The day my heart die ...

@jaiho2009 (39034)
Philippines
May 1, 2011 12:14am CST
The story of Romeo and Juliet is one of those great story of two people who literally can't live without each other. TITANIC is another story of love and tragedy,but, Rose was able to love again after losing Jack. Have you ever experienced being in love and lost that person and till now you can't find it in your heart to love again? Or,are you afraid of loving because you feared too much to lose that love...and you can't afford another heartache. As the saying goes "it is better to have love and lost,than never loved at all" How painful is your experienced that keeps you away from trying to love again? Note: this is specific for loving someone ,(loving our family and loved ones is always given...they're always in our hearts.) [b]"when you go,i'll stop the clock i won't ever let this moment stop time is stealing you from me but it can never take this memory until the stars fall from the sky until i fond the reason why i'll find my way back you...by heart![/b] Have a great Sunday everyone Jaiho
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@ladygator (3469)
• United States
2 May 11
I also really like those stories. I think Scarlet Ohara was good as well. I have loved twice and then lost and now I am in love and staying that way I hope. I have been married and in love with my husband for 8 years now. And it was worth the risk. You learn from the heartbreaks I think.
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@jaiho2009 (39034)
• Philippines
2 May 11
hello lady, Yes,it's always worth the risk when we fall in love. I did it once in my life,i took all the risk and face against all the odds. But it never lasts,and i never regretted. thanks for your response and have a great day always
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• Philippines
1 May 11
Hi jaiho, My heart is willing to love again but the problem is no one is there to make my heart to beat again miss you happy mylotting
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@visavis (5945)
• Philippines
1 May 11
Don't worry my friend Mr right is always comes in the right time and right place just wait the see.... On the meantime enjoy discussing here until you find your mate... LOL just joking... see you around
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• Philippines
1 May 11
hi visavis, hahaha!i am not sad if he will come or not it doesn't matter being single is not that bad after all have a nice day!
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• Philippines
1 May 11
@bhaby... he'll come!
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@Kalyni2011 (3503)
• India
1 May 11
Why you feel so depressed? I feel sad too. if my elder son were not married i would have made you my daughter in law Jai beti, you look like my daughter Sunita Thank you so much for sharing the poem Happy posting, cheers. Namastey. Kalyani
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@jaiho2009 (39034)
• Philippines
2 May 11
Dear Kalyani, I am honored to be your daughter my dear mom...yes,your real daughter and not a daughter in law Thanks also for always being here dear mom...i really appreciate your presence. Blessing from you mother Happy Monday too
@jaiho2009 (39034)
• Philippines
15 May 11
dear maa, I choose your answer because you really have the heart of a great mother that always sees and wish happiness for her child
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• India
17 May 11
Hubby says you have some connection with us of past lives, we will meet one day, i have the faith too. Thanks for BR
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@visavis (5945)
• Philippines
1 May 11
Hello my friend, In real life being in-love and love is the complete definition of life more than anything. Those you mentioned are just example but in real life some are take their own life because of love (is it true love or what?) In my life once I felt in-loved but she rejected me so life must go on always until I found the real love of my life to my wife.. I just forwarded back below portion to you which I think experienced, how did you feel? Have you ever experienced being in love and lost that person and till now you can't find it in your heart to love again? Or,are you afraid of loving because you feared too much to lose that love...and you can't afford another heartache. As the saying goes "it is better to have love and lost,than never loved at all" How painful is your experienced that keeps you away from trying to love again? see you around
@jaiho2009 (39034)
• Philippines
1 May 11
hello friend, Nice to see you back again. How's your vacation so far?...sure it's one of the best days of your life Okay let me answer your query ,actually you never leave me with your questions hahaha..it's fine. Have you ever experienced being in love and lost that person and till now you can't find it in your heart to love again? yes i did,and i guess you've read some of of my past/previous topics stating all my heart/love problems right? it's not easy to give it a try ...thu...i hope i found the one (hmnnn) Or,are you afraid of loving because you feared too much to lose that love...and you can't afford another heartache. As the saying "it is better to have love and lost,than never loved at all" i am really afraid to lost another love,i tried to love someone before...but the fear of losing forced to end a relationship that haven't started... but,i am trying to open my heart...i just don't know if i am stronger to face the challenge this time. How painful is your experienced that keeps you away from trying to love again? again...it's in my previous topics...and i think you've read some of it my friend. thanks for your questions (hahahaha) Happy Monday
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@visavis (5945)
• Philippines
2 May 11
If you fear to try and try to love again you will fear to live with happy ending, we have old saying try and try until you succeed. The soldiers will become braved when they have wounds and try to survive... see you around
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@jaiho2009 (39034)
• Philippines
2 May 11
there is always an exception to the rule my friend... try and try until you succeed might not applicable when it comes to love... and a wounded soldier becomes more brave ,maybe it's true because he has no more option and he knows he's going to die soon. but love...the more it get wounds...it leaves scar and it might stop from beating. anyway...i am giving it a try now my friend and hope this time it's for real.. good afternoon
@CTHanum (8254)
• Malaysia
14 May 11
I believe in when we fall in love do not give your love 100 percent to your lover so we will not feel so much pain and hurt when the relationship did not work and your heart remain 'alive'~
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@jaiho2009 (39034)
• Philippines
15 May 11
hello CTH, You are right,not to give the whole of it and leave for myself. But,when i love someone i really gave my all...so the moment i lost that someone,i won't regret not giving all my best. if ever i lost that someone...i can say that...he is not my lost...but he lost me. thanks for your response and have a good day
@CTHanum (8254)
• Malaysia
15 May 11
I am not losing him but he's losing me~hehe..I like that. But make sure you don't feel sad like you won't regret not giving the best. Because usually the result is the other way round as people will get really hurt ,pain and feel really sad and heartbroken as they give everything till they had nothing at the end and start complaint they don't deserve that and it isn't fair.
@casualkT (141)
• Canada
1 May 11
My experience comes from my cold past - it's not because I loved someone by romantic nature.. those are my problems now. Before in school I would stay quiet and feel as though there was no connection or warmth. I may have crossed the line in being biased and refuse to care much about others.. as I went up grades people begin to find my behaviour different and such forced me to change. There was no love in me towards them and I would feel alone in the classes. That made me very skeptical of kind people I really wish that if I did like someone they would like me back - but I realized the trap I set ... I may not be really deserving to be loved as much as I may not be prepared for it. There are still a lot of emotional healing /damage from the memories that still linger in my mind.
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• Philippines
2 May 11
in order to open your heart to others, love yourself first. if you need to go thru self-healing, i hope you find it in your heart to one day be free to love yourself as you deserve to be loved and to have people to love you in return. tc
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@jaiho2009 (39034)
• Philippines
2 May 11
hello casual, So it seems that you deprived yourself from mingling with other people in your class. You never be friended with them is it? So,you hide yourself in your own make believed world. I know some people are like that. They lives normally,go to school and like crowd but never wants to talk or open their feelings and emotion to other people. One of my co-team mates is like that before,she tells us how she manage to get out from her shell and lives in real world. She says it's not easy,she never trusted anyone,not even her mother or siblings. But she was able to get through it when she met someone whom she fall in love with. She lost that someone,but the pain give her more challenge to discover the world and she made a lot of her losses...she enjoys her life now,with friends and hanging out with them. never think that you are not loved or you are not worthy to be loved. Every one has their own characteristics and uniqueness that made them lovable to other people. Keep moving on...find your place in this world and have a life. thanks for your response and have a great Monday
• Mexico
1 May 11
HGi jaiho: Most of the times. I think this makes part of my love story: to learn how to say goodbye to sopmeone that was important to you but you've noticed that you and this person have different ways. Everything was just like a dream. Some lovers have to walk through the hard way to find true love I think . Hope you are feeling ok right now and that you've found the right one for you. ALVARO
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@jaiho2009 (39034)
• Philippines
2 May 11
hello Alvaro, Part of your story? You mean ,you've been to heartaches too? Okay fine...just be strong and try to moved on and be the same again. Love is always a dream...wishing for the right person to come right? I hope i did find the right one now my friend...wish me luck and yes,i am feeling better now..so much better Have a great Monday
• United States
1 May 11
Love is alone so pure. Love and relationships it can quickly become complicated. Love is a double edge sword. Sometimes you love and that person doesn't love you back, or that person isn't real. His/Her heart doesn't feel the same. Then you have to face rejection and that sometimes can be very devestating if you weren't given the right tools, you tend to hate yourself or question why you werent good enough. My experience with love... Im currently in a bad break up, and some days i do feel I cant live without him, but the reality it wasn't mutual and he is able to live without me. So I have to love myself enough to move on and heal, and this time take better care of my heart and who I decide to entertain. Much Love... And I wish you the best
@jaiho2009 (39034)
• Philippines
2 May 11
hello erica, The rejection is the hardest part of breaking up or losing someone. Thu it doesn't mean that way as being rejected,it's still feel being rejected. One more thing is,the unending questions..the Why's without answer leaves someone in frustration. Some even lost their confidence and that's the reason why they feared of trying to get into another relationship,because they're afraid to be rejected again. It's takes a lot of courage,determination before someone can get away from emotional pains and will be able to get moving on again. thanks for your response and have a great Monday
@edsss17 (4398)
• Philippines
1 May 11
I tried to lie, deny, ignore, delude. But I can't lie to myself. How can I deny these feelings. Its hard to ignore, I can't delude my heart. -Edsss!
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@jaiho2009 (39034)
• Philippines
1 May 11
hello eds, Nice picture and i you are red also (hahaha) in love ? Of course,you can never deny when you are inlove,i can see it in your eyes no matter how you tried to hide it see...your eyes has those wobbling hearts (hahaha) thanks for dropping by my friend and be happy always
@kquiming (2999)
• Philippines
1 May 11
that was my thinking or mindset a few years ago....when i felt betrayed, hurt, and everything negative and associated with pain because of my ex.... but i guess as the saying goes, time heals all wounds , that has proven itself to be true to me... it took me a lot of time for me to overcome the awful experience.... and when i finally got over it, the recovery process began...the healing process was slow. but once it's over, i think it's easy to fall in love again. but this time with the right person.
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@jaiho2009 (39034)
• Philippines
1 May 11
hello kquiming, Time is a great healer. It's nice to hear that you were able to cope up with it. Don't worry,this always happens to people who really knows the value of love. I just wonder why some people are too proud and easy to cheat someone that loved them. Ahh,forget it...just keep moving on and yes,try to love someone who deserves your love and worth loving for. Thanks for your nice sharing and have a great Monday