming on the surroundings and focus on yourself. I am trying my best to remain focued and stop blaming my circumstances for my failure. Happy MyLotting!
25 Mar 11
welcome to the wonderful world of mylot. blaming is a waste of time true, but some people find someone to blame to cover their own fault. one of my brother does that. when something happend to him he finds some else to put a blame on. pointing fingers is what he does. he is just wasting his time. sometimes also blames makes you more angry or frustrated because the for the other person does not admit it even they know you are right.