Food for our souls

@Madmax73 (280)
Romania
March 30, 2011 4:32pm CST
I've seen this in movies, I've read books about it , but do you really get to a woman's heart or your partner, by cooking for her\he? well i saw this thing applied to men that were cooking for women. So this is a fact, men are the greatest cooks. I can say that i can cook for my age, i'm 20 and i can make a lot of food that tastes wow. And the thing is that my generation don't know how to make a sandwitch(donno how to write it), that means that i have a plus on winning a girls heart? But wait, isn't this the era where girls need to be slim and eat food with small amount of calories etc etc etc. Where do we go from here? To cook or not to cook? This is my question mylotters:D
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6 responses
31 Mar 11
hi, how are you? This afternoon i saw your discussion, this following message is my own view. frankly speaking, i don't think so. as a man, cooking is not important to get a woman's heart, by contrary, as a woman, maybe cooking is important to get a man's heart. For a woman i think that sense of security is the most important, who need your concern and protect, not cook. of course, if you can cook, that is better, please pay attention to more care and concern, because woman is more sentimetal.
@Madmax73 (280)
• Romania
31 Mar 11
Well in our days there aren't anymore woman that can cook... and i don't talk about cooking for them every day, come on, that's not cool, just for a special event, or as a surprise. And what as a woman if your man impressed you with his food that doesn't give you any more sense of security and protection?
1 Apr 11
in fact, now many women like that man who can cook, who can think that man can make a satisfaction at home.
@Neicy30 (56)
• United States
31 Mar 11
I think that a man who knows how to cook is very sexy. Unfortunately we are in an era where people don't know who to cook, especially females which is a damn shame but it's true. And yes there are many females who are slim but it doesn't mean that they starve themselves. i am very slim and i love me some food! But my family members are very slender, it's in our genes. Don't think cause a chick is skinny it's because she's starving herself or doesn't enjoy eating. Yes there are some out there like that but there are plenty of others that aren't. The fact that you can cook will melt any girls heart, at least a girl that is worth cooking for! Kuddos to you and your cooking skills!! ;0)
• United States
31 Mar 11
I forgot to say that my husband cooks and i have never had a man cook for me before and he cooks good. I thin that is one of the reasons why i fell in love with him!
@Madmax73 (280)
• Romania
31 Mar 11
aaaand we have another winner:) I know a lot of girls that are slim and love food, but when it comes to eating it, it's a problem:)) They eat, but they would eat more:D Good for you and for your husband that can cook:D
@kquiming (2999)
• Philippines
30 Mar 11
i think it worked for me..haha... he did get into my heart... and until now he still cooks for me. well i guess it really depends on what type of girl you are going after... i'm a food lover and so is my partner, so it's a good thing that we share this common passion for food... we not obese or anywhere close to becoming one, we eat in moderation - small frequent meals actually - a combination of healthy dishes and junk foods (yeah, when i say healthy i mean veggies and all that with little fats and salt)...well we're all about enjoying food, that's it. bottom line is, when it comes to food, it'd be really good to have someone compatible with your views and feelings on it.
@edsss17 (4398)
• Philippines
31 Mar 11
That's so sweet! I agree with your bottom line! I would prefer a guy who can cook for me.. That would be the sweetest thing! Its like what my father always do to my Mom!
@Madmax73 (280)
• Romania
31 Mar 11
:D yey so it is a way to get to a womans heart:D We have a winner! Thank you very much:D edsss you prefer a guy who can cook for you because you don't know how to cook? or it will be just sweet of him?:D Damn it, it sounds bad in english you can't cook, or don't know how to cook, it sounds like something bad.
@cream97 (29169)
• United States
6 Apr 11
Hi. Madmax73. This is an era where women are conscious about their weight. So it is best that you cook meals that are lower into calories and fat. Ask her what she likes best and then go from here. Make it special for her and as a surprise. Take care.
@Madmax73 (280)
• Romania
6 Apr 11
yep, thanks for the advice, although i have low fat and low calories food, has no taste...i'll make for me some grilled stake, and for the gal something fancy:)
@agrim94 (3811)
• India
3 Apr 11
Hi Madmax. Well it looks very nice gesture and since it is everywhere in romantic novels and movies and on tv shows , so it looks nice but if a guy doesnt know much cooking then i think woman is not going to be pleased. I remembered an uncle of mine tried to cook breakfast in bed for his wife on her birthday and when she had her break fast and went to kitchen she was horried how dirty the kitchen was. So instead of being happy she has to clean it for more than one hour and there were sparks between them. So it is better to have some other romantic ideas. This way you dont have to count calories too .
@Angelgirl16 (2177)
• United States
31 Mar 11
It is good to hear that you can cook, my husband is a great cook and I say Wow to any guy who is willing to cook for his lady. There are many foods that you can prepare that will not put the pounds on your girl's hips. I am not sure the cooking in the kitchen is what will win a girl's heartbut it surely can't hurt.