Blame

Philippines
March 25, 2011 5:01am CST
All blame is a waste of time. No matter how much fault you find with another and regardless of how much you blame him, it will not change you. The only thing blame does is to keep the focus off you when you are looking for external reasons to explain your unhappiness. or frustration.
6 responses
@ckyera (17261)
• Philippines
25 Mar 11
I agree that blaming is just a waste of time and it will not do any good for anyone. Some people blame others to free themselves from guilt and to wash hands on what happens.
@shibham (17025)
• India
25 Mar 11
Me too agree here.
• Philippines
30 Mar 11
I agree to your idea....
• India
27 Mar 11
well dear we have to trust on our love and do not always give him blame we have to understand our partner because many time this blame can destroy the relation ship and then we know that. and realize then we are not really true. but at that time we cant do. so always think from cool mind never take decessions so fast.
• Philippines
31 Mar 11
Enjoy life when we can and whatever problem arises face your fear and find strength with it. It will help us overcome our difficulties. Throw away the word blame in your self... Set your self free from being too pessimistic about thing...
• Australia
25 Mar 11
I am in total agreement with your statement. Unfortunately, i have a habit of blaming things when i am unsuccessful at certain issues. My partner always tells me to stop blaming on the surroundings and focus on yourself. I am trying my best to remain focued and stop blaming my circumstances for my failure. Happy MyLotting!
• Philippines
30 Mar 11
Blaming will not help through cleaning up our conscience.
@shibham (17025)
• India
25 Mar 11
hi... People often blames other if he/she is suffering from inferior complexity. He/she wish to underestimate the rival by blaming but it never reacts a person who is highly determined. Have a nice day.
• Philippines
25 Mar 11
I agree...
@se7enthbird (8328)
• Philippines
25 Mar 11
welcome to the wonderful world of mylot. blaming is a waste of time true, but some people find someone to blame to cover their own fault. one of my brother does that. when something happend to him he finds some else to put a blame on. pointing fingers is what he does. he is just wasting his time. sometimes also blames makes you more angry or frustrated because the for the other person does not admit it even they know you are right.
• Philippines
25 Mar 11
Blaming is an immature behavior.. Why would we blame others? We may succeed in making other feel guilty about something by blaming, but it wont succeed in changing whatever it is about you as unhappy.
@picjim (3003)
• India
25 Mar 11
Yes, if we look inward we'll find the actual reason for our problems.Once we find them its best we correct the error of our ways.No point looking for an external source to shift blame for our difficulties.We should work hard and overcome our problems.