Worst trait EVER!!!

@mommyboo (13198)
United States
April 22, 2011 5:37pm CST
What - in your opinion - is the worst trait you can think of in someone you would consider having a relationship with? Not just romantically, for friendship's sake? Is it a make or break deal - would you still be able to pursue a romance or friendship with the person or would it turn you off completely?
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@Kirinx (1693)
• United States
23 Apr 11
I think the worst trait a person could have in a relationship is the trait of being totally unfaithful.staying faithful is what holds up the relationship and without it as its the glue that holds everything together the relationship will crumble.I wouldnt date such a person at all.
@misterMR (797)
• Philippines
23 Apr 11
True. The trait of being unfaithful is the most common effect that could lead to a bad relationship. Which is really terrible.
@sashakiddo (1104)
• United States
23 Apr 11
Someone who talks a lot but doesn't listen. Someone who is nosy. I think these people are too insecure to be in a relationship. They need time to learn that people don't like conversations that only consist of listening. Conversations need to be a dialogue where there is a reciprocal process of listening and speaking, learning and education. People also need to learn at some point in their lives not to invade someone's space. I learned that the hard way, and I also had to teach that to someone as well.
@Kirinx (1693)
• United States
23 Apr 11
lol im a nosy person but i think when dating a person that you should know alot about them.dating blindly isnt wise.. I dont do the whole dating scene anymore but yea just my thoughts.
• Philippines
22 Apr 11
You know what? It really depends on your tolerance and patience.... If you love that person so much and willing to give up everything you have, then I should say fix it. But if you think the weight of his act is beyond your limitations then its time to let go and move on....
@Kirinx (1693)
• United States
23 Apr 11
well usually the way you meet people is the way they will stay.
• United States
1 May 11
the worst trait to have in my opinion is dishonesty I cant deal with liars! they cant be trusted I prefer not to waste my time on liars
@34momma (13896)
• United States
23 Apr 11
for me the worst trait ever is a liar. I mean how can you be friends or lovers with anyone who just can't be honest.. i can deal with and even over look some things, but someone who can't or won't be honest is a total deal breaker for me
• Philippines
23 Apr 11
For me it would be hard to have some one who is unfaithful. Another is being a talk trasher. I dont really want to have those kind of people as friends. I feel unsafe.
@misterMR (797)
• Philippines
23 Apr 11
I guess the one trait that is intolerable, except for unfaithfulness, is being inconsiderate. I really cannot stand those kind of attitude. Those who think the are superior. It's nice to tell them that they are just humans, they're not God.
@albert911 (169)
• Thailand
23 Apr 11
Everything to actions related to trust and faith would be definitively a deal-breaker. All other traits could be "digested" and tolerated to a certain extend. Unforntunately, as in new relationships these things are "muddled" and sometimes viewed thru the all pink coloured, all consuming glasses of LOVE. Only after years, people will learn what their partners are real made of.......
@ofabiania (421)
• Philippines
23 Apr 11
the worst trait for me would be a person who is insensitive.. insensitive is a general term.. those people who are insensitive to other people's feeling would probably be the worst.. they tend to only think of themselves and does not care if they hurt other people..
• Philippines
23 Apr 11
I cannot tolerate being boastful/too proud.
• Philippines
22 Apr 11
The worst trait that I could think of a person who I don't want to have a relationship with would be pretentious. There are a lot of people there trying to pretend to something that they are not. They tend to look down on others but they wouldn't look at themselves. I would much appreciate people who are down to earth and those who work hard for what they want in life.
@vader88 (33)
• United States
22 Apr 11
The worse trait i would say is probably shyness. I know it sounds harmless but ive had a relationship where I literally did 98 percent of the talking. And I dont talk very much at all im actually pretty dam quiet. Over time this can become extremely frustrating. You basically have to wear yourself out figuring out what to say.
@misc11 (384)
• United States
22 Apr 11
I would say trust. It is the one trait that can make or break any type of relationship for me. I think relationships should be based on trust, so without this, there is not anything. I think part of friendships is being able to rely on that person and be able to go to them if you have a problem, and you have to trust a person you would go to.