How would you know if it's time to let go?

Philippines
April 22, 2011 6:28am CST
I've heard so many stories about break ups,the heartaches and holding on to one's relationship but still I can't find the answer to what I was looking for. I'm in a relationship right now and time was always our issue and I understand that he's quite busy and all but, what I'm feeling lately, these past few days doesn't seem right. I feel neglected and unappreciated. He doesn't text me, call me, nor want to see me anymore, it has already been 2 weeks since we last saw each other. The painful part was when he keeps diverting and rejecting my calls. I'm really hurt and confused right now. I just wanted to now when enough is enough? and Is it time to let go? =(
7 responses
maharlikah
@maharlikah (1045)
• Philippines
23 Apr 11
I think you need not to waste your time anymore...If he ignore you once, it is okay, if he ignored you twice it's another story, and if he ignored you many times already, I guess it's time to quit. He's not worth your care and effort. I hope you will be able to get even about what you are feeling towards the situation.
jojo732
@jojo732 (294)
•
23 Apr 11
Hi alex_rae If you feel there is something wrong,and if you are not happy,the best thing to do would be to talk to your partner,if he doesn't contact you,it could just be that he really is very busy,the only way to find out is to talk to each other. don't contact him for a couple of weeks,you know have a break some time on your own,spend some time with friends.If he contacts you talk..tell him how you feel...if he doesn't contact you...well I guess you know what that means...but only YOU can decide what you want to do next. jojo732
clocks123
@clocks123 (1225)
• United States
22 Apr 11
if you talked to him about how you are feelings and he dosen't care or want to change the way things are, yes, it would be time to say goodbye. you certainly don't want to be treated this way. you need to find someone who will really love you and want to be with you. i wish you the best.
gelayagui98
@gelayagui98 (1336)
• Australia
22 Apr 11
I know of no gentle way to break up. Whenever two people who have cared for each other part, they will suffer. But you can do something to soften the blow and prevent more serious problems during this difficult time. If you have doubts about your decision to call it quits, seek advice from someone you trust and respect. When we are emotionally upset, we often say and do things we regret later. Explaining the whole situation in detail will help clear your mind and the objective opinion of someone not emotionally involved in the situation often proves helpful.
mylabn
@mylabn (38)
• Philippines
22 Apr 11
It's time to let go if you have done everything to keep the relationship but it didn't work up. They said, there's a lot of ways if you want some thing, but a lot of reason for something you don't want to do.
szy19901031
@szy19901031 (4)
• China
23 Apr 11
We are not relutant in ralatinship.you can do what you like.something we choose valute it.the reason from it is quite important for us.but something you have to give up.I have no way to let everyone like yourself.so treasure you have owned . like this you will take
weqwew
@weqwew (37)
• Indonesia
22 Apr 11
you can assume that as a reason to let him go. because he's the one who not stand your relationship anymore. A lover can get together as long as they're feel comfortable each other, but in your case, it looks like you still hope for him but he ignores you. then my advice, leave him and continue your life.