How do you talk to innocent minded people about your love life?
April 19, 2011 10:07pm CST
I am active in bed, but I have friends who aren't. They are almost afraid to talk about it because that is how they were raised. They don't go out on dates either, so I find it hard to talk to them about my life when it comes to my boyfriend. It's also annoying when they ask questions that sort of beat around the bush (like "do you two sleep in the same bed?", and they giggle like children when anyone refers to physical love. Have you ever had to put up with this kind of conversation?
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20 Apr 11
They are in their early 20s.. we are living in America but some of them are Japanese and others are Japanese Americans. They are culturally very Japanese, but I know there are Japanese people who are physically active in bed so I think it's just the way they were raised.. really religious.
21 Apr 11
The birds and the bees in the sycamore trees don't talk about it either, they just do it and seem to get very good results! Too much idle talk, might inhibit the end result, so why bother? Perhaps a demonstration would be better, and could save a whole bunch of conversation!
20 Apr 11
yea, you can be in a embarrassing situations at times when you have friends who are shy. But now that i am married, i don't hesitate to answer if people ask me such questions. I am usually very frank with people to share my experiences.
20 Apr 11
hi! If someone else ask me that question, I don't konw how to answer. But I never met it. All the friend around all know that I always go to my bf's house and stay there all the night. They maybe guess us whether sleep together or not, but never mention it. In other side, to my friends , I never and forever ask them about that question. Maybe we still not open enough.