Can't live without you

@cmecu6 (420)
United States
March 28, 2011 9:16pm CST
"I can't live without you", "I'll love you forever", "You're the only one", "You're all I want" or "You're all I need". These are just a few of the saying when we want to be with someone right? But; Suddenly, nothing is in the way, it's yours for the taking. You notice how quickly the chemistry changed? Why is it that people tend to want what they can't have and once they have it, they no longer take care or cherish it? What happens to all those catchy phrases listed above?
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11 responses
• Philippines
29 Mar 11
You'll never know until the fat lady sings, will never know until we cross that bridge, all is definitive by human standard the cause is temporary but the effect is still to be unfolded. Most people are like that woe to them, but action speaks louder than words and its ours for the taking if we give in or not. No matter, human beings are there if it is ripe but tend to avoid it when it is not. Until you sleep, eat, cry, troubled and immersed with the person will never experience the negative of what's going to be like then.
@sid556 (30960)
• United States
29 Mar 11
I really don't know. I don't even listen to those things anymore. Now when I see someone, I just enjoy it for what it is right then and there and for as long as it lasts. People change and feelings change and there is no way to predict NOW how I will feel down the road nor how another person will feel. So we should just be grateful and enjoy every moment a person is in our lives and not take it for granted.
@Masihi (4413)
• Canada
29 Mar 11
You know, my husband never, ever said any of those phrases to me, He said "I love you" but that's just about it. He just took it for granted that he was going to marry me, right from the first day we started dating. LOL! He was always so sure of himself. Well, nearly 11 years later, we celebrated our 10th wedding anniversary and we have a strong, committed relationship. We might not have the "flame" in passionate desire, but we certainly work together as a team and do many things together as a family with our kids. I had an ex boyfriend who said a bunch of those phrases, even told me he was addicted to me. Hah! Turned out to be a smooth-talkin' womanisin' JERK! I'll chose my husband with his simple "I love you" and good actions/deeds/commitment over shallow expressions any day.
@jennyze (7029)
• Indonesia
29 Mar 11
Those sayings become: I'll love you forever but you know I love someone else. You're all I want and need but that's when I was immature. So beautiful words yet they are twisted somehow.
@whengcat (1457)
• Philippines
29 Mar 11
"There's nothing constant in this world but CHANGE"......this is the sad fact that we have to accept.
• United States
29 Mar 11
after a while you lose interest and find something or someone else tthey thin is better but we are humans that change and these things happen all of the time.
• United States
29 Mar 11
Sometimes couples loose interest, lack of communication and some grow apart. If only somehow we could remember those beautiful early words on a daily basis issues in a couple would not be so intense. But life is at times the way it is and sometimes it is easier to let go then to work out and fix relationships, is how I see it.
@tenrajj (911)
• Bhutan
29 Mar 11
Easy said that done. It is always easy for us to speak from our mouth than doing it by your body. In case of those words, no matter what, everything and every body will once depart. Even flesh and bone, soul and body. Nothing is everlasting. This is what we are born for. As long as we are alive and say it and we cherish it. When we die, we take none of them. We die alone and they follow till grave yard
@xien2xien (1382)
• Philippines
29 Mar 11
the world keeps on revolving as to things were changing minds are changing even feelings change and fade, so the best way is to enjoy the moment while its lay upon on your road. you can't forced someone to loved you back when they don't love you anymore, and theres nothing you can do about it, i felt this before one day i thought i really loved him then wake up one morning having no feelings for him anymore, one moment you like to eat chocolate the next moment you're craving for cakes, everything changes so don't live with the past
29 Mar 11
Simply because we are people. We are built and made this way.. We change.. and all of us have different understanding in things and in love.. My thought about this is that.. once you hear these words.. cherish the moment and always expect that its not forever.. whats important is the very moment you hear these words..
• United States
29 Mar 11
because no one is perfect in this world except GOD..thats why.some of us really tend to do such things,some of us truly loved someone they love and desired but feelings dont stay forever.sometimes feeling fade like fake jewelry..so there the words listed above are all gone with the wind...