Irritable and annoying
By nnahs_marie
@martinnshann (340)
Bahrain
April 11, 2011 12:19pm CST
Why is it that there are some friends who are annoying and irritable to you even they've done nothing wrong or even they're just sitting and doing nothing? Do you ever feel this too?
8 responses
@CaptAlbertWhisker (32507)
• Calgary, Alberta
11 Apr 11
Its what you call chemitry, your personalities just dont jive, I know a person who is super nice but nobody likes her, I get a long with her though. I know a person who is someone you can call evil but he is a great friend. I knew two people who ere both nice but they were enemies. People have different personalities and it always clash.
@martinnshann (340)
• Bahrain
12 Apr 11
You're rigth, we were born to be unique and different. Maybe it's just the essence of friendship. Friends do always clash but still it ends up FRIENDS if you would wish to. Thanks.
@polaris77 (2040)
• Bacau, Romania
11 Apr 11
If some people are annoying and irritable to me even without doing anything,which is hardly the case forme,but theoretically it is possible,they are certainly not my friends.I will never consider a person whose simple presence irritates me 'a friend'.
@martinnshann (340)
• Bahrain
12 Apr 11
Well in my case, it is my friend. But it don't happens all the time. thank you.
@Rapuncille (597)
• Philippines
11 Apr 11
It happens to me sometimes but normally it's with other people. I normally do not become irritable and annoyed with friends unless they did something to me which I perceive as annoying. There are really days when your hormones makes you extra sensitive or extra grumpy that even the slightest thing done to you can be the start of annoyance. The point is, to me, there has to be something that should jumpstart my being irritable to friends. I'm quite selective and bias even during my bad days. 
. I have to admit though that there are people who for certain reasons annoy me instantaneously. So, if there's no effort on their part, we rarely reach the part of becoming friends. 
. I have to admit though that there are people who for certain reasons annoy me instantaneously. So, if there's no effort on their part, we rarely reach the part of becoming friends. 
@FX777222999 (437)
• Philippines
11 Apr 11
Yes that's normal for every person and everybody felt that too. I observed that if that's the case, approach the concerned person and talk it over to him/her, and observe the results. But, be very careful not offend, just get your curiosity resolve itself by doing this way. Never judge him/her, try your best to win his/her heart to coincide with yours. Take the first move and who knows he's/she's the friend that you're looking for.
@blackscrumpy (152)
• Philippines
11 Apr 11
I know how you feel. I am a loner type guy, and personally, I prefer anyone not minding me at all. Most especially if I'm doing some serious work. There are times that I just want to sit down doing nothing, staring nothing, but I still get quite annoyed by people .
To me, I think those friends who are annoying or irritable are just people wanting attention. Sometimes I like having friends like that, just so that everything is not quiet and boring. But sometimes if it gets way too overboard, then that's where problems start and I tell him to quit it or shut up.
And again, there are the really REALLY annoying once that really don't care who gets pissed or not. Those guys don't deserve respect and not really worth your time.
