how do you feel when you get dumped

Romania
April 11, 2011 4:24pm CST
being dumped by a person you like could really cause you some negative emotions. what do you do in this situation? how do you manage to work things out?
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7 responses
@coffeeshot (3783)
• Australia
16 Apr 11
Fortunately, I have only had to endure two broken hearts in my lifetime. They were both extremely difficult to deal with, especially the first time. You feel useless, ugly, like there's something wrong with you and you can be extremely self critical. From what I can tell, there is no cure for a broken heart. It is important that you clearly face the situation and realise that just because that one particular person does not want to continue the relationship it doesn't mean others wouldn't want to have you as their one and only. Time heals the wounds and you must keep remembering that there IS that special someone out there and there are plenty of others who would love to get to know you better.
@ritzz07 (788)
• India
12 Apr 11
hi swissheart if someone is doing like this with you means you have to understand that the person dont love you.he/she was with perposely,may be infactuation.if there is a real love,one should bear ur tanterms and tempors,he/she will like each and every thing which is related to you,it may be any relation. in real love there is no way to dump.........
@Gothicana (458)
• United States
11 Apr 11
its been a long time since I was dumped,and of course I didnt felt that good.but I got very good friends and the time heald the wounds
@aerous (13434)
• Philippines
12 Apr 11
It's really hard to accept when the person you loved dumped you.I feel like to end my life.... But because of my faith in God i cant do such thing...So all i do to forget and release my frustration i spent my time for a stroll or play with my computer.
@mdaazam (826)
• Indore, India
11 Apr 11
Hi there swissheart Being dumped by the one you are intensly in love with breaks your heart into tiny pieces and the deeper was your love, the tinier the pieces. When i was dumped by my first girlfriend i was pushed into ugly phase of depression and by very hardwork did i get my life back slowly but still i like her somehow for the reason she dumped me instead of betrayong me without telling me. Yeah the pain was gruesome but hey as the saying goes What does not kills you, makes you stronger. Have a good day.
• Philippines
11 Apr 11
I call out my friends and we go out. I vent out my emotions to them. It's more of having someone to talk to. You share with them the pain and all of a sudden, you realize that you've already moved on.
@sender621 (14894)
• United States
11 Apr 11
In all hionesty i dont think that anybody enjoys being dumped. who can stand the rejection? It is a time of sadness and despair and questioning. the best thing to do is to move on with life in a postive way looking for new fulfillment.