Is just LOVE enough?

Bahrain
April 18, 2011 7:28pm CST
My friend always told me, esp the girls..that love is the reason why a realtionship stands for years till forever. That love holds the relationshi. But what if you love too much and forget that love can weaken or worst, destroy a strong relationship? I just realized that love is not enough. That the secret of having a strong, lasting relationship is to TRUST the one you love and to accept his/her weakness or mistakes. it's not how many times you have given, but how you have shown understanding. Do you agree my lotters?
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16 responses
@zhouxi (1756)
• China
19 Apr 11
I'm agreed with you.Trust the one you love and to accept his/her weakness or mistakes also important.another thing is you have enough ability to support your life.it's essential.you would n't quarrel about money.
• Bahrain
20 Apr 11
Yes, now a days money is important. Money can ruin love, do you agree? Money can lead to misunderstading, fight of couples for this and that, and esp money can cause break ups. But it depends on how the couples handle their problems. =) Thank you.
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@zhouxi (1756)
• China
20 Apr 11
If we don't have too much desire,we would live easy and happy life!
• United States
19 Apr 11
Well, i think in order to trust one another we must love one another. Without love there isn't a strong connection between two people. I think love is enough for a relationship to survive because when you love someone there's acceptance of one another. Love is what makes two people who disagree on something stay together.
• Bahrain
22 Apr 11
You're right. When loving someon you should give your full trust to him/her in order for both of you to survive. Thanks for the response.
@thatgirl13 (7307)
• South Korea
19 Apr 11
I don't agree that love can weaken or destroy a strong relationship. I agree that love alone cannot make it worth but I don't think it destroys the relationship. And I agree Trust is important too. Love and trust are like two sides of a same coin. They make the relationship strong and move. My point of view.
• Bahrain
22 Apr 11
Good point of view. =) Thanks for the response.
19 Apr 11
love is not a business... both minds are happiness in the world..then we will clarified to her/his. whenever say to someone special to our honey person.. so keep happing in our smaller life.. love is beautifully in the human world..
• Bahrain
22 Apr 11
Thanks for the response.
@aksehc (18)
19 Apr 11
I really agree with you. And being honest with each other.:)
• Bahrain
20 Apr 11
Thank you for the response. =)
@SimpleBB (1332)
• Philippines
19 Apr 11
That still LOVE. It is true that trust and acceptance are vital or let say the key factors in a relationship to last. But for me, it's still love. How can you trust someone if you don't have emotional investment for that trust? How can you accept the weakness of a person if you don't have the feeling that you want to understand him? Come to think of it...We usually say, I won't get fall into someone which is difficult to get along with...I would not fall for someone which is not compatible with my standard, but for sure we would say that we don't set for any standard, but in the back of our minds, we did not want to commit mistake in choosing the better half of our lives. But why we could accept our better-haves with thier flaws which is sometimes really not acceptable for us? The word trust only arises when we're in doubt of something, but why we used to say I trust him/her? because, we don't want to have our relationship to have a problem, thus we accept everything be it in advantage or disadvantage in our relationship.For me, I usually say.. I just need someone who loves me, bcause if someone loves you, she can be loyal to you, can be responsible for your sake, can be understanding for he loves you, and can accept your weakness and most admire your strength for he really loves you. All that falls for the sake of LOVE. I'm just giving my opinion...Happy mylotting.
• Bahrain
22 Apr 11
Thanks for the response! =)
@jpso138 (7844)
• Philippines
19 Apr 11
Well, I do agree. Love is just one reason for a successful relationship. But you have to consider that love is not everything. There must be respect, understanding and trust with each other. People fall in love and sometimes they fall out of love for feelings change. But for as long as it is accompanied by respect, trust and understanding, there is always the chance for a successful relationship that will last a lifetime...
• Bahrain
22 Apr 11
Thanks for the response. =)
@sender621 (14956)
• United States
19 Apr 11
Love is the core and founation that so many relationships in life are based on. without this emotion the world could be a lot lonlier and emptier. i do believe we need more than just love t sustain us, but love gets us started in the right direction.
• Bahrain
22 Apr 11
Thank you for the response.
@lyamsitiy (104)
• Philippines
19 Apr 11
yes, i definitely agree with you. Trust has a very important role in making relationships lasts long. If you love someone very much but don't trust him/her it would result to arguing all the time or you tend to be possessive which as observed not a very good way to build a lasting relationship. I have read a quote that says love is not a guarantee of a happy ending because a relationship does not stop after loving someone, it requires trust, understanding, patience and acceptance.
• Bahrain
22 Apr 11
Thanks for the response! =)
• Philippines
19 Apr 11
I think that Love is enough, Real Love, not infatuation or obsession, for when you really love someone you trust them and you do what you think would make them happy...for men, being faithful and striving to give the women they love a secure and comfortable lifestyle...and for women, again being faithful and supporting the man they love with unwavering faith(also trying to always look good and stay fit)...
• Bahrain
22 Apr 11
Thanks for the response. Does physical appearance really affects relationship? because there are times that you can't afford to comb your hair because of a very busy thing.
@tiina05 (2319)
• Philippines
19 Apr 11
hello, Yes, I am agree because in every relationship you must accept his good/bad things about him. You will never ask in any return, I mean all that you given him is a treasure to him. You never count how many things you given and how many times he hurt you but instead understand him.
• Bahrain
20 Apr 11
Hi there! You're right, asking love in return would really not help. You should give your love heartily and no limit to your loved one. Thank you for the response. =)
19 Apr 11
Love is a very important part in a relationship. But a relationship cannot thrive just with love, as you said there should be trust, understanding and commitment. All these things you can give in your relationship if you love the person, because with love you can do anything for the one you love.
• Bahrain
20 Apr 11
You're right, LOVE really plays a big role in a relationship. It is the key to have a happy and long lasting realtionship. Thank you for the response. =)
• Malaysia
19 Apr 11
love is not enough martin,you need money,house,car and much more for your love to success other then trust.u cant talk about love if you have nothing,did you want a relation to long lasting with gf n bf thing,u absolutely consider to get married and having child and other things.
• Bahrain
20 Apr 11
Money is really a big factor also in every relationship. Yes, you're right, thinking of marriage and having a family money should be considered. Thank you!
@dimzok (127)
• Indonesia
19 Apr 11
i agree with you,but i want to add,its always to be honest to our partner and shared all the problem and happiness without lying.
• Bahrain
20 Apr 11
You're right,Thank you. I'll keep that in mind. =) Have a great day.
@Dominique25 (9476)
• United States
20 Apr 11
Yes, I agree with you. It takes a lot to have and keep a strong relationship. love for one another is important but after all the butterflies in your stomach it takes work and effort. It's important for both partners to work hard at the relationship and show also respect for one another. When we are first in a relationship we don't really care to much about the other person's weaknesses or mistakes but when we are with them all the time it can bother us. We have to be forgiving and always work on the relationship. In order for it to go well we have to maintain it.
• Philippines
19 Apr 11
Trust and love comes together, you trust him/her because you love him/her, you love him/her that's why you trust him/her. Building one relationship is not just only about trust and love. First you have to appreciate or admire your partner. This will develop love, when you appreciate the person you love in good ways the more he/she will strive harder and he/she will feel feel your gentleness and he/she will love your back