A simple answer to a simple question..

If the person to respond is my wife... And the question was - "Do you love me" I think I can wait all my life... For others(maybe questions or even responders), I am quite impatient

Saphy, I cannot answer and I don't know what is your question? I would expect an answer straight away.

Hello my saphrina I have waited for answers too. I wanted the truth too, but i never got it from her. Sometimes the silence speaks, you know. I got the answer. Either she didn't want to answer because she felt the guilt somewhere or she didn't care anymore. Other than this i don't have much to say Saphy. I am sorry. I've just stopped asking questions. I have lowered my expectations, I just want to be happy. I know one day everything is going to change, but i guess there is some time for that day to come.

Some answers can be truly hard. I mean everything might be a yes, but something that cannot be disclosed, and might lead to a rift could hold people back ..Blondie, whatever it is, I wish you well..hope you will be happy and get the answer you want to hear eventually.

Not all questions are easy to answer specially when the answer could open up a pandora's box. Truth hurts too. If you are talking about responses to your topic here there should be no reason for delay as one is safe here. It ofcourse depends on one's interest.

It depends on the question being asked. Sometimes, we have to think before answering a question so that the idea that we want to convey is delivered properly and misunderstandings can be avoided. Likewise, I also hate being lied to because I'd rather hear the bitter truth that hearing the sweetest lie.

It all depend on who the enquirer is and the nature of the question. For example, I may not be willing to share simple information such as my date of birth or details about my family with someone I don't know or don't trust - personal information is generally used for verification of identity in the case of phone banking transactions. I would make the asker wait indefinitely in case I don't trust her/him or it. If it's the question of love, since there is only one person in my life and I am absolutely confident that I am the only one in hers, many answers are understood and the questions needn't be asked at all. Often the answer comes in without the question having to be asked-the answer can be verbal, sometimes the eyes say it, often the body and behavior does.

I sometimes have to think about a question, even a simple one, because it causes me to consider more than one side of the question and so I need to think about an answer. Maggiepie is the worst about asking me one of these questions and then wanting a response faster than I'm ready to give it. But she isn't the only one, and the only time I give fast responses is at doctors where they want your first response, no matter how crazy/bad it is.

You can trust me.

saphy dear Asks me and i will answer immediately...not unless i am sleeping Seriously,i've learned from my work to answer questions directly... to simply reply with precise and short answer... but here in mylot...the longest response the better?...i wonder (thinking)

How can we say that "is it a simple question or not?". Once i asked a man that "who are you?", He sad "i am john", then i again and asked him the same question, Finally i cried....

Hi Saphy - Blondie here. I don't normally hesitate to respond when asked a question. Usually I am sincere in my responses with just about anyone really. My response at times may not be appreciated but I am sincere enough to at least give the courtesy of responding. I am not have the privilege of breathing tomorrow so I do tend to answer right away and this way there are no unanswered questions. If I have not answered someone perhaps I was not aware there was a question.

Few people like thinking for a while before they answer to some questions, and few are just prompt in reply. There are also few who don't like answering questions and some people lie like you said in your discussion. We have different kind of people with different mindsets, so you just cant help but accept the way they are. If all were honest and to the point, there would not be any kind of differences between people.

Simple questions require simple response. Furthermore, the secret here is merely no to beat around the bush...=)

Hmmm...I'm trying to figure out the situation you're talking about. Of course it is really late here right now, and I'm a bit slow myself.

It depend on what the question is.may be several letters,one word,several words.or you cann't get an answer because they could n't respond it with words.

It may be due to the differences of people engage in the conversation. Maybe one of you knows that you will surely not agree with the person you start keeping your thoughts and thinking how to make your answer safe. Just not to hurt the person's feelings or ego.

When I ask a question,I want an answer then.It should be pretty simple.And I want the truth and not a lie.

giving a simple answer to a simple question is simple maybe ur question is not simple

I know exactly what you mean. I dont get why people drag things or or lie about simple things. or at all. I hate lying and people that lie in general. theres no point. be truthfull and their no problems. if someone doent like an answer to a question whatever. at least the truth was told. wach lie digs you into a hole where you have to bring up or make up another lie the more you like the more you have to lie afterwards. those people usually dont realize that they will either get caught or end up ebeing miserable trying to keep up with aall their lies. My fiance has a things with not answering my questions. I dont hink its intentional I just think hes lazy and doesnt wanna put effort into thinking about what to say lol. his answer are usually like.... what are you up to? nothing. what did you do today? not much. or he aswers alot with I dont know. but hes getting better cuz hes been getting annoyed with me asking him the same questions over and over till i get my answer lol. he knows if he answer with the simple shortest answer posible hel just get annoying with me in the end and finnally fthink about the question full and give a real answer so he saves the time and accually puts the effort in now lol. most of the time with people I dont absolutely need an answer from like the things that arent that important I dont really bother asking more then once for something if i dont think il get my answer right away. I wont waste my time. but other people like my family and friends and my fiance Il never quit till i get my answer even if it does make me seem annoying cuz they should know im asking them cuz I want an answer not the simplest easiest posible answer out there I really want their opinion and the trushy. great topic. not that many poeple think to ask about hings like this they usually just bicker to themselves about it and dont put to much thought into it other then the moment that it bothers them.