When the truth hurts, should it remain as secret?

Malaysia
March 25, 2011 12:37pm CST
Of course all of us need to know the truth so we know what we are dealing with and see what is ahead of us... But there are type of "truth" that just ripped our happiness and make us wish we never know about it and live a better life without knowing about it. What do u think? Or is it our obligation to handle every single "truth" we need to face?
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5 responses
• Philippines
25 Mar 11
there are some instances that we have to keep something from our loved ones to protect their feelings. if your in that position, its hard to do it but its like choosing the lesser evil with your decision making.
• Malaysia
25 Mar 11
Goshhh.. im in a position where i have to accept the truth and deal with it. although it is so much hurts.. and that is sucks! How nice if we have brain like cpu so we can just delete unwanted files somewhere it can never be recover..
• Argentina
25 Mar 11
Cairalyssa, I'm sorry to hear that you're going to a hard time and don't have much option than accepted whatever it is. But let me tell you, Time heals everything. It will still hurt, but not even as close as it hurts now. And at the end, it is the best. Everything Happens for a Reason. You'll see. T/K
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• Australia
25 Mar 11
I think some things are best kept to one self but I prefer not to deal with lies, which is what people do rather than keeping things to them-selves. Hurting people is something I prefer not to do.
• Philippines
25 Mar 11
If it's needed to be faced then it should be faced but if it's not then why bother if it's gonna hurt you, right? A lot of truths hurt than relieve us, based from experience at least but a lot of them really is nonsense. When I learned that my ex cheated on me, at first it felt like hell but sooner enough I realized if I didn't know that I could have been married to a girl who cheated on me. I wouldn't want it that way.
25 Mar 11
There are some "truths" that nobody wants to face but no matter if we want to or not if we know the truth we have to deal with it. In the end the truth always comes out and isn't it better to know then live a lie??
• Argentina
25 Mar 11
Well...it's a very tricky question! I would say first that is important (no matter what it is) to ALWAYS know the truth. But then "extreme" situations come to my imagination and that is when I doubt. lol Besides all that, I think that truth is important. The truth will set you free! I vote for knowing the truth..than living a life with lies around it. At the end, I am sure it will the best. Just my 2 cents!!