never touch a woman you do not love

@lady1993 (16800)
Philippines
April 19, 2011 10:33pm CST
...or you'll be forced to marry her. I have seen some situations like that here in our country. Men that are forced to marry someone because she's pregnant. And some even impregnates 2 women. so he can't really marry anyone, and the women are really pitiful. men should learn to control their desires.
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@cream97 (29169)
• United States
21 Apr 11
Hi. lady1993. I agree that men should learn to control their desires. I also truly believe that a woman should also control each and every man that she sleeps with too. A woman should be much smarter than a male is so that she can show him that she knows that he is up to no good. When a woman stands tall, she will be able to turn away from a man that is just all about getting some when he wants it.
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@lady1993 (16800)
• Philippines
21 Apr 11
Yes, since women are more sensible and can control their desires.. they should be smarter and learn to say "no". But both should be equally responsible. Thank you for your response.
@jaiho2009 (39021)
• Philippines
20 Apr 11
We can not put the blame totally in a guy's fault. Not unless he rapes the woman. Let's look at the other side of the scene. I am a woman here,if i am in a relationship,and the guy would asks me to sleep and have s*x with him..it's because we both agreed. Now,if i get's pregnant...do i have to blame the guy of forced him to marry me all because i am pregnant...? In this scenario,we can not totally blame the guy right? Now,if the scene is like this... the woman/girl is underage and get's impregnated by an older guy maybe 10 years older than her,then we can sue the guy for having s*x with an underage. Generally,we can not put all the blame in a guy or any man. It is the woman/girl's responsibility to take care of herself... better say...never indulge in any pre-marital s*x... or...she should be prepared to get pregnant and be a single mom once the guy backed out from responsibility/obligations.
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@lady1993 (16800)
• Philippines
20 Apr 11
Yeah, this act is done and agreed upon by two people anyway.. But in our place, the guy- most of the times, if they come from respected families..really has to marry the girl.. Yes ,both of them should be responsible..
• Philippines
20 Apr 11
Agree. We should all be responsible for everything we do and accept its consequences. As much as possible reflect on the possible consequences of any act that we do. For the women as well, unless you are prepared, do not let yourself be in such situations that might force you or someone else into big responsibility. It is much worse for the women in this situation especially if unprepared.
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@lady1993 (16800)
• Philippines
20 Apr 11
Yes, every one of us should always think before we act, and not rush into things. YEah, the consequence is definitely more difficult for us women, because what if the guy won't marry.. WE should be careful too.