Don't deserve to be friend!
By Polang
@tkonlinevn (6345)
Vietnam
April 19, 2011 4:27am CST
My friend lives in a room with two girls. They work together at company. My friend was introduced with a man. So, he often visit her at the room. He said that he liked my friend. She was, too.
After a time, the man said that he couldn't have a relationship with my friend. They stopped before their relationship reached to love.
However, my friend found out that one of two roommate girl and the man love each other! That girl even has had boyfriend! My friend don't believe in the truth.
She says that both the man and girl don't deserve to be friend with her!
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7 responses
@Jlyn10 (11966)
• Malaysia
19 Apr 11
Well, at least your friend found out about it before she went deeper into the relationship, which means that the hurt won't be so deep.
That guy and your friend's roommate are probably asking for trouble since that girl already has a boyfriend.
If I was your friend, I would be advising the girl and reminding her that she already has a boyfriend. After all, it is very difficult not to befriend someone when you are sharing the same room together. Acting this way would not lead to a healthy lifestyle since you will be putting pressure on yourself as well.
@tkonlinevn (6345)
• Vietnam
20 Apr 11
It's no problem with my friend after this thing. Because she has not just stuck in love with the man. But her roommate friend feel uncomfortable. She seems avoid my friend. But it's difficult for them because they live in same room and working in a company.
@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
20 Apr 11
Sometimes people just like to be blind to the situation that is so obvious to them. They have to see things for themselves before they will actually believe it. Those kinds of relationships are a mess.
@tkonlinevn (6345)
• Vietnam
20 Apr 11
That's right. She said me the same you. She was blind! I hope that I have never been in this situation.
@tkonlinevn (6345)
• Vietnam
20 Apr 11
I don't know. But I know that that girl has a boyfriend, and now, she is making a close relationship with this man.
@cerebellum (3863)
• United States
19 Apr 11
I am sure your friend feels betrayed by both. At least the man didn't let the relationship develop any further. It will hurt for awhile but in time your friend will get over it and maybe she can be friends again.
@tkonlinevn (6345)
• Vietnam
20 Apr 11
You're right. My friend feels very sad about them. But she still keep a normal attitude with them. However, she never have a private appointment with the man and she don't talk much with her roommate, too.
@xien2xien (1382)
• Philippines
19 Apr 11
atleast this man, has the guts to tell your friend that they should stop before things get complicated, maybe he doesn't love your friend, and it will hurt her so much if she finds out that they where both girlfriends of this man to the point that they were always together since they are roommates, tell your friend to move on and never mind this guy anymore
@tkonlinevn (6345)
• Vietnam
20 Apr 11
She's very disappointed about them. Special about her roommate.
@aeiou78 (3445)
• Malaysia
20 Apr 11
It is too complicated and confusing.
Starting from now, I realize that some people prefer to be a monk so that he or she can get away from all of the trouble of love.
In this situation, we should remind ourselves about honest, faithful or loyalty.
Never trap yourself in this circle of love.
just be conscious and go far away from them.
