I starting to feel different towards a coworker

Philippines
April 19, 2011 6:41am CST
I currently have a coworker, we became really good friends and all. He introduced me to christianity and I attended their meetings sometimes during weekends. I kinda like it. But what turns me off is his attitude towards people. He did me wrong once and I forgive him. And we're okay. And then today, me and some of our officemates shares thie experience from him. And we all agreed that he has this attitude that we all don't like. He's a very self righteous person, and he always criticizes us about our clothes our personal appearance and say it in front of our people that left me or my other coworker embarassed. Whenever we say opinion about something and I don't agree, he'll tell me thatI am wrong and this should be that and this should be this. But it was just an opinion. Mostly, he raises his voice, like when he asked me to help him about something and he did not agree about resolution I recommended, he kinda insisted his thing, I mean why ask if you don't like to listen. And whenever I said a wrong thing, he'll tell me I'm stupid. And yesterday, we talked about a celebrity who died and a celebrity who is almost murdered butt survived. He said the celebrity survived because she is a christian. I mean what about the other, did he deserve to die because he is not a christian. I feel guilty because he doesnt know that we are talking behind his back.
1 response
@mlhuff12 (797)
• United States
5 May 11
Christian or not, you don't want people like that in your life. It would probably benefit you greatly to end a friendship with him. If anything it is bringing you and others down to his level. Also if you realize the attitudes of this person, you should take whatever he says as a grain of salt. Meaning what he says doesn't really matter and has of no value to you.
• Philippines
8 May 11
The only way to end it is to quit my job lol. You know, I tried to just get used to his attitude and the way he speak to people., he seems ignorant of the effect (of what he says) brings to us.
@mlhuff12 (797)
• United States
9 May 11
Perhaps he doesn't realize how he comes off to other people. Maybe if you'd shed some light on that, maybe he'd try to act better.