Have your spouse been to online community party?
By Oldsix691418
@Oldsix691418 (3872)
China
April 16, 2011 8:18pm CST
The third time my wife is about to go to her online community party,she's waiting for the coming bus to go to the gathering spot!
She always grab the mouse from me to communicate with her online friends in the same community.She says that most of them are women at the age of 40 to 55,and few are men.She said that the leader of the community was very good-tempered,thrifty and very good at budgeting,well in advance she made some nice food for them so that they could spend less fees.
Last time she had many photos taken,and it seemed that she had a wonderful time.
Have you ever allowed your spouse go to the party of that kind?
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8 responses
@Oldsix691418 (3872)
• China
18 Apr 11
Oh,she said that there was ever a husband there with his wife,but the other women usually made fun of him,so he didn't dare to come together the next time!In fact she likes me accompanying her.@kheydia (882)
• Philippines
19 Apr 11
Well, i don't want my husband to be made fun of by my friends, if i will know that he will be made fun and be uncomfortable, then i would let him go with me, or better yet why we have to go to that party with that kind of people. Better stay home and relax and have a quality time together with family.
@gelayagui98 (1336)
• Australia
2 May 11
It is good that you let your wife attending such activities in order for her to enjoy life once in a while to unload her from day to day stress at home. Socialization is good for her to boosts her self-esteem. As you can see photos, she belongs to a good group. Aside from it is just within your community And, you can join her anytime.
@Oldsix691418 (3872)
• China
2 May 11
As what she told me,most of them are women my age or older,and they refuse to accept the younger into their community.If I came with her to meet her fiends,I would feel boring.
@Oldsix691418 (3872)
• China
17 Apr 11
Hehe,she got off the bus just a moment ago,it's raining hard and she has to return.
Usually the leader of the online community give a notification online to tell the members when and where to go,and then they get together to talk,take pictures,eat and sing songs etc.
They are not young,I don't have to worry too much.Have fun!
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
17 Apr 11
I live with my boyfriend now for almost six years and we go to parties and events together most times. Neither one of us have ever attended an online gathering to date. I suppose it is all in the trust one has for each other. It does not sound like this is a secret of any kind, so I personally do not see a problem with it.
@Sanitary (3968)
• Singapore
18 Apr 11
NOt for me and my bf because we are not involved in that. We do make friends online, but never attending such parties. We prefer to make real friends, interact in the real world, whereby we can feel sincerity. Such online community party are not uncommon due to the age of technology now. Everything can be arranged online, and it's hassle free.
@Oldsix691418 (3872)
• China
18 Apr 11
Yes,it's better not to attend such a party.
Hehe,the internet technology helps us a lot.Have a nice day!
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@macayadann (1235)
• Philippines
1 May 11
If all her responsibilities inside the house except when there is sick that needs much of her attention are all well taken cared of then let her go so that she will not be bored with the routine of her day to day activities inside the house. You should also join them to see the involvement of your wife and to see what excites her in joining the socializing events and who knows you will also actively participate on that.
@Oldsix691418 (3872)
• China
2 May 11
Yes,I'd better go with her to join them some day to see how exciting it is to attend such a party.
@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
17 Apr 11
No problem with me to let my spouse attend any online community party should there be one as it is good to have many friends and meeting virtual friends is establishing goodwill with people we meet online.
@Oldsix691418 (3872)
• China
17 Apr 11
Yes,my lover never walks close to those hanging around persons,but she wants joy of life,and I have to give her proper freedom.Have a nice day!
@wongchoiyee (7413)
• Malaysia
17 Apr 11
No even I myself do not go to these parties. Maybe because I had not been invited yet.
You can have your choice.