love or infatuation?

@mj_aye (45)
Philippines
April 2, 2011 6:02am CST
i am a student in college and i still don't have any boyfriend ever since. i get to like guys. some last for a long time, some for a while. i also experienced getting hurt because of discovering that the person you like, like someone else. my friends ask me if i ever fall in love, i would tell them, i don't know, i think i still have not. and then they would continue what if i missed the person whom i am destined to be with because i do not entertain those love issues. i just want to know your views and experiences about love. when can you say that you have fallen in love with that person?
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@jaiho2009 (39019)
• Philippines
2 Apr 11
Maybe you haven't found the man that will make your night sleepless,and will make your knees shake. You haven't fall in love i think. You will know the feeling once you are there. You might have crushes,but true love is not same with crushes or liking. Just wait till you met the man that will really rock your world. Happy weekend
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@mj_aye (45)
• Philippines
3 Apr 11
you're right.. i haven't fall inlove yet. i am looking forward to meeting that man that will rock my world. i hope happiness are more than sadness in a relationship..
@r0ck_r0ck (1953)
• India
2 Apr 11
Im in collage too, i have a girlfriend and we are doing well in studies too, i find it funny how some peoples think that you should only focus on studies, Collage life is so much more than just studying like a nerd lol, i agree love might hurt at times but if you dont take your chances you will never experience the beautiful thing. Try working it out before its too late. Good luck.
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@mj_aye (45)
• Philippines
3 Apr 11
thanks wishing me luck! i think i am also afraid to entertain love issues or eventake chances because i am afraid of getting hurt in the end..
@hemsagar (286)
• India
3 Apr 11
Girl, you are so right, I am in a condition which is 99% similar to you. The only difference is you are a girl and I am a boy, and eventually, I am given more of those lectures from my friends, than you can ever imagine. But I tell you, you aren't missing anything in life by being like this, you are developing and withholding all your feelings for that one person who is going to be with you throughout your life. You don't need to worry that you will miss your destined one, because if you ever miss somebody, you missed him because he was not destined for you. Don't you ever worry on these issues and have a wonderful future.
@mj_aye (45)
• Philippines
3 Apr 11
c: yeah.. you're right.. thanks for telling me i'm not missing anything in life because of this, c:.. it made me more exciting in looking forward for the best time meeting the person in my life... c:
@hemsagar (286)
• India
4 Apr 11
You took a right decision. That's good for you. The one you meet will be better than the ones you liked, and the one you meet will love you more than you loving them, that's the best part of it.
@mj_aye (45)
• Philippines
7 Apr 11
c: really the best!
@katrinapaz (2438)
• Philippines
3 Apr 11
i did not have a boyfriend when i was in college. This allowed me to focus on my studies and friends. just focus on your studies and i'm sure your love life will bloom when you least expect it. :)
@mj_aye (45)
• Philippines
3 Apr 11
c: thanks!! maybe you are right.. i'm a student.. i should act how a student acts.. and that is, study.. c:
@axlrate7 (1366)
• Philippines
3 Apr 11
Being in love is something that you can't imagine that you can do. =D
@mj_aye (45)
• Philippines
3 Apr 11
have you ever been in love??
• Philippines
3 Apr 11
You must say that you've already fall in love when you get hurt and jealous to another girl that he always with... Even it's his friend. Another is when you always want him to see and your day doesn't complete when you didn't see him... And you will do everything for him even you can disobey your parents. Love is CRAZY. Anyway, I wanna say that don't close your heart if you've already experienced the hurt because of love... You must always open your heart to others because the others are true on what they said, there's a possibility that you will missed your true love... Maybe, the love that you felt on your past was only an infatuation and not love.
@mj_aye (45)
• Philippines
3 Apr 11
haha.. i like it.. "love is CRAZY".. c:
@tlb0822 (1412)
• United States
3 Apr 11
I think that love is just something that is meant to be between to people. My husband was actually a friend of my older sister. One night out of the blue he text me and told me this really lame joke, that I found completely hilarious. Then after texting back in forth for a day or so he asked me to meet him at our local dance club on st. patricks day to hangout. We hung out and had a great time. The next day he came to my sisters and we were hanging out and I simply was like, You're my boyfriend now. And he was like, OK. Low and behold we have been together ever since. We bought a house, got married, and have two daughters. It is funny how love works. It isn't going to slap you in the face where you fall head over heels on that first meeting, you have to get to know each other, and when you have that overwhelming feeling that you just couldn't see spending a sinlge day without that person then you know that, that is the person you are suppose to be with. I wish you the best of luck in finding a love all of your own. Best wishes. :)
@mj_aye (45)
• Philippines
3 Apr 11
thanks for sharing your experience! and thanks for wishing me luck! c: it was a unique love story you had. what i really enjoyed was the simple yet unique way of him being your boyfriend and now, he is your husband!... c: and yes.. i should know the man first and he should get to know me too. i hope that stage would be fun. c:
@xannex (254)
• Philippines
2 Apr 11
I would say I have fallen in love when I can't go on with my life anymore without him or her. When all your plans in the future includes him or her.
@mj_aye (45)
• Philippines
3 Apr 11
that sounds so exciting.! i mean i want to get to that point in my life when i would have this one person included in my plans in the future...C: