why is love so painful?

India
April 1, 2011 9:21am CST
Its the most painful attachment ever known,whether in good times or bad times.It is a pain all thoughout.
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7 responses
• Philippines
1 Apr 11
Hi pnkreal, Yes why love is so painful ?Sometimes i just wish i don't want to fall in love again because it is really hurt .But when the time or feeling is over for that someone then they have come along ,here i go again i fall in love again..Well.. love is everything even though it sometimes cause pain but we have to fight or to be strong with that..Just think at least we did not afraid to show for someone that we love.
• India
5 Apr 11
Now after going through the trauma and the pain the heart does not dare to incline itself towards anyone again,be it any body.It's either the previous love or the forthcoming pain that keeps you away from such advances to which one finds a lot of comfort.How many times does one go to hell?
• Philippines
8 Apr 11
I don't know how many times i hurt ..Actually as of now im brokenhearted but i really wish my feelings for him is gone already soon..How i wish in my next lovelife well be forever i really hope...
• India
8 Apr 11
You seem to be one tough cookie.Not everyone is as tough as you are.Pretending to be normal but not showing emotions is what my love encounters have taugtht me.I wish you luck that your next encounter if it happens would be evrlasting i would certainly hope and pray.Fore its curtains with anything new ,i wish to be with my reminescences happy and content,not really .Would always want her to be mine.
• Philippines
1 Apr 11
It makes you stronger and tougher,... that is why love is so important.. the more you feel pain the more you feel stronger... if you give up because of pain you will become weaker
• India
1 Apr 11
No giving up.You only venture into it so asto feel the pain and that eternal contentment.So lets keep trying to enjoy the pain .
• India
6 May 11
Hope for the best.If things out to happen beleive me it would be.
@LittleMel (14055)
• Canada
5 Apr 11
well life is a school. we all come here to learn by experiencing life or from others experiences. now you experience love is painful, later on or maybe you have in the past you will experience a wonderful one the person you are attached to right now may change or you will find someone else it's all your decision, you want to stay with the pain or you move on only you know how much you love her and how much she loves you
• India
6 Apr 11
Wish we had a measure for love.I would be amongst the first 3 I feel.I know there would be another billion contenders claiming the same.
@bird123 (10518)
• United States
2 Apr 11
Love is painful because you are trying to control it. Allow total freedom. Be yourself regardless then relax. Life carries a few growing pains. One day you will look back and see these were really the best of times. Love is never everything you want. It is everything you need.
• India
5 Apr 11
my need seems is what i always wanted.I cant differentiate between the two.Can you help on this?
@Metatronik (5911)
• Pasay, Philippines
1 Apr 11
It is painful because you will still encounter the differences between partners but then it will make you strong if you were able to cope up with it especially if the two of you have helped each other.
• India
5 Apr 11
Help and the care had always been there and that remains all life.Sometimes direct or indirect.But the interaction wont be the same,cos that small niggle or unseen negativity exists not 2 go.
@neenie (344)
• United States
1 Apr 11
I feel that love is so painful because you are allowing someone close enough to you to hurt you. If someone off the street did something bad to you or said something, it would bother you. But if someone you love did the same thing, it would hurt you.
• India
1 Apr 11
Obviously it would make a difference if ma close aide did dat.Hurt and pain go hand in hand.Reason being expectations increase with which fulfilling expectations becomes priority.At times expectations are not achieved that leads to a disgreement,which makes you hurt.
@natnickeep (2340)
• United States
1 Apr 11
Attachment to anything is pain because with having everything there comes loosing everything. Nothing lasts forever. We wouldn't know the good feelings without the bad. They wouldn't mean so much to us. I think love is more than just pain if you really do have love. You have to be able to find compromise and forgiveness in any love to make it work.
• India
1 Apr 11
When you cant be your actual self then why to get into something like this.If you ought to compromise it mean syou nt ready to take the pain.