baby boy or baby girl?

@rhane7315 (5649)
Philippines
April 27, 2011 5:20am CST
if you were give the chance to choose a gender for your baby what would that be? for me, it doesn't matter whether my baby's a boy or a girl as long as my baby is safe, normal and healthy.
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13 responses
@gelayagui98 (1336)
• Australia
27 Apr 11
I agree with you but to have both is the best.
@sacmom (14192)
• United States
27 Apr 11
How exactly does that make it best? I myself have 2 boys. And for me that is best. I didn't need one of each to complete my family. It's complete just the way it is.
@rhane7315 (5649)
• Philippines
27 Apr 11
good luck with that :) thanks and happy mylotting! :)
• Australia
27 Apr 11
I already have three boys and longing for a baby girl- that's what I'm aiming for!
@yoniarnon (1079)
• Israel
27 Apr 11
I agree that the most important thing is that the baby will be "safe, normal and healthy" But if i could choose i want my first kid to be a boy, my be because i am a man and i would know more how to treat him than a girl. And if it will be a boy i could play with him more, run with him, play with a ball, teach him so fights moves and more.. :)
@rhane7315 (5649)
• Philippines
27 Apr 11
my hubby wants to have a baby girl instead of a baby boy lol i asked him why; his reason is that so he can doll her up lmao
@rhane7315 (5649)
• Philippines
27 Apr 11
btw, thanks for responding and happy mylotting! :)
@sacmom (14192)
• United States
27 Apr 11
I feel the same way. When I was pregnant with my kids I didn't care if my baby was a boy or a girl. So long as they were healthy I was happy. Happy mylotting!
@rhane7315 (5649)
• Philippines
27 Apr 11
yeah me too :) all i think was what to eat whenever i get hungry haha! thanks for responding and happy mylotting! :)
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@johnpillai (2082)
• Germany
27 Apr 11
Imn my society there was a hustom and habit: Parents like tohave boy as first child because the boy can take part in bearing the family burden. financially the boy is expeted to support the family. Because of this I wanted to have a girl as first child. This doesn't mean that i don't like boys. I didn't want my boy to bear family burden. I bleased with a girl as first chlild as I liked. then I got a boy as second child. Both are well planed children
@rhane7315 (5649)
• Philippines
27 Apr 11
wow that's great! my hubby has also a tradition like that that even having a baby boy as a first or second child they still bear the family burden when they grow up. they're also the ones responsible in taking care of their parents when they get old. thanks for responding and happy mylotting! :)
@whengcat (1457)
• Philippines
27 Apr 11
Well as for me, my wishes came true because I already have a girl and a boy. I'm so thankful too that they remain healthy as ever. What we're trying to do now is to work hard to give them a brighter future
@rhane7315 (5649)
• Philippines
27 Apr 11
lucky you :) i wish i could also have a baby girl next time :) well, its still ok for me if God would give me another baby boy as long as they're healthy :) how old are your kids anyway? mine is only 5 months old :) thanks for responding and happy mylotting! :)
@ckciasigurl (2081)
• Italy
27 Apr 11
i like a baby boy to take good care of her another siblings soon but as my friend told me i like to have a baby girl because i think a 1st child is more responsible if it is a girl so i think and decide even if a boy or a girl for me it is okey as long as my baby will love me and the baby is healthy no problem with me :)
@rhane7315 (5649)
• Philippines
27 Apr 11
yeah, that's right. as long as the baby will grow up healthy and fine :) also, as long as they respect and love us :) thanks for responding and happy mylotting :)
@secretbear (19448)
• Philippines
28 Apr 11
hi rhane! I would like to have a baby boy and a girl. Two children are enough for me. But that's impossible for me now because I don't have a husband yet.^^ I think having one boy and one girl for children is ideal for a family. Who is older and who is younger does not matter for me. I think either way, with the right bringing up, they will be sweet with each other.^^ My sister has a boy and a girl, the boy being the older, 6 years old and the girl is three years old. They are both amusing but they are annoying at times at the same time! But I just love them. It's good that I have them as nephew and niece because I don't know when I will have children of my own, and I'm not getting any younger! I sometimes think it's not for me and I think it's okay.^^ I'm pretty irresponsible anyway.
@maximax8 (31053)
• United Kingdom
29 Apr 11
I already have a 16 year old son, a soon to be 4 year old disabled son and a 22 month old daughter. If I was given the chance to choose I would like to have a healthy baby girl. My disabled son is a special one. He isn't normal due to a problem with his spine called spina bifida and has deformed legs plus feet. He has a shunt in his head to control the hydrocephalus. He isn't able to walk so he goes about in a wheelchair. Having my baby daughter is a dream come true and she is delightful. My teenage son really pleases me too. If I did have one more baby I would hope to have a baby girl.
@magrylouyu (1627)
• United States
21 May 11
I have 3 beautiful daughters and a handsome stepson I have been raising since he was 3 years old. To me it does not matter as long as the baby is healthy. I do how ever would like a baby boy of my own some day to raise from birth and up. If I never get that chance that is perfectly okay with me too. I am very content with my children I have now.
@rainmark (4302)
2 May 11
For me, it doesn't matter if it's girl or boy as long as they are healthy. But thank you Lord, i already have one each, boy and a girl and im happy about it!
@bingskee (5234)
• Philippines
28 Apr 11
the question is if i am given the chance, or the choice. if i have no other choice but to choose between a boy or a girl only, i will choose a boy. i have a first born who is a girl and the second one is a boy. i think it would be much ok to have a boy as a firstborn.
• Philippines
27 Apr 11
i already have 2 lovely boys, a baby girl is preferred next time. :) It would be nice if I can have someone i can doll. :)
@rhane7315 (5649)
• Philippines
27 Apr 11
me too, i already have a baby boy and we're aiming to have a baby girl next time :) Thanks for responding and happy mylotting! :)
27 Apr 11
I don't really mind, and I know I'd love my baby whatever gender it was but I've always had in mind that I want a baby girl. Not because I want to dress her up in pink, but I want the kind of bond that me and my mother have which is totally different to her relationship with my brother (not that she loves us any differently). So if I could choose, a girl :)