Revealing the most kept secret

@sammy14 (834)
Philippines
April 19, 2011 11:55pm CST
What will make you spill out the most kept secret to someone.. What I mean is what do you see in a person or what do you want to see in a person to reveal this most kept secret in you... How long is this relationship going on before you are going to reveal this.
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tiina05
@tiina05 (2317)
• Philippines
20 Apr 11
hello, If I have a secret, and I have my boyfriend I will let first know him more and more until he will say some secrets to me that no one ever know. Actually, for me it is depends on the situation and the secret to reveal because sometimes it is really hard to reveal a secret that is confidential and a serious matters. right? But now that I am with my boyfriends since 2 years I know I can trust him that is why I tell him everything. good luck
sammy14
@sammy14 (834)
• Philippines
20 Apr 11
Thank you Tina... It really needs time to earn the trust and confidence of one person and so once you gain that then you can reveal your secrets to him and it should be gradual... and not revealing it one time!
ivane07
@ivane07 (76)
• Philippines
20 Apr 11
If I could see that the person is trustworthy, I can spill out my most kept secret. Our relationship should have been tested through time and surpassed a lot trials in our relationship.
sammy14
@sammy14 (834)
• Philippines
20 Apr 11
I agree with you Ivanne that the relationship should be time and tested before secrets should be revealed.. That person should be trusted with your life to speak of before you can do it.
paula27661
@paula27661 (15811)
• Australia
20 Apr 11
It’s hard to say…Aside from people who I am very close to and that I would trust with my life I have met folks who I get along with so well that I have been inclined to open up; it didn’t happen immediately but it did eventually . I think that there are people who have the ability to listen and encourage others to divulge intimate details about themselves in a short span of time.
genius277
@genius277 (535)
• Indonesia
20 Apr 11
For me secret will always be a secret. I will never reveal my secret to anybody, that's why its called a secret. If i tell you about my secret then its no more a secret for me.
rebel_woman06
@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
20 Apr 11
A secret is something that is to be kept known only between the giver and the recipient of the secret. Divulging of the secret to other persons by the recipient without the knowledge of the giver will mean a breach of trust. Relationships could be damaged irreparably when there is a breach of trust. So why divulge a secret if it means that.